★I don't know what I'm doing★

I'm mostly here to figure out things about myself and chart my own personal journey. Expect a lot of writing about nothing in particular, whining about memories and identity, and probably nothing anyone else will be too interested in.

[scretladyspider]

Hey. Do you need a hug?

Maybe you’re having a stressful day. Maybe you just need a deep breath. Maybe you just didn’t realize how stressed you are. It’s okay! You deserve love and warmth in your life.

Are you comforted by words? 

Here’s an Emergency Compliment

Here are some kind words you can personalize with your name 

Here are 15 more emergency compliments 

Here is a Self Esteem Boosting Confidence Machine 

take a moment - video 

believe in yourself - video 

Inspiration from Jacksepticeye - PMA 

encouragement from Mr. Rogers - video 

you are ENOUGH - video 

Do you need to hear some pleasant ambient sounds?

How about rain sounds you can customize? 

You can listen to a cafe here  

or how about a crackling fireplace?  

ASMR? Stimming? 

Soap cutting ASMR - video 

more soap ASMR - video 

a 4 hour ASMR video to help with sleep 

ASMR face and scalp massage - video

ASMR slime - video 

the most satisfying video in the world 

more satisfying videos 

Lora Zombie speed painting - video 

Agnes Cecile speed painting - video  

the fastest workers in the world - video 

how candy canes are made - video 

Mr. Rogers shows how crayons are made - video 

How about a game or activity distraction?

Play 2048 here 

A whole website of free games!  

play chess against a computer 

Here are some coloring pages you can do online!  

Play Flow online here 

here’s a game where you stretch a giraffe’s little neck to give kisses 

Learn about the history of life on earth with PBS Eons 

Do you need something soothing?

Control the pattern of rain here! (flashing colors warning)

try doing nothing for two minutes 

Vent to a stranger online for FREE!  

weavesilk, where you can create a soothing pattern 

have you ever been to the nicest place on the internet? 

watch Bob Ross bring joy to painting - playlist 

How about a laugh?

Vines you can show your grandparents 

History of the entire world, I guess  

History of Japan 

Rhett and Link caption fails 

Thomas Sanders Vines 

The Demented Cartoon Movie (warning for flashing colors) 

The ASDF movie 1-11 

The Horribly Slow Murderer with the Extremely Inefficient Weapon by Richard Gale  (warnings for some bruises and some violence)

Rhett and Link VS Hank Green - SHUT UP AND DANCE 

It’s going to be okay. Today may be the worst day of your life - but tomorrow won’t be. Life is a series of ups and downs, and that means there’s going to be good and bad. Drink some water, let yourself cry if you need to, and get a good night’s sleep. You’ll feel better in the morning. 

[softestvirgil]

Reblogging anyone who may need it, and also for me to easily find later.

[cee-gets-skinee]

I love this post so much

[lostwolf-fandomlover]

I tried to scroll past this post really fast and keep suffering but with this much support it’s kinda hard.

[saltybreastmilk-deactivated2015]

[the-cheshire-cat-grin]

who needs top surgery when you’ve got a woman baking eggs in avocados

[trans-kaidan-alenko]

Reblog to blow your tits clean off

[marisatomay]

an estimated over 15 million people cited a lack of transportation as a reason for why they didn’t vote in 2016

if you don’t have a way to make it to the polls on election day there are options so make your plans now

[tikkunolamorgtfo]

Just so we’re clear: People Magazine’s sadly predictable celebration of white American mediocrity aside, we all know that Idris Elba is, unequivocally, without any dispute, the sexiest man alive, right? Like, I don’t even mean this as an issue of personal preference. I am literally just making a statement of objective fact based on scientific evidence which suggests more people would hypnotically follow a pan flute-playing Idris Elba out of a village never to be seen again than any other male celebrity. 

[tikkunolamorgtfo]

The number of lesbian and ace bloggers backing me up in the tags is proof that my science is both sound and accurate:

[tikkunolamorgtfo]

THEY FINALLY SAW THE LIGHT, Y’ALL: 

[traurigtoby]

Phone tag

Vienna, Austria

[danger]

[markruffalo]

Today we get to vote for the wholeness of America, the beautiful sum of our many different parts. We get to choose moving forward together and taking care of peoples health. We vote for an America for all of us; every color, every creed, every gender and every way that people choose to express their love.

You can still volunteer to help #GOTV for Swing Left still has lots of ways to help. Right now you can make calls for Dana Balter in NY-24, Danny O’Connor in OH-12, and Connor Lamb in PA-17 here.

Let’s bring this thing home.

[valtsv]

no nonsense november. everyone just be fucking sensible for once.

[valtsv]

[porterr-robinson]

[disgustinganimals]

i don’t know what i was expecting

[cesaray]

this is the money jessica. reblog in 10 seconds for good luck 

[unicornmelancholy-deactivated20]

How come when a bi woman is in a relationship with a straight man, or any man for that matter, she gets so much beef for it? Like, bi women get accused of being “fake” and called “bihets” all the time. But that barely ever happens when bi men date straight women. I wonder why…. 

[genderconfusedbucky]

Probably because most people assume that bi men are either “actually straight and claiming they’re queer for attention and ally points” or “actually gay and in denial”, ha.

[thothoes]

i made my own version of this meme for my lgbt pals! tag yourselves!

[cattwaii]

(੭ु˘꒳˘)੭ु Cat icons ♡ ✧ like if u save ✧

[byakuya-mioda]

if exploring your gender is ‘becoming a trend’ then i’m glad it’s replacing the ‘being confused and miserable with no context or vocabulary for what you’re going through’ trend

[queerlittlecreature-deactivated]

there is honestly zero things wrong with people exploring their gender

[observethewalrus]

Exploring your gender leads to either discovering a gender identity you feel more comfortable with than the one you were assigned at birth or realizing you identify best with your assigned gender except now you have a better understanding/awareness of trans, genderfluid, and nonbinary people and can begin to break down the toxic, transphobic bullshit you have most likely heard or seen at some point in your life :)

It’s a win-win

[pinkbowsandstripedsocks]

[edwardspoonhands]

Honestly, Tvyek is pretty miraculous. It’s permeable to water vapor but not to water, it’s nearly impossible to tear, but can be easily cut. It’s cheap and made entirely without binding chemicals. In addition to being used for wristbands, it’s used to wrap construction sites to keep out water during construction, for tear-resistant envelopes at Fed-Ex, coveralls for mechanics, and my wallet, actually.

Fun tip, though it looks like paper, Tyvek is plastic, and cannot be recycled with paper.

[fairypsychicarchive]

[andromedafalls]

holy fuc

[piisbetterthanpie]

I didn’t even know it had a name

[citizenshipandsocialjustice]

[plantain-emoji]

May your next period be light and end quickly

[plantain-emoji]

This is literally now my favorite post ever, because its become thousands of reblogs consisting of passing on good fortune. Meanwhile many of y’all added your own comments saying your thanks, and continuing the chain by adding your own little bit of wishful thinking. You are all wonderful.