FA/Feeder, UK, 32

Hi I'm a 32 year old guy (ish lmao) who's an FA and a feeder but who also likes being a little bit fat too. :) Mega nerd about many different topics Also autistic with adhd lol I use feabie as well, same name , FatAdmirer1993

[tumboodles]

toooooooo lazyyyyy

[fatadmirer1993]

This artwork is incredibly cute and incredibly hot. Reblogging cus people gotta see this masterpiece!

[fatadmirer1993]

Any uk based feedists want to chat? Bonus points if you're also queer and neurodiverse. It's likely, for some reason these three things seem to be linked, a hell of a lot of the community I've already interacted with falls in all three categories or at least two. Lol.

(Also anyone with adhd get those nights where you're hyper for literally no reason and don't feel tired until like, 2am and then suddenly crash? Me rn. Lol)

[fatadmirer1993]

I fucking hate this weight loss drug obsession our society has. Prior to that I always fucking hated the obsession with weight loss and hate of fat bodies our society has.

It's becoming more and more of a radical act to live as a fat person and merely be content with it, let alone actually enjoy it!

Imagine one day when the only obese people are those who choose to be because they're one of us feedists. What will happen then? I don't know.

One thing i can tell you.. loving other people's fat and my own was something I was born with. I have ALWAYS felt this way.

Also you could reword this entire post to be about gender non conformity or neurodiversity and it would read the exact same. Funny huh.

[fatadmirer1993]

I finally stood up for myself and said to myself...I absolutely can't ever have a relationship without feederism being one of the foundational pillars of it.

It's an extremely deep and core part of my identity that i keep trying to deny to please other people. I just can't lie to myself anymore. I can't live a double life. I can't pretend i don't love who I love and love being who i love being.

Feedism is part of who i am. Always was who i am, and will always be who i am.

I won't sit myself through any more relationships where I am not being my full true self.

I deserve to be sexually and romantically satisfied in my life.

I hope that others may read this and allow themselves to live how they want to live, too. Love who they want to love and be who they want to be.

All us feedists deserve to live our lives to the fullest as we desire to.

[fatadmirer1993]

FUCK FATPHOBES

This is really fucking upsetting how tumblr is on a crusade against us. It is literal discrimination.

Fat is part of your core identity if you're a feedee. and part of you default sexual attraction if you're a feeder like me.

We seriously need to protest this. either that or we have to find a new safe space.

tumblr has been a feedism safe space for me for so long, even before i made an account.

it's very distressing seeing safe spaces for feedism being censored and shut down. what will be the next safe bastion for us? bluesky? maybe?...

it's depressing to see tumblr turn against its own fucking users. being able to report someone for just being into feedism is fucking insane and it just shows whoever agreed to this change is a filthy fucking fatphobe.

Oh and a message to the haters, if fat people make you frightened, you're absolutely pathetic, eat shit.

[statisticalcats2]

It's actually completely ok to be attracted to a fat person because they're fat. You're not inherently disrespecting them by not ignoring and actively appreciating their fatness. You don't see the same level of scrutiny towards people who have preferences about hair color or height or facial hair. Having a preference doesn't mean you dehumanize people who have the feature you're attracted to.

When you're not forcing them to do or be anything they don't want to be, there's nothing inherently immoral about being attracted to specific physical traits.

Stop treating fatness as a trait that people are attracted to other people in spite of. Stop treating fat people like they're undesirable and any attractions towards them is inherently suspicious. Especially if you're acting like this is somehow for the benefit of fat people.

[fatadmirer1993]

I find this very helpful for getting over stigma.

[pocket-deer-belly]

what i'm supposed to hate myself for being fat? when at literally any moment i can grab my belly and shake that thang???

[pocket-deer-belly]

im literally so soft and grabbable why isn't anybody getting in on this shit. whoever told fat people to hate themselves is a joyless coward and will never experience eroticism

[fatadmirer1993]

This .

[jizztaco-deactivated20180417]

Hey I am on Feabie, but I am a closet BBW lover and don't wish to add a photo to my profile but I know girls won't message back if I don't have a picture. Any advice?

My advice is this: If you’re not able to admit you’re an FA without shame then you’re not ready to talk to girls.

People deserve better than someone who is ashamed to be attracted to them.

[hotfattygirl-deactivated2019022]

A LIL LOUDER FOR THE GUYS IN THE BACK!

People deserve better than someone who is ashamed to be attracted to them. 

[designerpastries]

A-fucking-men

[fatadmirer1993]

ALL THIS.

If you're a embarrassed to be seen with a fat partner in public you need to get over your Internalised fatphobia. It extends to shame over what you're attracted to as well!

Let it go.

[asumowannabe]

[softartemisart]

feedism is a very silly kink actually. why is making pasta turning me on

[fatadmirer1993]

Lol just remembered a thing that awakened my feederism. GTA 3 San Andreas, you can make CJ fat by making him eat at fast food restaurants.

I wasn't allowed to have this game as a kid, and I played it at s friends house.

Ha, i was very focused on that aspect of the game and my friend wanted to do something else but I was like, just wait a minute I find this funny....

[fatadmirer1993]

Internalised homophobia go away please!

I swear it's a lifetime job. Letting go of what our parents and society put in our heads.

It still makes me feel sick, angry and anxious every time I hear anyone say sexist, racist, homophobic and transphobic stuff. Oh of course ableism too.

I don't understand why anyone wants to be mean to other people based on things that are just their intrinsic identity things.

The next time I hear a slur used in context again I'm gonna scream.

[fatadmirer1993]

I've always been into feederism. I know it is literally my identity. I've known since I was very young, and I knew what it was since I was a teen. it's not just my sexuality (it is also that lol), it's part of who I am right deep down in the core.

It is part of who I am, and part of the type of person I want to be with.

I love fat. I love being fat, I love other people being fat. I love food, and other people who love food, getting fatter, and everything that comes with it. I love it deeply.

I have a deep, deep, primal desire for fatness.

Everything to do with it. Rolls, stretch marks, jiggling, softness, roundness..

The shape and feel and look of body fat is erotic to me.

More than that, it's aesthetically pleasing in a very deep way even beyond the sexual. It just feels right.

It's inherently queer, feederism, for me, too.

It's outside what most cis gendered straight people even think about.

For me, I cannot seperate queerness from feederism. It's part of my queer identity. to be fat is to be queer for me. Fat is queer.

It's part of my identity.

Fatness is part of who I am, and part of the type of person I want to be with.

Anyone else feel that way? I'd love to hear what you have to say.