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@finallyspeakingmymind
I’m less of a “how do we teach boys and men to gain consent from their sexual partners” kind of fun feminist and more of a nihilistic party ruining “let’s talk about if women are even able to grant meaningful consent in their current social status” bog hag kind of feminist
i read the sentence “abusers groom their character witnesses as carefully as they groom their victims” (in a comment thread in response to a “but i know [the accused] and hes such a nice man!!”) and it’s blowing my mind a weird amount even though i guess i already knew that
It’s true and everyone should say it.
Not to mention devaluing the absolutely essential work that sanitation workers do.
Sanitation workers are true unsung heroes -they do jobs others want done but don’t want to do themselves.
male entitlement in academic spaces is so boring. can’t tell you how many times i’ve been in a class and a girl gives a short, insightful analysis, and then a dude raises his hand and says “jumping off of that…” then says literally the same thing she said but longer and worse.
I hate to be that guy, but it doesn’t just happen to women. The assholes who do that will do that to anyone who’s analysis isn’t sufficiently complex and long winded for them.
Been done to me by people of both genders.
Also I have been guilty of doing this, so I apologize. Because I was overly excited and just couldn’t wait to talk…. yeah.
(Nothing is ever clear cut eh….)
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I had my “not like other girls” phase in middle school - so glad I overcame that. I’m delighted that I’m like the girls and women around me, because the girls and women around me are incredibly unique and powerful!
everything women do in bathrooms and changerooms: is a porn category search term
men: installing cameras in women’s bathrooms so they can jack off to women peeing later
news reports: man caught filming 15 year olds in changerooms
liberals: umm why don’t you want mixed sex spaces like no one would ever abuse this lol don’t be paranoid??? 😇😇😇😇
for people who don’t even wash their hands after using the bathroom, men are awfully concerned with the ‘health’ of fat women
Girls 18, 19, and in their early twenties should be able to venture into and get a grasp on adulthood without grown men taking advantage of their naivety
I just want people to care more about girls. We already barely get any protection from adult men when we’re underage, and that protection just completely disappears once we’re 18.
We turn 18 and they fucking descend on us like hounds scratching and snarling for meat.
she’s right and she should say it
you’re also covered up because men view you as property/an object not to be consumed by other men, and the men in your culture fetishize your “purity” :/
Yeah she’s right but like……sis the irony
It’s like patriarchy dehumanises women, but takes different specific forms in different cultures…
I love genuinely innocent “boys will be boys.” Just saw a guy come out of a frat house to poke a pair of jeans they’d left outside - they were frozen solid, and as soon as he confirmed that, like twenty more boys came rushing out of the house going “YOOOOOOOOOO”
I heard grunting outside my window the other night and there were four boys struggling to push this giant snowball (like 7 foot diameter) down the sidewalk.
I once lost my keys at a frat house.
My drunk ass had actually walked home without them, pounded on my apartment door, gotten let in by my rightfully-disgruntled roommate, and proceeded to pass out on the couch. Apparently I puked in the toilet before passing out. I do not remember this part.
The next morning, I schlepped back to the frat house. I stood there, right in front of the front door. This was a novel experience for me. I’d never been at a frat house in broad daylight before.
A boy, presumably, of the house, asked me what I was doing.
“I lost my keys in here last night,” I called back. “I was seeing if I could go in and look for them?”
He opened the door and gestured for me to come in.
“Go wherever you want.”
I’d never seen a frat house post-party before. Wandering up the stairs and through the halls, I was surrounded by hungover and still-drunk frat boys stumbling around in their socks and sandals and gym shorts, seeking out food and showers like moths to a porch light. A few of them threw puzzled glances my way. I’m sure they thought I was some post-bacchanalia hallucination.
I entered one room where a boy was drunkenly watching some Old Yeller-esque movie on a tiny TV in the corner of his room from his bed.
“Do you like dog movies?” he asked, voice all mumbly from grogginess and also from the fact that his face was squished against his pillow and half-buried by his blanket.
I told him I did.
He mumbled again, pleased, and asked what I was doing. I told him I was looking for my keys.
“Sorry, I haven’t seen any keys around here.”
I didn’t doubt him.
Twenty minutes had passed. I’d searched just about every bedroom and nuclear-waste-dump-site of a bathroom in that house. I’d given up on ever finding my keys and was prepared to beg my roommates’ forgiveness and get a new set copied.
As I stood there in the hallway, silently bewailing my predicament, a particularly-burly frat boy approached me.
“You need help with something?”
“I lost my keys here last night and I can’t find them, I’ve looked everywhere.”
“What do they look like? I’ll put it into the group chat.” He was already pulling out his phone.
No one ever checks a group chat, I thought, but what the hell. It was worth a shot. “Um, it’s just a ring of keys. The keychain is a pink plastic cat, though, like yea big. Like bright pink, you can’t miss it.”
He nodded, presumably typing this description faithfully into the group chat.
“Alright, I sent the message out. Good luck.”
And with that, he turned and left.
A few moments later, I heard a distant thundering. It was coming from upstairs, and it was getting louder and louder. One assumes that how I felt in that moment was how Simba felt seeing the wildebeest stampede through the ravine as a horde of large young men all thundered down the stairs, making a beeling for me.
“Someone tell the girl!” One of them shouted, faceless in the mob. “Girl! Hey, GIRL!!! We found your keys, girl!!!”
They circled around me. I hadn’t felt that small since I was maybe eleven years old. One of them split himself off from the crowd.
“Are these -” he pulled out a ring of keys from his pocket, “your keys?”
And lo, there was the distinctive bright millennial pink cat keychain dangling off the ring.
“Yes,” I whispered. “Oh my god, yes.”
“EYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!”
The cheer went up.
Turns out he found them in the bathroom upstairs. I thanked them again profusely. There was a scattered round of “no problems” and then, just as suddenly as they descended, they all dispersed, like ships in the night.
This thread. This is what “boys will be boys” really means.
Yes, this, please. Please let us spread the wonderful sweetness that boys can have. It is truly marvelous, and it needs to be acknowledged more, and encouraged.
The victim told cops that she got pregnant from the man seen in the video and he took her to the clinic to have an abortion.
Hey users of Porn Hub: can you swear that you never watched any videos featuring this child?
Pornhub also hasn't taken down any of the Girlsdoporn videos even though the people behind the company are being charged with trafficking.
Oh shit can I get some sources? I could really use them in debates!
sources for what
People in their twenties be like. My interest include drugs. Drinking. Tv series. Uber eat. causing and then resolving Interpersonal issues
How much you weigh?
I’m a 6ft tall guy but nice try
men’s loyalty to violence is disturbing. when women want a life free of abuse, assault, threat, & coercion, men’s first suggestion is “learn to fight back. learn to defend yourself”. i don’t want my life to be a fight. i don’t want to “prove myself” through inflicting pain & fear. i don’t find violence and physical conflict fulfilling or self-actualising. they’re exhausting & dehumanizing
So… Vice is posting articles on how lesbians can give blow jobs and pretend it’s a woman. How we can grin and bear it.
Right… to the people who brought this down on us, I hate you. I hate you in the deepest fiber of my being. Don’t talk to me. Don’t look at me. I don’t want to hear you, see you or know you. You are dead to me. Walk TF on.
Us liberals like to talk about triggers. You know what’s triggering? Telling lesbians to grin, bear it and suck. I hate every last person that brought us here. I hate you with every last fiber of my soul. Do you have any idea how many of us have been raped? How many of us have heard those words? God, I hate you all.
The terfs were 100% correct about those sick, abusive, proto-rapist fucks and their enablers. I’m sitting calmly on my bed gritting my teeth, because if I were to anything else there would be tears and screams of rage. I doubt I was the first or the last lesbian to see that headline and feel the anger of years of abuse welling up inside.
Also, the article is worse. The article is motherfucking flashbacks worse. Don’t fucking ever talk to me again if you support any of this shit. Just fuck off.
Now I understand how people get to a GetTheLOut point. Y'all take your fucking alphabet and shove it. Alphabet solidarity is not worth the mental health of people who’ve had dicks shoved down their throats. Come talk to us when you know what that feels like.
you’re not being forced to date or have any kind of sexual relations with a woman with a penis. you literally don’t have to if you don’t want to.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, it’s just that we’re pushing you to.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, but you’re a transphobe if you don’t want to.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, but it’s literal violence against trans people if you don’t accept them into your dating life because of your gential fetish.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, but you should critically examine why you only want to have sex with one type of genitals because that’s transphobic and exclusionary.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, but same sex attraction doesn’t really exist because people are attracted to gender and not sex and people who are ’same sex attracted’ are just disgusting genital fetishisers/TERFs/TEHMs.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, but we will continue to push you to question why you don’t want to until you accept them into your dating life.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, it’s just that we’ll insult you and label you a TERF/TEHM if you don’t want to.
You literally don’t have to if you want to, it’s just that because this makes you a TERF then we’re going to send you insults, rape threats, and death threats because of your hate and violence towards the trans community.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, but we’ve made conversion therapy progressive now so you should want to unless you’re a genital fetishising TERF/TEHM.
You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to, expect that you should want to.
’You’re not being forced to date or have any kind of sexual relations with a woman with a penis’ is what we’ll tell you after being shown receipts of the times when we’re doing just date.
’You literally don’t have to if you don’t want to’ is what we’ll say to you -the person being attacked- rather than taking down the homophobia within our own community. It’s best for lesbians and gay men to know that they’re not being forced into anything (despite the obvious posts and articles which are forcing them to accept people they’re not attracted to into their dating/sex lives) rather than to tell people who makes the comments in the first place that they’re being homophobic.
This is what the trans community does.
^^^^^
This guide will be useful to Americans when we need to protest
