More Gender than ever

Cassidy, 27, Lesbian, she/her, Cosplay enthusiast. 

[romans-art]

them’s the facts

[thelockedtomb]

Check out the The People's Tomb community on Discord - hang out with 102 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

Tbh, it’s really hard (in the best way possible) to keep this blog going when this exists.

[futch-cassidy]

hi this is the first time i’ve logged into tumblr in over a year, could you please send me an invite link?

[anastasiaoftheironwood]

This browser extension shows you which Amazon books are available free at your local library

Available for Chrome and Firefox, the insanely great Library Extension saves you time and money.

“Library Extension immediately shows you if any given book is available at your local library. It’s available now for Chrome and Firefox.”

“From there, anytime you browse at an online bookstore like Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Goodreads or even Audible (yep, it works for audiobooks, too), Library Extension will appear with library availability information for any selected book.Better still, one click is all it takes to visit the associated library or e-book service page, where you can then borrow the book or get on the waiting list.“

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[leeveemealone]

Ihavenowords

[nephodill]

Some pan Miles and lesbian Gwen for pride!

[destinytomoon-deactivated202006]

YEAS…..

[ceiteachol]

Borderlands being included in the Steam “Post Apocalypse” sale is hilarious to me because there wasn’t even an apocalypse in Borderlands, it was just capitalism

[andrewgarfieldslut]

some of y’all have never fallen in love with a man twice your age and it really shows

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[cookie-sheet-toboggan]

me, a feminist: it’s important to support m/f ships where she is smarter and overall more badass than him yet he supports her and loves her for her capabilities and not despite them throwing toxic masculinity right out the window.

also me, a known gay: but wouldn’t it just be great if she had an equally intelligent and badass girlfriend instead?

[what-is-going-on-stuff]

Maybe the real problem is we don’t have enough F/F or healthy F/M relationships so we feel like we have to choose

[cookie-sheet-toboggan]

[yamino]

be nice to my good girl :’’’’)

(And you can read all my other Voyd comics here!)

[renthony]

Maybe all the twentysomethings are obsessed with cartoons because all the “adult” shows show the same traumas, frustrations, and anxieties we already have to deal with 24/7.

Sometimes you just wanna watch a princess of power or a magical alien child do fancy magic stuff in a lower-stakes world where you can be reasonably sure you won’t be subjected to depictions of extreme violence, gore, assault, and sex without warning, ya dig?

[raeseddon]

It’s true and you should say it

[sith-shenanigans]

so much adult media likes to pretend hopelessness and pessimism and cynicism are something profound instead of the same depressing nonsense that you can find self-righteous assholes spouting on any given corner of the internet

society acts like we’re supposed to outgrow hope somewhere between sixteen and twenty-two and it’s absolute bullshit

being an adult isn’t about giving up

hold on, let me repeat that

just in case y'all didn’t hear me in the back

being an adult isn’t about giving up

[norcross]

side note: during the 2016 election, i realized i had only watched Cartoon Network / DisneyXD / etc or Netflix and did not see a single fucking political or pharma ad

[wilwheaton]

I used to love dystopian fiction, but living in a dystopia has made me want to watch escapist bullshit that makes me laugh and helps me forget that the world is on fire and the bad guys are winning.

[booookish-deactivated20220207]

me walking into the theaters to see the new batman movie while wearing a team edward shirt just to piss off men

[catchymemes]

[the-headless-vulcan]

Capitalism will put the bill on your grave and harass your grieving family until they pay

[theludicrousrival]

One of my cousins passed away unexpectedly at the age of 35, and had been paying back a loan from the bank. About two weeks after his death, my great aunt received a statement from the bank (his mail was being delivered to her house) about a late payment. She called the bank and explained the situation and the only thing a manager could say was “Well, that’s unfortunate. We can arrange so payments will resume in 30 days, that should be enough time to have already paid for the other arrangements.”

On top of the unexpected $10,000 funeral, cremation and burial bill, my aunt had to finish paying my uncle’s $5,000 loan. She’s a disabled retiree, on a fixed income, and could barely afford to pay for her insulin for diabetes. She nearly lost her home of more than 40 years. Fuck the system.

[lawful-evil-novelist]

She didn’t need to pay. When people die, their debts are not their family’s responsibility.

In fact, it is outright illegal to try and collect those debts from a person who didn’t cosign the loan and isn’t executing the will.

Debts and Deceased Relatives

Who is responsible for paying off the debts of your deceased relatives?

Here’s a link to the detail on that one.

[eudoxiav]

Banks count on people not knowing that last comment so that they can still get money

[niniblack]

They really do.

My great-grandmother had her identity stolen before she died at the age of 93, and thousands of charges were racked up on credit cards in her name. After she passed away, they called my mother to try and collect. My mom laughed at them, and told them: “She’s dead, good luck collecting.” The credit card asked my mother, “Don’t you want to clear your grandmother’s debts? Don’t you want to clear her good name?” My mom laughed at them again. “No,” she said. “Because a 90 year old wasn’t watching porn with those credit cards, and her name is fine. Don’t give credit cards to old women likely to pass away soon. This is on you.”

Which is how I learned as a young child to always question collection agents, and to never pay off debts that aren’t your own. They often can’t even collect that money from the estate, if there is one, depending on how you write your will and what kind of account the money was kept in.

[nephrastar]

DO NOT EVER PAY OFF DEBTS THAT AREN’T YOUR OWN.

If a loved one of yours dies and bill collectors (credit cards, loans, etc etc) start calling you off the hook and request that you pay off their debts, tell them in no uncertain terms to go fuck themselves.

The reason being is that the moment you give them a single penny, that debt is now on YOU because you’ve now agreed to pay it off.

Do not agree to pay off their debt. Do not pass go, do not give them $200.

[valtsv]

*magical girl transformation but i turn into this*

[hashtagloveloses]

you know how if you were obsessed with Greek mythology as a kid you’re gay now? I raise you Anne Lister, who wrote her diaries about being a huge lesbian in Greek code

[ponett]

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