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Hey guys!

I’m so sorry this blog is inactive. This is my only blog with 1,000+ followers. So I’m probably going to give this away so someone can put it to good use. DM me if you’re interested!

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if you’re like. 14 and trans on tumblr rn and getting ur first anon hate from terfs. word of advice. stop responding to that shit. theyre only gonna send more, it’s only gonna make you spiral even if you put on a strong face. report + block messages as soon as they come in, don’t let them sit in your inbox it’s gonna make you feel like shit. turn off anon for a few days, block anyone suspicious in your notes liberally for a little while. repeat as needed. don’t give them the time of day. it sucks, but like. i dont know any trans person on the internet with any following who hasn’t gotten some disgusting messages. just. be safe yknow

pansyfemme

so many young teens feel the need to have a snappy comeback, to explain you could never be cishet bc you’re actually t4t!! or whatever but like. just. don’t say any of that. they love that shit, they eat it up. do what u can to bore them into stopping. and sometimes they dont stop, and that sucks too but like. you do not want to get in public arguments with people who can hurt you more than you think they can, its not cowardly to delete discourse posts and shit if you feel like you can’t handle the notifications anymore. like just. you may not be able to completly prevent this stuff but take a few steps if you can, it will at least lower your chances

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Hey folks,

I know I haven't exactly been active here, but life kinda got in the way. I've had a really tough couple of months financially- including 2 separate tire blowouts in as many months, a flea infestation that I've almost managed to eradicate, and dealing with shit from a family member whom I did a whole bunch of labour for & who is now refusing to pay me for most of it while simultaneously attempting to screw with my housing security. Job hunting in my area isn't going so well- I'm hoping to get some calls back at the end of the month when university students get their class schedules figured out, but that's not exactly going to help me buy food, gas, or pain medication this week 😓

If you appreciate all the work I have put into this blog and have the means to be a bit generous, please consider using the "tip" button on my posts to help support a disabled trans person! It would really mean a lot to me right now.

I also have PayPal ([email protected]) for folks who prefer that (again, this is only if you aren't struggling yourself- please don't put yourself in a bad spot to help me!)

Thank you for your time, and I hope you all have a wonderful day ❤️

-Sean

Hi there! (TW slight nsfw mention at the end?)

I've been identifying as genderfluid for roughly 6 years now. I mostly go between agender to Demiboy(?), with rarely any femininity (I'm AFAB). I always knew I liked girls. I was attracted to them a lot, both romantically and sexually. And that hasn't changed. But recently, as my masculine phase became much stronger and more common, I've noticed that I also feel something towards men. After a long thinking I figured out it might be gender envy, and as much as it definitely is in some cases, I can't help but to think that I might be sexually attracted to men when I'm in my masc mode? It's mostly sexual than romantic attraction, but i don't know what to think. Is it just me being weirdly horny because I've been single for a while, or is my sexuality also fluid? Is that normal? Should I worry I'm faking something? What do I do?

Hmm. I belive your gender fluidity is influencing your sexuality. Your attraction to more masculine people with you being more masc is perfectly OK.

To me with attraction and gender, it can influence each other. For those unaware they're not the same thing. Sexuality doesn't equal gender.

You're situation is normal and I hope to see you prosper! ❤️ 💕

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Hi there! I've recently been questioning my identity this year. I'm a girl but I don't feel feminine in the slightest and I've always been drawn to anything and everything "masculine". I don't feel like I'm in the wrong body but I just don't feel entirely myself. I can't come out to my family they think anything after being gay and lesbian is "not real and selfish" and what friends I still have make fun of everything else. I could just really use some advice to guide me on the right track..

Sorry I didn't answer this sooner is to be yourself and be more free to express yourself and your gender identity. If you're nervous about coming out, take the time to come out instead of all of a sudden. Gender is whatever you make it. Hobbies don't have a gender either 😂😂

I hope i was able to get this answered, sorry this took literally forever.

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It's time I make a cardd for this blog lol

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Hi! Um, I was wondering if I could identify as genderfluid even though I only go from male to female? Maybe sometimes Demigirl/Demiboy, but I don’t really go into the whole ‘nonbinary’ stuff. Does that mean I’m bigender? Or can I still identify as genderfluid?

I feel way more comfortable with the genderfluid label, but I’m scared I’m actually not genderfluid and I’m disrespecting genderfluid people.

So, is it okay if I say I’m genderfluid? (Im sorry if this is weirdly phrased, english isn’t my first language)

Thank you so much, have a nice day/night!

You can be bigender but you could also identify as genderfluid or demifluid. I'd like to think you are demifluid, but if you feel like the genderfluid label fits you the most, then it's ok! :D

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hi! so i'm kind of new to identifying as genderfluid, i'm still trying to figure stuff out but it feels right because my gender fluctuates, most often from masc to non-binary.

i've been beginning to notice that sometimes it fluctuates depending on what i wear like yesterday i felt feminine because i was wearing a feminine outfit but as soon as i changed into a masc outfit i felt masc. sometimes it doesn't fluctuate and i feel masc while wearing a feminine outfit and it gives me lots of dysorphia. so i suppose my question is if that's normal/genderfluidity? if gender can fluctuate based on what you're wearing?

It can be. Also you’d be more of a non binary trans man like myself but you can have clothes that make you comfortable I recommend keeping but if you have clothes that really make you dysphoric, you can donate them to anyone. Also it is normal to have those feelings every now and then. However, make sure you are comfortable with the clothes you own that fit you. Don’t wear clothes that are too tight as well as your binder. Don’t buy a binder that is too small for you.

Also, it is very normal to feel your gender vary depending on what you wear but like I said. Make sure you’re comfortable with the clothes you have.

Sorry I like giving that advice lol. If you also have any other questions, don’t be afraid to ask. If anyone has other advice they’d like to give. Replies are open.

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Hi! I'm an up and coming writer and I have an important question about genderfluidity! So, I'm working on a new story, and as with most new stories go, I'm creating my characters. One of my characters, a snake god disguised as a human, is a deuteragonist in the story. I wanted to make them non-binary, but I'm really leaning towards making them genderfluid. Would that be disrespectful, since they aren't human? (PS, I have another character who identifies as non-binary who is actually human. ^^)

It’s not disrespectful at all. However, non binary is a gender identity that falls under the trans umbrella and so does being genderfluid would mean you can also be trans.

It is a bit confusing at first but I’d also not stereotype the character and not make them being genderfluid or non binary as their personality.

Also to add onto the snake thing being non binary or genderfluid isn’t disrespectful at all. I’d also recommend not making them a stereotype that disrespects non binary or genderfluid individuals.

Sorry if I’m late to the ask. If you have anymore questions you can DM me. I tried with this. Lol

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I need to start updating this blog. It’s time to give it a make over.

I had come to terms with being genderfluid and nonbinary but I suddenly woke up today and started feeling like my assigned gender at birth again. I don't think I spent long enough debating whether I am genderfluid or not... I felt so much like the opposite gender/nonbinary/just not my assigned gender in general for like a few days and I was so sure that my experiences matched genderfluid...

Was it just that tiny amount of time that I was feeling different? Will I never feel enby again and was I wrong? Or am I just feeling like my assigned gender now because I'm genderfluid?

How does everyone tackle feelings of imposter syndrome and how do I know if I was actually just overreacting or not :(

You’re not over reacting.💖 There are days where I feel like I’m not really trans. Mostly from invalidated opposition from my family and some of my friends.

To me, it is mostly harbored by heteronormativity being practiced from a western view. So what your feeling is very much valid due to it. If you’re certain of your identity takes personal validation and reassurance that you are genderfluid or non binary.

Try finding blogs and posts for reassurance that are positive. Stay away and block TERFS and truscum that invalidates your identity as well as any right wing blogs. Be positive and take your time with your identity. It took me a while to figure out who I am.

If you need help with any gender definition don’t be scared to do research! 😺it’s perfectly ok to be a bit confused. Gender is a bit confusing but you’ll get the hang of it. I promise.

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Hi! I just realised I might be genderfluid but... I'm kind of afraid the label.

Firstly due to my own internalised bs, but also because... I'm afraid to tell people I'm "genderfluid". I have a trans make friend and all of my friends were quick to accept him and no one said anything it felt so nice. But if I tell people I'm "genderfluid" I'm so afraid they'll think I'm just trying to be a special snowflake...

How do you get rid of this feeling?

I’d say keep practicing to come out. If you have family that harbors a lot of prejudice then I recommend coming out to your friends. I bet they’d be very supportive of you.

Also gender fluid does fall under the trans umbrella so tell them that being gender fluid means you count as being trans if you prefer the trans label or not.

I promise the feeling will go away with enough validation on who you are. If you need to dm me about other personal issues I’d be happy to answer.

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