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cosmic horror (god loves you too much and keeps resurrecting you)

cosmic soap opera (god loves your boyfriend too much and everytime you die it basically breaks him so god has to resurrect you even though he's really annoyed about it)

aleriya-darling

jakeperalta

not using AI genuinely feels like the rest of the world is experiencing some kind of mass amnesia. if someone says they never use it, the immediate response is that can't be true because "everyone" uses it to write their emails or answer their questions. saw a comment suggesting that not using chatgpt to write an essay is "like the 90s". girl I graduated in 2021 and we weren't doing that! how is it that everyone has suddenly forgotten that they were entirely capable of doing these things all by themselves for their entire lives up until the past few years!! am I going crazy!!!

fightingthemelody

So, I made an edit of the 'Na Na Na (Na Na Na Na Na)' music video :> it's not the best, but I'm terrible at editing, so I'm kinda proud :D

fightingthemelody

Reposting this cuz I'm genuinely proud of it ❤️‍🩹

fightingthemelody

Okay so as we all know (probably not), I'm polyamourous.

I have a partner (⭐), and a boyfriend (💫). Originally, I was in a relationship with one person, who I'm not gonna name or give an emoji or whatever. We're both poly, both happy. ⭐ starts to like my boyfriend, okay, fine. I break up with said boyfriend for personal reasons, they stay together. Again, I don't mind. Then me and ⭐ get into a relationship, we're happy. I start dating 💫, and all of a sudden, ⭐ likes them. Now 💫 is considering dating them, but I don't know how I feel about it. It's not about him being with ⭐, but ever since I met ⭐, they've ended up liking/being in a relationship with someone I'm in a relationship with. I find it annoying. Idk if this is bad or not, please help me gng 🥹🙏

figs-and-cigs

I had a partner dating someone I'd be pining over for a long time. When I brought it up he originally said he wasn't comfortable with it, they other partners are on his "messy list."

A messy list is an agreement or boundary list you have of who you don't want partners to date or you won't date. To clarify it's not about control (like, "don't date Jessica because I don't like her"), but rather to eliminate potential conflict. I would be uncomfortable if my partner dated my sister, or a coworker, or my best friend because that dynamic would impact my life and relationship in a negative way. My partner didn't say I couldn't date the girl he was saying, but they if made him uncomfortable and he doesn't like that conflict that can come with two of his partners are dating.

We broke up, remained friends. My hubby started dating the same girl I'd been interested in. I asked him the same thing and he said go for it - but the agreement was to keep our relationships with her separate/parallel. Each relationship deserved its own space to evolve on its own. There was definitely quite a bit of jealousy and envy floating around in that situation. I'd talk about him, she'd feel envious, he'd talk about her, I'd make comparisons I didn't want to. We worked through them, but when those relationships naturally came to end we decided not to date each other's partners ever again.

Meanwhile I did have a long relationship with my other partners gf for a while. But he's a comet (isn't around often) so it wasn't like we were so entangled with each other that there was any crossover.

It's OK to not feel comfortable with your partner dating your other partner. It's also totally ok to say that, and discuss what it would look like and what agreements could be put in place to make it ok.

fightingthemelody

Thank you! I get really worried about being too controlling due to past things, so stuff like this helps. It just felt a bit odd that they dated every partner I had since meeting them (other than sm1 they didn't know). Thank you for explaining what a messy list is, that'll be helpful for future reference :3

Okay so as we all know (probably not), I'm polyamourous.

I have a partner (⭐), and a boyfriend (💫). Originally, I was in a relationship with one person, who I'm not gonna name or give an emoji or whatever. We're both poly, both happy. ⭐ starts to like my boyfriend, okay, fine. I break up with said boyfriend for personal reasons, they stay together. Again, I don't mind. Then me and ⭐ get into a relationship, we're happy. I start dating 💫, and all of a sudden, ⭐ likes them. Now 💫 is considering dating them, but I don't know how I feel about it. It's not about him being with ⭐, but ever since I met ⭐, they've ended up liking/being in a relationship with someone I'm in a relationship with. I find it annoying. Idk if this is bad or not, please help me gng 🥹🙏

#polyamory #polyamory problems #help #genuine question #please answer #please #idk what else to tag

acvoice

Supernatural but Dean’s name is Deanna. He still goes by Dean, but Mary decided not to change her mother’s name to a male equivalent.

Every angel uses the name Deanna. Deanna Winchester, the righteous man. Alastair taunts him with with it. Deanna, daddy’s little girl. Cas is the only angel to call him Dean. He doesn’t understand why names have a gender, but respects Dean’s wish.

John uses “Deanna” when he is mad at Dean. At that, Dean shuts down, and Sam tries his best to comfort him. Sam understands how much the name means to him. Usually, Dean doesn’t let anyone degrade him using that name, doesn’t allow people to call him names and snicker. With John, he goes quiet, obedient. Sam hates to see him so defeated.

Dean has a complicated relationship with his name. It’s girly, it’s embarrassing, but it is also one of the only things he has left of his mother. Everyone seems to think it’s a weakness to exploit, a psychological weapon to use against him. He doesn’t know what to make of it.

When Mary comes back, he lets her call him Deanna. From her mouth, it doesn’t sound malicious at all. Instead, it’s full of love, rememberance for her own mother she lost, and for the new life she created. To her, Deanna is not a girl’s or boy’s name, it’s just a name — the name of her son.

At the end of the day, Dean thinks, it was only ever meant to be said by her.

uh-ohspaghettio

Destiel is abuse. KYS. 🥰

lzbth-deactivated20150219

swag won’t pay the bills but apparently neither will your degree

mystifiedstars

babe wake up we got a jared padalecki "so get this" directed at jensen ackles in the year 2026

uh-ohspaghettio

Sam Winchester is a whole new level of freak and I love that about him <3

novakstogive

"I hate this thing." SUPERNATURAL — 1.04 "Phantom Traveler"

slcpunkmoved

why are you as a man "cocking" your gun ? so you can "shoot a load" into another man ??

slcpunkmoved

who is dean winchister

syzygy-yzygy

If your friend is struggling, the signs might not be obvious. A cry for help can take many different forms. Try checking in on them if you hear them express any of the following sentiments:

I miss Supernatural

I should rewatch Supernatural

Supernatural was such a good show

I hope they make more Supernatural