i love how dramatic this is, what a bizarre and disrespectful take oh my fucking god
sure, the woman who kept saying no and got raped anyways, the literal prostitute and the woman who has sex with her boyfriend voluntarily because she thinks she has to, are the same thing, you sure aren't talking out of absolute ignorance or an incredibly narrow minded trauma mindset
if you teach your boyfriend that no means yes, why the fuck would he think otherwise? i've met men who had ex girlfriends who did this and were so confused and shocked when they later on dated girls who were actually communicative about their feelings in bed, they realized the ex was literally letting herself get raped and he had no fucking clue because why the fuck would he?
it's funny because i've dated men who have like actual real trauma from this and at the smallest hint of me not being enthusiastic about sex they would immediately drop it and it took a lot of insisting from my behalf to get them in the mood again because sometimes i was just actually tired or wanted to try something different, not out of sex drive
the world makes so much more sense when you stop thinking all men have some sort of built-in woman hating, child raping chip inside them
and i know for a fact if i ever get a reply it's going to be either an ad hominem or something along the lines of me being a bootlicker or a pickme
because that's what that trauma narrow mindset does to you, the world is black and white, people are either evil or good, you can either hate all males or love all males
what a silly view of life and society and history itself
of course i'd say a vast majority of males are incredibly misogynistic, homosocial and overall stupid, incompetent and disgusting human beings, a lot of them are actual rapists because they do not see us as human, they aren't even sociopathic, just absurdly misogynistic
of course every single girl needs to have some distrust of men instilled onto them, it's the healthiest thing possible, but it's also miserable to make them believe literally all men are rapists, especially hetero girls, because it creates the perfect environment for this kind of coercive sex shit and tradwifery and all the golden cage type of bullshit
there are good men out there, there are good fathers, good teachers, doctors, philosophers, politicians, there are good males, they are just as silenced and hated by misogynistic males, aka, most males, like women are
there's a derogatory term for good men in every single language, for sensitive, kind, generous, nurturing men, the most modern one i can think of in english is "cuck", the very idea of a man being a decent human being means he likes to watch his girlfriend get fucked by someone else, but sure, they're all evil rapists
every woman who says she enjoys having sex with her man and has a happy life is lying, it's fake, she secretly hates the guy because you've seen way too many tiktoks of stupid americans who married the first demented guy they met after 2 years of dating and even went on to have children with the incompetent, violent asshole, but sure, it's because she had no choice, sure
…anyway, any and all coercion to have sex is in fact rape.
