[sugutie]

[futuristicgardenerbasement]

@magic-pjm

[ilookextremelygood-deactivated2]

just a heads up, if i ever weird you out on any level, too friendly, too flirty, anything at all, i encourage you to be very vocal towards me about it to make sure i dont continue to make you uncomfortable. i dont want anyone feeling like im not someone they can trust and be comfortable around.

[awfullydull-deactivated20170619]

Normalize vocalizing discomfort.

Last weekend, a guy that at that point I’d known for about 24 hours called me “darling“. I could tell he didn’t mean anything by it, but I (politely) asked that he not do that because I don’t like it. He looked surprised and got a little defensive - “oh, I call all my friends that!“ “Okay, well I’d still rather you didn’t“ “oh well harumph harumph sorry”

whereas the exchange should have gone

“blah blah blah, darling“

“oh please don’t call me that, I don’t care for that“

“oh I’m sorry, I won’t do that“ CONTINUE CONVERSATION

Normalize vocalizing discomfort.

[pathosohso]

Yep yep yep. I’ve literally had people give me weird looks because I correct them when they try to shorten my name. My own family members don’t call me by any nickname.

[notthe-latte-hottay]

I use pet names constantly. If you don’t like it, Please Please tell me!

[izzycle]

Please! I’m a friendly person and use lovely, poppet, darling, etc frequently and I never want to make people uncomfortable!

[marshmallowmischief]

if i make you uncomfortable, for pete’s sake tell me!!

so many of my followers are minors, and i use pet names such as “kiddo, sweetheart, sweet pea, darling, honey, etc” all the time

it is my responsibility to make you feel welcome and safe on my blog, and if anything i do comes off as making you uncomf, then  t e l l  m e

[tea-with-mrs-mourning-dove]

[aminastfu-deactivated20190622]

I have an idea. A simple idea I’ve been toying with for over a year and a half now. And as a young Muslim girl living in America, I see an opportunity. Let me explain. 

Growing up, I never saw Muslim people in the media, except in bad situations. And I’m so tired of that. I want young Muslim children to see positive influences in the media they consume. I want to inspire those kids to do great things. Without limitations. 

The main idea I had was to create a television show about a Muslim girl, but I’m open to ideas from other people. And if you have an idea that you believe in, or questions and details about this project, please feel free to email me at [email protected] or message me on this platform. 

I’m here to accept your ideas and questions, and I’m excited to see if this project would be able to work. It’s a project that will take time, but if you feel you have an ounce of dedication towards this subject, I’ll be more than happy to work with you! (And as I said before, I will only be accepting a certain number of people, so be prepared for that.) Thank you for reading and have a wonderful day. 

[glorioustiel]

honestly being tagged in things makes me so happy because it’s like?? ? you think of me?? ? you remember me?? ? i don’t even remember me sometimes

[haeshungael]

[z-ndjenja]

Fuck parties man I just wanna drive to the lake and look up at the stars w someone I love

[futuristicgardenerbasement]

I’d die if someone just picked out clothes that they thought would look nice on me while shopping

[beautifulbangtanboyz]

Kim Seokjin is literally THAT bitch. His mother was miss Korea, and his dad is a ceo. Despite growing up with money, and successful parents. He didn’t need any help rising to stardom, that binch did it on his own !! He is such an inspiration bc he was scouted due to his undeniable good looks, but look how talented he is!! WHAT BLOWS MY MIND THOUGH IS HOW FAR HE HAS COME IN TERMS OF VOCALS AND PERFORMANCE. HIS VOICE IS INSANE AND THE NOTES HE CAN HIT JUST BLOWS ME AWAY. HIS VOCAL TEACHER LITERALLY BURST INTO TEARS AT HIS PROGRESS AND IM JUST SO PROUD OF HIM. HIS DANCING SKILLS AND STAGE PRESENCE HAVE IMPROVED SO MUCH SINCE DEBUT. OH AND NOT TO MENTION, thAT MAN LITERALLY BALANCED SCHOOL AND PERFORMING. HOW ????? He was so privileged and probably could have used so much to his advantage but NO, He earNED EVERYTHING HE HAS AND HE WORKS HIS ASS OFF DAY AND NIGHT. ANBODy who says that mAN “DOES noT deserve to be in BTS” OR THAT HE “DOESNT BELONG” NEED TO TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT THIS MAN’S HARD WORK AND DEDICATION TO WHAT HE DOES. IDK ABOUT U BUT IM INSPIRED BY HIM EVERYDAY. and HIS CONFIDENCE ?? I MEAN, IF I were him ofc I would be confident too but he literally knows hes the shit and Im so happy he realizes how amazing he is.

I ALSO NEED TO ADD HOW HE JUST DOES WHAT HE WANTS AND KNOWS HOW TO GET HIS POINT ACROSS. He doesnt let people define him or tell him how to act. I love that he is changing a lot of “norms” within the industry. I keep adding to this post but this man is literally so wonderful.

[fixedyourmeme]

[futuristicgardenerbasement]

Ok so like either all my mutuals stopped posting or tumblr just isn’t giving me notifications

[thegoodvybe]

[dankmemeuniversity]

[futuristicgardenerbasement]

I tempted to not answer these asks just so I can keep all of them in my inbox and look at them when I’m sad

[cybergirlfriend-deactivated2022]

i hate that im sensitive and jealous and stupid and quiet and ugly and annoying 

[futuristicgardenerbasement]

For the anons who are sending me super nice asks: I love you and I’ll answer them later! I’m like super busy and sick recently so please forgive me for being super duper late in answering these asks

[futuristicgardenerbasement]

i love you

I love you too!