Informal terms I thought of: ambi/ambidick, cone, dlit, cliph, phalit, (feel free to add your own)
Refers to a genital tubercle structure that is too large and virilized to be considered a clitoris but too small and not virilized enough to be considered a phallus. All forms of ambiguous external genitalia (safe for agenital presentations) involve a clitorophallus.
Mac from Date Everything is intersex and canonically disabled (wheelchair user), pansexual, and non-binary using they/them pronouns, and they have ambiguous genitalia consisting of a shallow vagina & clitorophallus, the latter of which they call a "click" (clit/dick + computer pun), amastia, and muscle hypotonia— the lattermost of which contributes to their need for a wheelchair! They are headcanoned to have autism, C-PTSD, C-DID, and both Borderline and Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (BPD & OCPD).
Is it intersexism to want ambiguous genitalia? I’m nonbinary and mullerian perisex, but wish I had a clitorophallus and I kinda worry that makes me an intersexist… :(
Not at all!!! It's completely normal, and in fact, there is a term you may like if it helps you understand more about your desired transition: altersex [link]
I would be cautious on the terms you may use (from what I've seen, terms like clitorophallus, micropenis/microphallus, ECT. Are exclusive to intersex people, but terms like clitoromegaly in the right context are okay to use) but there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting ambiguous genitalia, or any trait that intersex people naturally develop!! Sex and gender aren't binary and you can do what you want forever and ever, anon!!!
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Androgynos Hamah: a person whose sex is described as possessing both or mix of sexed characteristics, through natural development. Androginos hamah is usually assigned to intersex variations with mixed genitalia, but can be used for other variations of the ambiguous spectrum.
Note that this is just my *personal* attempt to define androgynos hamah, this definition isn't carved in stone. Even though adam and hamah are usually only used along with saris & ay'lonit, proposal to expand the hamah/adam distinction to androgynos and tumtum has been made, thus creating distinct gendered and sexed subcategories for each gendered sex.
This term is of a physical nature: they depend upon your physicality, and serve a legal purpose in Judaism. However, anyone Jew can use these terms, regardless of their spiritual practice.
Made mixing the flags by desactivated Tumblr user bigfootrights (link), and the ones made by Tumblr user gendertreyf (link), adding on top the intersex Jewish symbol made by desactivated Tumblr user sproutflags (link).
Is it bad that I make jokes about having a micropenis when I don't have one? It's mainly pointing out the "phallo-meter" or whatever that ruler I've seen around that determines weather someone's clit/penis is a clit or a penis, and I've always make it obvious I don't have actually have a micropenis/tell this joke to people who already know I don't have a micropenis. Dose it still fall under "perisex people pretending to be intersex" or "making negative jokes about micropenises" if I'm not pretending I actually have one and I'm not making a negative joke?
Context [link.]
Micropenis is only an intersex trait when describing ambiguous genitalia or penile agenesis, penile hypoplasia, or congenital buried penis - however, it does have a very intersex-heavy implication behind it.
I suggest you read this post [link] for the nuances of the term, and when it is appropriate to use.
There's nothing wrong with calling your small phallus a micropenis, so long as you aren't doing so with the intent of mockery, deprecation, or avoiding coming out.
What I would call bigoted, however, is you joking about the phallometer. The phallometer doesn't actually accurately represent what the difference between a clitoris vs penis is - it only represents how gender assignment is done. It was made to showcase when to perform IGM on intersex infants.
Gourmand from Rain World is intersex, and their variation is Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia (CAH) with hyperandrogenism and ambiguous genitalia consisting of a clitorophallus and labial fusion!
Clawdeen Wolf from the Monster High franchise is an intersex genderfluid omnisexual & omniromantic hypersexual (link) futch using any pronouns, and her variations are Trisomy X, Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), and Simple-Virilizing Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia (SV-CAH) with hypergonadism, two accessory ovaries, and ambiguous genitalia consisting of a clitorophallus, complete labial fusion, a microperforate hymen and a shallow vagina! He also experienced an ISIG (link), having been AMAB and raised as a boy until they went through an estrogenic puberty and was reassigned female.
Sounds of Earth from Uma Musume: Pretty Derby is intersex, and her variations are WNT4 Deficiency and Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) with hyperandrogenism, ambiguous genitalia consisting of a pseudophallus/clitorophallus, vaginal hypoplasia, and a persistent urogenital sinus! (link)