Hello! We're the System32 System, and we go by Operator (they/them) collectively. Welcome to our MOGAI, NPT and Build A Headmate blog! Main is @system32sys-hub
We're somewhat unfamiliar with the communities listed above, but really love and adore what we've seen over the years. We hope to be a positive influence in helping people find their identity or feel more comfortable in it :]
We accept and encourage requests! They'll be messy and take a long time, but we'll get them done. If your request is vague, we'll complete it, but we can't guarantee it'll be the most accurate to what you want. However, if your request is rude we will not do it.
Our posts have no DNI, but we block radqueers.
BEFORE YOU FOLLOW...
There will be suggestive content on this blog - never images, but some text. If you are a minor and are caught interacting with inappropriate or suggestive posts, you will be blocked and reported. Block the tag "not safe for minors". We are pro-kink, pro-ship, and strictly anti contact.
When it comes to bodies, food, fatness and the like, we do not believe in health as a concept. This is elaborated upon in one of Marlin's FA posts. We are very strict about this.
We CANNOT do GFM or evacuation funds. We do not have the mental or physical processing ability to do these requests. We understand the privilege that comes with this.
Varibond is a term describing any relationships that go beyond the bounds of one's reality. This encompasses things like fictional others, objectum, godspouses, paracosms, plurality, schizospectrum experiences and much more.
A varibond consists of a primabond (person initiating bond) and one or more secobond (person receiving and/or reciprocating attraction). You can have as many secobonds as you want, going into teribond, tetrabond, pentabond, hexabond, heptabond, octabond, nonabond, decabond and more, or just use secobond.
Example: I have a platonic varibond with Garuda from Warframe. She does not exist in my reality, but Warframe as a world is very much real. I am the primabonder and she is the secobonder.
What Varibonding is:
Any bond that goes between worlds. Regardless of whether you perceive these worlds and their characters as real, fictional, or somewhere inbetween, you can still have a bond with them.
As serious as you want it to be. Some varibonds are completely inconsequential on the primabonder and secobond. Some varibonds are very impactful and have permanent impacts.
Outside of consent or nonconsent. The experience of varibonding is different for everyone, but it is simply not the same as a shared-reality bond. Things like abuse or harm can be undone, reversed, or "unthought".
Applicable to any orientation, gender, and type of attraction. Varibonds can be familial, platonic, romantic, sexual, sensual, alterous, and more.
Loose by definition. Varibonding is not meant to be policed one way or another so long as the rules below are followed. If someone is harming themselves or another, that is an interpersonal matter as much as it does suck.
What Varibonding IS NOT:
Reality shifting. Varibonding is not about sending yourself to or taking another from their reality, simply about interacting through worlds, be it with a middle world or directly peer-to-peer.
Wish fulfillment. You cannot varibond with someone in your own reality, such as a youtuber, streamer, artist, et cetera.
Necessarily "real". The crux of varibonding is that these people do not exist in our reality, at least not fully or in the same way we do. Being in an abusive relationship with a varibond is not the same as a shared-reality abusive relationship.
Enabling. If someone causes harm to shared-reality others through varibonding, the fact that they're this or that does not excuse this harm.
Tagging @radiomogai @accessmogai
ANYONE CAN USE but I personally am pro-ship, pro-endo, anti-contact, anti-radqueer, and anti-reality-shifting. Feel free to make additional terms, but know I might not see them or "take them under my wing" haha
A man and woman gender that is associated with adoration, godhood, and royalty, as well as rightful vengeance and cruelty.
It can be feminine, masculine, both, or neither, but cannot be separated from experiencing both manhood and womanhood, be it at the same time or on different occasions.
Proship and radqueer DNI, and do not involve this or us in discourse! Anyone else can use this identity.
(Image ID: a flag with seven horizontal stripes. The first and last three stripes go from a dark purple at the bottom and top of the flag and become a lighter purple the closer they are to the middle. The middle stripe is blue. There is a yellow halo and white angel wings with a yellow outline in the middle of the flag.)
Xenogenital is a form of altersex referring to individuals who wish to have nonhuman sex characteristics and/or genitalia, or individuals who prefer to conceptualize or imagine their sex characteristics and/or genitalia as alien or otherwise nonhuman. This can be any form of sex characteristics that are not normally found in humans. Imagining oneself with alien sex characteristics may reduce disconnect, dysphoria, or cause euphoria for the individual.
The term is commonly used by xenic and otherkin individuals, but anyone can use it, as not all xenic and otherkin people are xenogenital and not all xenogenital people are xenic or otherkin. This term could also be useful for non-human alters within systems.
Systems who identify with this may also call themself aivotsex. One who identifies as this may also fit the diffxeno label as well.
Subsets
This term is very vast in nature, and holds many possibilities for how one may visualize or desire their genitals, however some specific subsets exist and are listed below.
Astrogenital: someone who desires space-related genitals.
Cyberex: someone who desires a sex that is digital.
Faunagenital: someone who desires animal-related genitals.
Floragenital: someone who desires plant-related genitals.
Machinex: someone who desires a sex that is robotic, mechanical, and made of mechanical/robot pieces.
Morphisex: someone who desires sex traits that are able to morph, change, and/or retract.
The xenogenital flag was designed by Tumblr user fathermartinarchimbaud. The alternate flag was created by an anonymous wiki user.
a gender that is influenced by one's fatness, connected to one's fatness, or related to one's fatness, so much so that it becomes intrinsically intertwined with one's fatness. one who is fatgender's gender is experienced differently than a non-fat person. can be used on its own or as a modifier; e.g. fatboy, fatkenoine, etcetera
chubbygender/chubgender
a version of fatgender for those who prefer the term chubby instead of fat.
coined by us!
feel free to make subterms!
please do not repost our creations, or add them to any wikis. our terms and flags can be used by everyone!
when one is transitioning towards binary boygirlhood / manwomanhood and / or the concept of binary boygirlhood / manwomanhood. this can mean: one's gender may align with binary manhood, womanhood, boyhood and girlhood; one is transitioning towards binary manhood, womanhood, boyhood and girlhood; or however the user wishes to interpret it! one may replace "boygirl" and "manwoman" with any alternative term they use, so long as it means both a boy & a girl / a man & a woman.
pt: definition, when one is transitioning towards binary boygirlhood/manwomanhood and/or the concept of binary boygirlhood/manwomanhood. this can mean: one's gender may align with binary manhood, womanhood, boyhood and girlhood; one is transitioning towards binary manhood, womanhood, boyhood and girlhood; or however the user wishes to interpret it! one may replace "boygirl" and "manwoman" with any alternative term they use, so long as it means both a boy and a girl/a man and a woman. end pt.
In trans spaces there's something I like to call an "across the isle binary" and it's the result of a few different things..
An "across the isle binary" is the idea genderqueer people must transend to the "other side" of the (gender) isle to be truly trans.
[I'm in the hospital, I will do this better another time!]
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Term inspired by the phrase "reaching across the isle", just kinda stuck idk..
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Examples of what it may look like:
An AMAB nonbinary person must preform some sort of androgyny or (more commonly) femininity otherwise they have not transcended enough to be trans.
An AFAB genderfae is "too close" to where you started in the eyes of these people so they "aren't trans enough."
An intersex person being told their sex is (presumed to be) "too close" to their identitied gender to be trans
Policing how multigendered people express themselves and the language they use.
There are 4 categories in these people's minds:
• Cis female
• Cis male
• Trans woman/ transfem (male who is feminine enough*)
• Trans man/ transmasc (female who is masculine enough*)
You cannot transcend this binary. You are either cis, or One Of The Types Of Trans TM.
This is the isle. If you are Born A Girl TM, you must reach across the line enough. You must preform that "end of the spectrum" to be trans enough. And vice versa.
PROBLEMS WITH THIS:
Pt. 1 Reinforcement Of The Gender Binary
This places the Feminine/Womanly genders on one side and Masculine/Manly genders on the opposite side. They place man and woman as opposites inherently.
To enforce the idea that trans people are 'born on one side' and must transfer themselves across the isle enough to be valid is to enforce a gender binary.
Pt. 2 Enforcement Of The Sex Binary
This system cannot work without the sex binary. You must be male or female to 'start' on one side. Without being one or the other, you cannot 'transition' yourself enough away.
Sex is not binary. Sex in human bodies is a collection of characteristics commonly found together, we have a bimodal system. There's two big peaks of where things are commonly found, two buckets of traits.. But because of how humans develop, it is not binary. There is in between. There are people with mixed sex characteristics born all the time.
Intersex people are not born fitting into this male or female dichotomy. It does not matter if someone is forced through IGM or HRT to "become one sex". To believe that you can "fix" intersex anatomy is to support the same ideology that oppresses us.
It does not matter somebody's AGAB, what sex they're closest to, what sex they were "changed" into. These people are not that sex and enforcing the sex binary onto intersex people is to support the violence against us.
I won't get into it a lot here, but if people have questions about the effects of the sex binary you can ask me!
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You see the enforcement of the sex binary in this a lot when people say people who are afab/they assume to be female 'enough'/raised a girl CANNOT be transfem. Because they see that as starting in the same place. They ignore the experiences of intersex people to better fit us into this binary worldview.
EXAMPLE:
Even if you are closer to male, went through masculinizing puberty, were raised as a boy, if you are AFAB you are going to be regarded as a "fake" transfem. No reason other than the fact that you break the cross the isle binary. We do not fit into the sex binary, so it breaks the system.
Pt. 3 Exorsexism
This ideology commonly forces people into two groups. The AMAB NB, which is a person who is seen to be a future trans woman or trans woman-lite, and the AFAB NB, someone seen to be basically a trans man or trans man lite.
A Few Examples:
• When people kept headcannoning Ranboo as a trans woman
• People who use "transfem/transmasc" as the same as "trans woman/trans man"
Nonbinary people cannot seek validation in the community if they do not reject their presumed sex/AGAB and transend to the other side of the isle enough. They don't have to be binary, but they have to be adjacent in some way.
PT. 4 The Treatment of Multigender People and People With Complex Relationships With Gender
This screws over multigender people in a few ways.
A.) It enforces the social environment in trans spaces that you cannot be on both ends of the spectrum or slide around or anything. Or, at the very least, you cannot express both or have both be important parts of your identity. You have to abandon both the expression and the gender where you "originated" enough to be 'valid'.
B.) It ignores the fact not everyone's experience with gender will follow the This Side->That Side mentality.
A lot of people have a much more complex experience of gender. Especially when people still have a connection in some way to their 'original gender'. The trans dudes who say they used to be little girls, the trans women who still identitfy with masculinity, etc.
It erases these experiences and enforces A Shared Experience everyone has to have that doesn't give much 'wiggle room' at all.
Pt. 5 Enforcement Of Roles Of Gender Expression
Now, this is a multifaceted issue in trans spaces.
Masculinity is seen as "dangerous" in a lot of spaces because of how society aligns the gender roles, passing is seen as a whole issue. "Passoids are priveleged", anti Nonpassing trans person shit, etc.
But overall, if you present enough like the side of the fence you're supposed to be trying to move away from, you are treated poorly by trans spaces.
Truscum rhetoric, enforcing gender roles, etc. And, of course, this will always intersect with other issues. Like the hypermasculinization of POC.
But overall, this enforces you need to preform what side you should be enough. Gender is a preformance that is still demanded under this binary. You need to Put In Work to be the 'opposite' otherwise you are not really trans. Those "trans dudes with long hair and giant boobs" everyone loves to hate or those trans women who "look like a wojack" everyone loves to try and force out of the publics eye because they don't "look the part" enough or "try hard enough"
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Okay! So This is just a draft! I have a better essay working but I wanted to word-vomit a bit to get my thoughts out before my blood sugar took me away
theres a lot of different complexities to this but yea hope that all made sense and i covered enough bases vaguely enough. theres a lot you could say on this topic.
And all these issues can have a million more tjings said about them and the intersection between them i know.. i didnt have enough time to truly go through it all
Neomasculine (also known as neomasc, neoguy, or neodude) is a gender with a connection to masculinity, but in a non-traditional way, different from the way men and male-aligned people experience gender. Neomasculine challenges the concept of masculinity while being completely separated and incomparable to manhood and the concept of man as a gender or component of another gender.
Some common neomasculine experiences include:
- Having a brand new kind of masculinity that is not the same as the common or societal kind. Some may feel like it's not a "human" kind of masculinity.
- Feeling as if their masculinity is a very own kind of masculinity that can only be understood by themself.
Neoguys can still call themselves men, but not in a way that would be considered miaspec, male or male-aligned (unless they are multigender, demigender, genderfluid and/or other variations that include one or more miaspec, male and/or male-aligned genders). For example, they could use the word for self expression or because they also identify as man-related (though some people may have other reasons to do so.)
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Neofeminine (also known as neofem, neogal, or neodudette) is a gender with a connection to femininity, but in a non-traditional way, different from the way women and female-aligned people experience gender. Neofeminine challenges the concept of femininity while being completely separated and incomparable to womanhood and the concept of woman as a gender or component of another gender.
Some common neofeminine experiences include:
- Having a brand new kind of femininity that is not the same as the common or societal kind. Some may feel like it's not a "human" kind of femininity.
- Feeling as if their femininity is a very own kind of femininity that can only be understood by themself.
Neogals can still call themselves women, but not in a way that would be considered fiaspec, female or female-aligned (unless they are multigender, demigender, genderfluid and/or other variations that include one or more fiaspec, female and/or female-aligned genders). For example, they could use the word for self expression or because they also identify as woman-related (though some people may have other reasons to do so.)
