Hi, I’m pretty new on here, especially in not being a lurker ^^”. You can call me Snow, Nieve(s) or Neu(s), at your convenience. I apologize for my essay length intro post in advance ^^””; it’ll probably be one of the longest intro posts you’ve ever seen ^^”.
My preferred pronouns are: They/Ze(Ze/Hir)/He/She/Any and All, in that order of preference, but I do want people to use other pronouns every once in a while (read: it/its, neopronouns (ex: xe/xem, hy/hymn, etc.) and xeno or ‘noun’ pronouns (ex: blue/blueself, star/starself, etc.). No shi/hir, I’m not intersex, I can’t reclaim those. I don't feel I can reclaim those as I don't have ambiguous genitalia, other intersex people can do what they want forever.
How to use them: “I saw them reblog my post today, she seems to be getting more comfortable doing so lately, although ze is still not so good at making hir own posts yet, I hope he gets more comfortable voicing its thoughts, showing hymn own art and expressing starself.”
My preferred pronouns in Spanish and Catalan are: Ella/Él/Elle and Ella/Ell/Elli respectively.
How to use them: “Ella me escribió el otro día, me contó que estaba cansado pero contente.” (Spanish). “Ella em va escriure l’altre dia, em va explicar que estava cansat però contenti” (Catalan)
I’m perisex intersex CT[ASAB]A, and, as I’ve stated on my description, my ASAB is none of your business and will only be stated as I see fit and if it’s relevant to a conversation. No, you will not obtain it in roundabout ways, aka asking wether I’m TME or TMA, as that terminology is completely unhelpful, intersexist, racist, exorsexist, and transphobic because it’s basically the woke version of ‘what’s in your pants?’ and is usually used to silence transmasc’s, otherwise-not-binary-people’s (like me) and transfems-who-don’t-agree-with-them’s voices; and no, it’s not transmisogynistic to disagree with this terminology.
My gender is very complex, much more than my profile pic insinuates. The most simplified but expansive version is this: I’m a trans (transneumasc(femxen)) demi polygender (for simplicity’s sake, i’ll specify trigender, although it would be more correct to say I have 12+ genders xd) fluidflux nonbinary with a side of xenic person. My 'overall' label, as I would call it, is demi (because, even on the days my genders feel the strongest, they barely reach 'demi' levels of connection lmao) nonbinary, to use with people who have no knowledge of multigender people, and also as a way to oversimplify my gender, because, even if I simplify it to the max (demi polygender fluidflux and slightly xenic) it's pretty clunky and I like having a label to kind of put a name to my overall gender.
When you say “men dni”, “women dni”, “enbies/other genderqueer dni”, “men only”, “women only”, “enbies/other genderqueer only” , and similar statements, remember me. You are actively excluding me and other people like me. Do better.
Gendered terms for me: use them all, create chaos! I also like a simple 'person', and you'll probably see me use this term more as to not de-gender myself and not have people assume stuff. Basically, call me: girl, woman, girlie, girlypop, boy, man, dude, gal, enby, enban, xip, xenan, dudette, androgyne, bitch, bastard, cunt, dick… Anything you can think of! For compliments (pretty, handsome…) it's the same, I don't really care. For Spanish and Catalan, the same, give them all to me!
It's pretty difficult to misgender me, as I basically use all pronouns and identify with a lot of genders. As I saw here once (I don't remember their blog name, sorry ^^", but they're connected to @/velvetvexations, if I remember correctly (I don't have a very good memory, sorry ^^"): you can only misgender me if you care about that, if you don't: congratulations! You have genderd me Correctly and there's nothing you can do about it >:D!
I do not like being called a trans man/woman all that much, same with nonbinary (trans) man/woman, please us transmasc/transfem if you have to label me.
Do NOT call me a 'theyf@b' [Pt: theyfab] or ‘tr@nstrender’ [Pt: transtrender], unless you're doing it affectionally or jokingly/sarcastically (ex: "look at us theym@bs/tr@nstrenders [Pt: theymabs/transtrenders], so scary 😱😱😱😰😰!!1!1 /silly/jk/sarc/etc.). I feel the same for other trans slurs (ex: tr@nny [Pt: tranny], tr00n [Pt: troon], etc.). Similarly, don't call me a f@g(got) [Pt: fag(got)], or dvke [Pt: dyke], I'm not gay or a lesbian, it's not a reclaimable slur for me. Call me queer all you like tho, I like the word. Edit addition: do not call me herm@phrodite [Pt: hermaphrodite] or fvt@(nari) [Pt: futa(nari)], even though I'm intersex, I don't have the type of genitals these slurs are implying (do not come at intersex people without ambiguous genitalia for reclaiming those), and they kinda have sexual undertones (the f-slur is a porn category), which makes me Uncomfy lol.
I'm a loveless AroAce. I’m also very sex-repulsed and slightly(?) romance-repulsed, but I’m sex positive (aka sex isn’t bad, it’s an action without morality if it’s completely consensual, in my opinion).
I’m white and I’m from Spain, specifically Catalonia. I speak Catalan (my mother tongue), Spanish (native speaker), English (I have a C2 certificate) a pretty good bit of French (I have a B1 certificate) and I’ve found I can parse a bit through romance/romantic languages too.
I’m physically disabled: I have ‘C’-shaped scoliosis that’s around 25º, and I probably have a thing or two more, but I’m not diagnosed so-.
I’m missing my vegetations and amigdales (? ‘vegetaciones y anginas’ in Spanish) because they were too big.
I’m neurodivergent (gifted (Wow, do I hate this term); no, I will not take ANY criticism with regards to labeling myself neurodivergent), please use tone indicators and be patient with me if I haven’t answered your ask yet.
I probably have prosopagnosia/face blindness, don’t ask me to recognize real people, I probably won’t, and don’t pay enough attention to celebrities and other famous people to do so.
I’m probably depressed (can you therapy depression away? Even if the answer is yes, I don’t feel like I got rid of it lol), and I probably have a bit of anxiety.)
I have a pretty strong phobia of medical needles and stuff like that, and a milder phobia of blood (not triggered by period blood, generally), so please put a trigger warning, particularly on photos/videos, thanks.
I’m a bit of a fandom hopper, especially because I don’t have the attention span to fully read/watch something. You can ask me about Percy Jackson, Mha/Bnha, Demon Slayer, Welcome to Demon School Iruma-kun, Kuroko no Basket, Inuyasha, Naruto and probably more I’m forgetting, as these are just fandoms where I can remember/have read/watched all/a lot of the source material, but you can certainly come scream at me about other fandoms, I’ll listen even if I have 0 idea what you’re talking about.
I draw, although mostly on paper and not too often, so you probably won’t see much of my art, although I hope one day I regain my passion for it and start actually learning to draw digitally (maybe having a blog will help me? Idk).
New University student, studying to become a marine biologist.
Please, don't send me asks asking for donations, I don't have the energy or time to make sure you are vetted and I don't have my own money to help, but I'll reblog stuff.
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I'm not jewish, but don't be antisemitic to random jews, not even if they're being bigots, dumbasses or generally problematic, two wrongs don't make a right and it's still bigoted to be hateful of someone you don't like because of their minority status, it’s not helping anyone and you’re just hurting people; I’d certainly hope you wouldn’t start calling a transphobic (for example) black person the n-word and being generally racist :/. Be respectful.
DNI: I don't really have one, because people will ignore it anyways, but if I fit yours, why are you interacting with me anyways? Be warned: I block freely and liberally and you won’t make me unblock you unless you change your views.
I don’t have anon on, I apologize to anyone who’s too shy to say hi without it, but if people are gonna hate (and they’re going to, I have Opinions people don’t always like (ex: transandrophobia is real and you’re just perpetuating it by denying it, and binary privilege is real, actually), and I’m part of various minorities (if someone doesn’t send me hate for my sexuality, my gender(s), my (assumed) ASAB, my neurodivergence, my disability or the fact that I’m catalan at some point, I’ll be surprised)), they’re gonna do it with their full chest so everyone can see it.
Ps: I apologize for any typos or weirdly worded sentences, as I’ve stated, English isn’t my first language.
