[garbage-nachos]

it's been 2yrs

It's been two years since I've updated this website. I've been r***d (by a stranger) and r***d (by my partner). It's been rough to say the least. I miss being a 20 year old not worrying about anything. The pandemic had been a big part of my growth. Idk what to type, but I miss being care-free and happy. pls take me back to 2016. I am now 24 and lost ass fuck. pls help

[garbage-nachos]

I’m 25 now. I’ve grown so much in the past year. Been focusing on healing and understanding myself. I had spent so much of my time worrying & stressing about everything. I spent months (would even say years) of my life wishing certain events in life hadn’t happened. Replaying every second of it. Overthinking. But, yet avoiding it.

This is going to sound ridiculous. But It feels like I’m finally living. It’s so scary. For so many years i was stuck. Frozen in time. Everything is clear now. I’m finally allowing myself to feel everything I’d been avoiding for years.

I want to be happy.

I feel better than I did a year ago…

I’m going to be okay

I’m exactly where I need to be..

I love myself & I’m proud of myself

[garbage-nachos]

it's been 2yrs

It's been two years since I've updated this website. I've been r***d (by a stranger) and r***d (by my partner). It's been rough to say the least. I miss being a 20 year old not worrying about anything. The pandemic had been a big part of my growth. Idk what to type, but I miss being care-free and happy. pls take me back to 2016. I am now 24 and lost ass fuck. pls help

[deejay]

[just-shower-thoughts]

If gas prices keep going up it will be cheaper to snort cocaine and run everywhere.

[dammitradar]

finally a good fucking shower thought

[romelle-moved]

no offense but two characters running from the authorities and then one of them pulls the other in a dark, small alley to shake them off and they’re both breathing hard and there’s not much space there and they’re looking at each other while trying to hold back chuckles and one of them brings their finger to their lips playfully in a ‘shhh’ motion while smirking and oh no now they’re looking at one another’s lips and one of them whispers “i think the coast is clear now. we could leave.” and the other says “yeah. we could.” but they’re still looking at the other person’s lips and neither make a move to go and they can feel each other’s breath against their skin and. y eah

[shittycryptids]

a teleporting cat. It’s just a regular housecat, but it appears in random places when you could have sworn you just saw it somewhere else

[defectivegembrain]

that’s just a cat

[axmxz]

literally any cat

[cactusdodes]

since all kinds of vintage/older things have been making combacks can tech companies bring back colorful clear plastic that shows the insides? that would be so sexy

[cactusdodes]

sexy

[friday-undertones]

[lilmamabeyellin]

[liquidlimits-deactivated2019032]

I just opened up a check in the mail, went to the ATM & found 20$ 😭 I’m not passing these shits up NO more on my mama!

[razxion]

Even if I do not receive money or good news, I did smile at seeing this smiling Buddha.

[dailypattondoodles]

^^^^

[freewaveanii]

black kids deserve a coming of a age teenage love movie where violence or drugs aren’t the plot

[mysticwonderlandqueen]

Please.

[generaldamneron-deactivated2020]

Say that shit again louder for the people in the back

[wingkink]

Therapists are just…. Common sense filters

[wingkink]

Me: yeah so I just don’t have the energy to get up and make myself a sandwich or wait for something to cook so I just. Don’t

Her: why don’t you just eat the sandwich components without putting them together

Me:

Her: you can just eat a handful of cheese and some sandwich meat. You don’t have to make a sandwich.

Me:

Me: what

[cyanoticfallacy-deactivated2018]

Therapists finding loopholes for mental illness things is one of my favorite things about dealing with mental illness because it really helps me understand that just because a reaction is Common doesn’t mean it’s Right. Does doing dishes stress you out a lot? Buy paper plates. Do your obsessive thoughts make you worry about leaving your curling iron on so you drive home from work to check? Just put the curling iron in your purse and bring it to work with you while we work on tackling where this worry comes from. Symptom management doesn’t have to look like drudgery.

[ziggyplayedd]

i used to go days without showering because seeing my body was so upsetting that i would end up spiraling and then i realized i could simply turn the lights out. it took some getting used to but i’ve been showering with the lights off for years and it’s now one of my favorite parts of my day.

do whatever you want nothing is real and there’s no need to inflict unnecessary suffering on yourself just to try to seem “normal”

[biyaself]

I love this post

[jettestblack]

Hmmm

[petrichorepoch]

These kinds of loopholes make life so. Much. Better.

[fuckyeahasexual]

One of my favorite stories is this lady had extremely bad OCD. Every day she’d be late to work because she was convinced that her hair dryer was going to burn down the house so would always have to turn around and check it. Multiple times a day even. A bunch of doctors tied to “fix” her of that fear, until one day she got a doctor that suggested she bring the hair dryer with her. Other doctors were annoyed, saying that wasn’t a the correct way to help, but she gave it a go. When she had that fear, she’d look over and see the hair dryer unplugged in the seat next to her and was able to carry on. I think it’s such a perfect example of actually helping someone instead of forcing them into a neurotypical standard.

[eclecticpersonswondersland]

That story helped me stop repeatedly checking if my front door was locked. Instead of checking that the door was locked over and over I would check my security system app. If it’s on it will alert me if the front door opens.

[daughter-of-rowan]

“…actually helping someone instead of forcing them into a neurotypical standard” should be added to the Hippocratic Oath.

[animeadult]

look at this extremely chaotic video my fiancé took of our cat

[sushinfood]

Me when my friends get online

[madseason]

I’m reblogging this here as well as to my cat blog because I bring myself to tears laughing at this every time I think about it

[mysharona1987]

[disasterbisexual-moved]

“this glass is empty, it has water in it”

[riggedforsuccess]

“african american burial ground“??? you mean a cemetery?? you mean a fucking cemetery??

[drinkyoudowntonight-deactivated]

My friend just came out as trans and this was his name reveal party… enjoy :)

[barbiedaydreams]

[i-do-it-for-the-lesbians-deacti]

look at me go

[98018]

Okay this is so fucking cute

[lilmamabeyellin]

[lyjerria]

she truly outdid herself with this song, this video, everything

[lessonsoflevatation]

I literally remember the day this aired on BET. It changed my entire freaking life. No exaggeration.

[xmybrightx]

Literally. Still gives me chills!

[proto-homo]

This is still one of her best videos and songs. And it showcased her acting range!

[minus-the-negative]

Before you bloom, you must grow.

minusthenegative.com

[brianshares]

How long will my growth take? I already feel like it has taken too long. It’s still possible that I will be a late bloomer after all.

[fuwaprince]

Just because someone didn’t say no,

🌸 doesn’t mean they asked for it 🌸

🌸 doesn’t make it consensual 🌸

🌸 doesn’t mean they were comfortable 🌸

Stop spreading victim-blaming mentality. It makes people less likely to reach out for help & less likely to recover.

[theworldshiddenwords]

“When you rape someone, You take more than their innocence, You take their life, Not physically, But mentally, Every corner is a fear, Every person they walk by is you, Every time they get close to someone, They fear the comments that come from telling them, When you rape someone, You take every single thing about them, You break them, You torture them, Even when you’re not around anymore, You make them feel worthless, You make them feel like nothing, You hurt them physically, But in most cases, it’s the mental scarring, It’s the constant replays, It’s the flashbacks, It’s the shaking when you get touched, It’s the heartbreak after heartbreak from the reminders, It’s the empty beer bottles, The pill bottles, It’s a blade, It’s all because you couldn’t take the answer “no.””

— A survivor of rape.