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I dont like how "reclaim" has turned into "can use against others in the exact same way it always has been and equally offensively"

#this is waaay too many of you with the f slur

demiromanticdondraper

lrb i still think about when patricia taxxon compared herself to george floyd. and her little hangers-on defended her for this because "they were both oppressed"

#god i wish i knew where the screenshot was of her calling thomas jefferson's slaves his 'sentient property'#the fact that anyone continued to give her the time of day after saying that shit is so....

hauntedfragmentgeode

Queer unity has been trying as hard as possible to downplay any possible transfem issue. Pay gap adding up to thousands a year? Not a big deal. V coding? Never mention it. Trans women are much more likely to be sent to an early grave than their male counterparts? Stop bringing that up. Trans people collaborating with kiwifarms? Just internet drama.

You know what IS an important issue? Getting called a fucking birthday boy. They get all hands on deck about it. They will write VERY long posts about how important it is you not use it, and that anyone who does must be punished as severely as possible

There's only one explanation. The lives of trans women are so worthless to them, so fucking disposable, that a trans man getting invalidated is actually more important to them. That's how these people, who demand we view them as family and allies, who think we should be ready to die for them, view us.

I know people who treat house flies with more respect than that.

carriebeepo

forever reminded of this fucking yt reply i got in a thread abt transmisogyny, this kinda attitude is so common. even when you do bring up shit that disproportionately or exclusively affects transfems the response is "what abt me" or downplaying it

claire-the-apocalypse

"Damn, v-coding sounds terrible... I hope they don't do that to trans men, too!" Because obviously it's *bad* when it happens to trans women, but oh dear god, THINK OF THE TRANS MEN that this might hypothetically happen to in a different situation!! I'm going to fucking cry. Trans women are so unvalued, these people look at the reality that trans women have to wake up to every single day, and they respond with "yeah, it's terrible when the sex slave gets raped. That must really hurt! But god, imagine if a HUMAN was raped instead? HORROR!"

#once you notice how often transfems try to start conversations about issues that largely target them only to watch the wider community #either ignore these discussions or latch onto the problem as if it is a core pillar of THEIR identity they just CANT give up #you start noticing it everywhere.#does anyone else remember a few years back when transfems were trying to talk about the transmisogynistic origins of terms like femboy/trap #and how a lot of the content surrounding it is just blatant fetishization of transfeminized bodies while hating actual trans women #and a lot of people just kinda. looked the other way because femboy porn is just soooo hot and ohhh but IM a femboy and its such so #important to me you cant take this from me :( and now you have all these TME people who love calling themselves femboys lmao #and if you try to tell them directly the history of the term they largely play dumb (and not make any effort to stop using it)#or get MAD at you for even bringing it up #its disheartening how much people just blatantly do not give a shit about transfems and their problems.#they get cast off to the corners of the community so the Real People with Real Problems can be heard

some of you guys are more upset about pomni in fortnite than you were about those clips of those tadc voice actors joking about wanting to say the n word 😭

#its not even that its a decision that cant be criticized but i saw the announcement post float by on my tl #and there were SO MANY COMMENTS acting as if this was the most morally bankrupt thing thats happened with tadc and glitch prod #like actually bothers the fuck out of me how fast people moved on from that whole debacle or excused it but the fucking fortnite crossover #is apparently crossing too far of a line. whatever man 🙄

trans-girl-nausicaa

no worse feeling than going on some subculture fashion clothing website and seeing the size chart runs from extra small to petite to pequeño to microscopique. yeah here at DeathKillFuckShadow Fantastique Cloth Imaginations i think you’ll find that we see the world a bit difference… we have bleak brutal imaginations… what if blood and fangs were COOL… but we cannot in our most tortured imaginations picture a woman who has a stouter frame than the fucking Insulindian Phasmid

#being fat And short is like playing on nightmare mode #have fun finding a new outfit piece once every 2000 years

ot3

if you're still doing fandom blogging about good omens right now you're just a fundamentally pathetic, selfcentered, and spineless person. this is a man who used his fame as an author to sexually abuse women, and the profits from his media empire to try and bury them legally. there's no way to publicly celebrate anything with his name on it that doesn't directly contribute to the legacy that allowed him to do this. go read any other fucking book. and since you all love bringing up terry pratchett's name like a cudgel to defend yourselves against criticism so much why don't you just go start posting about anything else he's ever written instead. because if he's half the saint people talk about him like he was, i'm sure he'd agree that denying gaiman the cultural ubiquity that let him get away with repeated rape offenses is far far more important than the continued relevance of any single novel and its adaptations.

nagi-kirima-style-cateran

Or maybe bad people make good art and the puriteen knee jerk reaction that engaging with art made by immoral people is immoral is itself rooted in weird religious beliefs about sin that should be interrogated critically and probably dismissed as stupid.

You guys have almost make me want to pick up a Neil Gaiman book myself.

ot3

^dipshit alert for your blocklists everyone

#i am aghast at the thought of reading everything being addressed in the first portion of the post #and your immediate reaction is 'ewww you PURITEENS just want to ruin everything!!!!!'

it is genuinely fucking scary how so many people in online kink spaces act this way about people setting boundaries around them. you are Not being censored if someone online blocks you for drawing particular kinks, in fact would quietly blocking and not engaging with you not be the more responsible option here?

like what exactly is the problem with someone blocking for your kinks and how are you being censored from this exactly??? why are people like this SO insistent that everyone around them has to be exposed to the content they make and nobodys allowed to express any sort of discomfort about it? like can you SERIOUSLY not think of any reason why someone wouldnt want to see particular kinks besides wanting to "censor" you 😭

vampiricvenus

I bring a sort of "too many of you really despise CSA survivors" vibe to this website that Tumblr users don't really like.

vampiricvenus

You survive one of the most traumatizing things a child can go through and all you get in exchange is people telling you that your public existence is making it less fun for them to jerk it. To your trauma.

#tw pedophilia #:[#like is there any hope for someone who is sexually traumatized to safely navigate nsfw/kink spaces online nowadays #bc they are absolutely filled with people who act like youre literally trying to kill them for setting boundaries for the type of content -#- youre okay with seeing or engaging with. and im just kind of sick of being treated like im evil because i wont openly fetishize my trauma

transwolvie

Hey once again I would like to remind y'all that when you see shit like THIS:

You should check the blog

This person is actively advocating for not only pedophilic books (because they're "suppressed") but is literally waxing poetic about how explicit selfcest porn of a mass shooter encouraged them to start this effort:

Sorry but I am not convinced about censorship by someone who is defending "How to Practice Child Love" and "The Pedophile's Handbook" and some of y'all either need to 1) check these fucking blogs or 2) be a pedo defending freak with your whole chest like this person so I can avoid your ass

#pedophilia tw #the fact that people like this have latched onto the very real ongoing of internet sanitization and censorship #and use it as a trojan horse to push their whole 'kink is never bad and never needs to be questioned or scrutinized or pushed back on'#or just outright advocating for acceptance of pedophilic/incest/w.e tendencies #i dont even know how to word my rage about this.

zxidold

I genuinely think Mouthwashing fandom is a good example on how real life misogyny is very wired on people brains and influenced how they engage with fictional misogyny.

You have a story about a woman being assaulted and telling a man she trusted but being dismissed because he is friends with the attacker, and people fixate on shipping her with either of those men.

You have a story about how men that downplay their male friends violence, assume neutrality is the safer option, unintentionally help create an environment that's unsafe to vulnerable people, at a risk becoming a victim themselves. And people make it about toxic yaoi.

You have a character kill herself because she didn't want birth the child of her abuser. And people make AUs where she happily keep the baby.

Misogyny isn't just "I hate women", it's also downplaying their trauma, defending those who caused it, and reducing them to mothers or wives against their wishes under this idea of what womanhood is about.

I don't think we can separate fandom misogyny from it's real world influence, not yet.

chilewithcarnage

#tw rape #correct me if im wrong but didnt the creators also make weird comments irt fan content that heavily sexualized anya #theres merch of anya that depicts her suicide as well #like awesome. the whole thing is rotten to the core.#it feels fucking impossible to get fandom brained people to grapple with the topic of sexual assault victims in a remotely normal way #like tripping over themselves to rush to sexualize rape victims or have their downplay their own assault when thats not even how the -#- narrative frames it #everyone wants rape victims to be sweet perfect victims who are still willing to put out #but dont worry its all fictional its all for fun on just playing with my touys :)) smashes your touys into pieces #JUST STAY IN THE COZY GAME TAG ON STEAM IF YALL ARE GONNA BE LIKE THIS WITH ANY REMOTELY CHALLENGING STORY

raymoohackery

say what you will about modern tumblr but the fucking discourse atmosphere was a bajillion times worse in the 2010s. whatevers eating itself alive on twitter now used to be HERE dude

raymoohackery

people would doxx each other via blog widgets over komaeda .

#does anyone remember when people just casually had ip trackers and would post pics of who was visiting their blogs #sometimes with uncensored caps of the ips #or was i just in an especially seedy portion of fandom tumblrs #i remember once i was scrolling through someones blog and they posted a cap of my partially censored ip/operating system like #'lol whose still using windows xp in this day'#it took me YEARS before i was comfortable visiting desktop blogs again

lakevida

not sure i can handle learning much more information

#im sorry saying all of this so publicly and then your book not having a single explicit sex scene is objectively hilarious

jojosaur

#THIS FUCKIGJNNGSUHDJBFUJHKBSKDJUFH

failchild

this review of that new fantasy book authored by a popular tumblr user might be one of the most biting pieces of literary criticism on goodreads

failchild

...[A] woman gawked back at me with familiar amber eyes. Ringlets of gold fell to her chin, a lion's mane about a face that glowed bronze with the sun. Her lips were pouty petals, her jaw slim and graspable, her breasts heaving under an unremarkable brown dress.

protip: don't write women like this

digitalisnarcissus

I'm now trying to figure out if this is the second person I've seen moved to write giant screeds about how bad this is, or if it's the third, because I've seen one on tumblr and there's also a huge blog post about it here, and it might be the same goodreads user or it might be just that terrible that people keep feeling the need to complain about it at extreme length.

Anyway, I got blocked by the author before it was published for leaving a comment on someone else's post about it, so I feel like I'm half owed one (1) actually catty public post, and this is it. Mostly because Goodreads is a bitch and won't let you read things without logging in, so there's an alternative big hater post about the book if people want to gawk.

demiromanticdondraper

hey the goodreads post is my review! <- if you don't have goodreads you can read it in this link to my tumblr post. thank you so much, i'm honored it made so many people laugh.

edit: irt the author's subconscious racism (specifically antiblackness), they made the following post referring to it, which they have since deleted. no guesses as to why. i'm posting it here so you're all aware of their feelings regarding the criticism of their characters of color and what they plan to do about it:

(content warning for antiblackness and whitewashing)

that's right. they are going to start "white-ifying" their black characters to avoid accusations of racism.

#hooooold the fuck on just saw this reblog and THIS WAS FOR REAL HOW THEY RESPONDED?#yea no go to hell actually i never wanna see this shit being glazed on my dash ever again

failchild

this review of that new fantasy book authored by a popular tumblr user might be one of the most biting pieces of literary criticism on goodreads

failchild

protip: don't write women like this

herownswordofdamocles

(First half of) Review by Parker Pogchamp on Goodreads:

#though there were aspects of the blog review im not entirely sure i agreed with my jaw DROPPED at all the examples of misogyny and racism-#-from the book highlighted in both reviews. like genuinely what the fuck compelled them to write some of this shit in the way they did.#i unfollowed greer about a year about because the constant book posting wasnt my thing and tbh their attitude towards the sexual aspects of #-their writing (which according to their reviews wasnt even particularly highlighted) felt childish and grating #like teehee im SOOOO kinky and freaky and weird xPPP old man fucking skeleton fucking bird from aladdin is sexy!!!!!!!#also not surprised to hear they're blocking people for simply liking posts about this #they would occasionally post about seeking out bad reviews and how bad it made them feel in a very 'woe is me" kinda way #im wondering now how many of these reviews they vagued about brought these bigoted aspects of their writing to their attention #because they sure as hell hadnt addressed anything of the sort as far as i could tell :/

yiddishfisting

yall i simply cannot anymore

#so what happened to curating your space. what happened to tagging so we can block takes for shit we dont want to see #between this and a post a saw a week ago from someone comparing hating rape kink to facism i think some of yall are letting the mask slip #claiming you truly care about abuse victims and understand the gravity of the kinks youre partaking in when in reality you only have room -#-in your hearts for abuse victims willing to sexualize and reenact their abuse openly for your pleasure #like genuinely its like some of you cant wrap your head around why someone wouldnt want to see incest/rape shit unprompted #because fetishization is the only way you care to engage with the topic #tw incest #tw rape

grox

Back when quinton reviews was popular and dropping those 12 hour recaps of tv shows was one of the worst times of tumblr everyone was dirty everyones hair was greasy stray dogs roamed and licked at peoples wounds

#in hindsight having your work largely be praised bc it was so good for people to play in the background and not actually focus on #shouldve indicated that something had gone horribly wrong in the creation of said videos #look its not illegal to just Yap about something and have nothing really to say about it. iirc quinton himself considered them as such #but this shit was inescapable. and you had people swearing up and down they were really deep analyses of the shows #then you start watching them and its him very plainly recounting the plot of the episodes to you with very little thought put into it #someone in the tags mentioned the sections about merch/extra media related to the show were actually interesting to watch #and like yea its bc he probably had to do a few more steps of research for those as opposed to regurgitating an episodes plot points out #also he constantly talked about how miserable he was making them and how shit the shows made him feel?#like genuinely why. its bringing you little joy its stressing you the fuck out why are you still making this style of vid then.

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