Struggles of a female INTP
“Are you tired?” “ Are you mad?” “You would look so much prettier if you just smile more”
“Girls don’t do that” Grown-ups would said every time you wanted to play with boys as a child, because climbing trees or a mud war was funnier than playing inside with barbies.
“Girls don’t do that” Most would say again when you want to pursue a career that is not typically “feminine” (I might be really stupid then. You see, I wasn’t aware that math had gender, somebody should have told me sooner)
Also not all intps like science some are history nerds or are artists
We do too enjoy make up. Tumblr stereotypes are bs sometimes. But we also enjoy a clean face and a simpler style
Having a 1000 ideas but usually too lazy to make them real
Seriously the only reason I buy clothes is because I’m dragged by my mom (enfp) or when I have an important event I can’t escape from.
Picking a science fiction/action movie over a romantic one (except perhaps Pride and Prejudice, 2005)
Face palm as you realize (too late) that he/she/them were flirting with you
Not knowing what to do with your life because you can’t decide. So many choices.
Did I already mentioned laziness?
“Did you know that octopuses…?” Randoms facts everywhere, every time.
Avoiding problems, emotions, people, you know, life in general. Until it explodes in your face.
Dating, most people (especially men) found you intimidating and unapproachable.
But not having trouble with being single, so it’s not like it bothers you much
People not understanding that you are not that interested in getting married and having kids
You prefer to focus in your job/studies and dreams
Resting Bitch Face. If a guy has it is cool and stoic. If woman has it then she must be a cold horrible witch that sacrifice puppies and kittens to the gods of death.
Trust issues, because you question everything and everyone it’s not easy to trust and be comfortable with someone.
The good thing is you can detect manipulative assholes a mile away. You might not notice if someone’s likes you but damn you know when someone lies.
So ambitious but, guess what? you are lAzY
Learning how to be disciplined is mentally painful
“I’m trying to sleep could you please shut up!” you at your brain at 2am
Socializing with three people and then feeling like you were walking through the Sahara desert
Emotions are difficult but (many agree if you ask) still having more awareness than tumblr stereotypes. This is because girls are encouraged/raised to develop emotional maturity and to pay attention to others perspectives instead of ignoring their feelings and ‘man up’.
So many questions, why? how? when? Some teachers hated you for this, others loved you
People thinks you are chill
You’re internally screaming 24/7
Or you have no idea what you are wearing, you just got dressed
As you can see now, we have a thousand contradictions
Killing with kindness sarcasm
(3 hours later after a social interaction) “Why the fuck did I said that?! Now they are gonna think I’m such a jerk”
Secretly wants to be liked and accepted, *will die before admitting it*
Fanfic trash, don’t even deny it
Struggling when people don’t understand that you don’t enjoy physical contact unless you are the one initiating it
Questioning if there’s something wrong with you (especially in high school) because you don’t behave, think and feel like the typical bubbly, nurturing, social and sweet stereotype of a woman
Being called a heartless bitch at least once
It takes a long journey to accept that it’s okay to not be what society expects from you as a female
But once you are in peace with that nothing will stop you
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