gin and phonics

welcome to my kitchen... we have bananis... and avocadis..... my name's garrett, but you could also call me "gay rat" or "rat." white philadelphia-based 33-year-old autistic. ze/hir, bi/asexual, tme. I'm pretty cute tbh. also I love rats, that's important. scene demi-fiend icon by @kitkatisacat!

[medievalsquire]

you guys are all just jealous of my ancestral curse

[ducissatenebrarum]

A pictograph at Barrier Canyon in the central Utah desert, depicting an anthropomorph with bug eyes and antennae. 2000 BCE-500 CE, United States of America.

[yayxstitch]

@hyenaswine said this and I had to stitch it because it's so real.

(I have literally made memes about how bad I am at framing things and I really messed this one up which is a shame 🫠. The piece itself is amazing, the framing not so much.)

[hyenaswine]

WHOOOOAAAAAA THIS LOOKS AMAZING!!!! i feel famous

[g4yr4t]

hate to be that guy but sumer IS icumen in

[tim-official]

trying to harness train her and she immediately got in this position and got stuck

[lesbian-sweeney-todd]

What you must understand is:

1. Men are systematically privileged over women.

2. Men love to take advantage of that privilege while simultaneously denying that it exists.

3. This dynamic does not change when the men and women in question are trans.

[lesbian-sweeney-todd]

Men get very upset when confronted with this!

[lesbian-sweeney-todd]

👍

[sliversoakley4]

[slopforhogs]

Juvenile collared peccary (Dicotyles tajacu/Pecari tajacu) bottle feeding

(x)

[g4yr4t]

I want to go back to sleep but I woke up at 1pm (so... two and a half hours ago) and haven't done anything but read and take pics of my Benny piece. I think I'm mostly bored and depressed but idrk what to do abt that bc I already exhausted my reading stamina for the day and I finished my big embroidery piece yesterday and need to take a break.

[herpsandbirds]

Crayfish Frog (Lithobates areolatus), family Ranidae, IN, USA

These frogs live underground, often in crayfish burrows.

photos via: Indiana Department of Natural Resources

[g4yr4t]

tribute to our beloved boy Benny, who we lost in December. the second pic is kinda scrungly (I don't have an iron or anything lol), but it shows the dark brown thread "rusting" in the sun. just like Benny's fur!.

pattern taken from @bugsnax drawing of Benny back before he passed

[plaguedocboi]

It’s World Ocean Day!!! Go In There

[sophsun1]

Derry Girls – 1.05

[killbenedictcumberbatchagain]

Yeha I don't feel like making new posts all the time and unfortunately that leads to me not getting the help I need and exhausting my resources but I feel like I'm in a race to the bottom. I feel like I'm genuinely going to die here. It's not safe living with these people. My "family". Please help me get out of this place

PayPal.me/tominova

Cash.me/$tomi1

Venmo: tominova

[killbenedictcumberbatchagain]

I'm helping friends flip a house and we could use help to do that!!

[killbenedictcumberbatchagain]

Hey please help, this is an opportunity to have a place to stay

[plumslices]

Your misbehaving boyfriend is not funny to me

[g4yr4t]

trying to tell people irl that I don't need to actively discuss every problematic element of everything and that doing so isn't like improving me as a person is so hard bc it comes across sounding like I'm a "just let people have fun" person when really it's more like "I am already considering a lot of these things and don't need to be constantly in conversation about them bc I don't think we're doing anything productive in this exact moment except stressing ourselves out in order to signal that we Know the Right Things"

[g4yr4t]

like definitely it is important to be cognizant of problematic/bad/negative/whatever elements of things we do AND don't like and to assess what is or is not a deal breaker for a certain person and whether or not we agree with that. but bringing those things up as a compulsory disclaimer that we know that something is flawed is kinda draining and often doesn't further anything aside from signaling that we have the Right opinions. which can also be important I guess but not when I'm making a joke about whether the TV wants me to buy little caesar's or domino's after I see ads back to back for them.

[g4yr4t]

it's also not always important for me to know every single Bad Thing ever. I don't think it's improving me as a person. it's amplifying neuroses. which actually kind of makes me worse as a person.

[g4yr4t]

trying to tell people irl that I don't need to actively discuss every problematic element of everything and that doing so isn't like improving me as a person is so hard bc it comes across sounding like I'm a "just let people have fun" person when really it's more like "I am already considering a lot of these things and don't need to be constantly in conversation about them bc I don't think we're doing anything productive in this exact moment except stressing ourselves out in order to signal that we Know the Right Things"

[g4yr4t]

like definitely it is important to be cognizant of problematic/bad/negative/whatever elements of things we do AND don't like and to assess what is or is not a deal breaker for a certain person and whether or not we agree with that. but bringing those things up as a compulsory disclaimer that we know that something is flawed is kinda draining and often doesn't further anything aside from signaling that we have the Right opinions. which can also be important I guess but not when I'm making a joke about whether the TV wants me to buy little caesar's or domino's after I see ads back to back for them.