Some of those are really good but some of them are literally canonically assigned a gender and look said gender and feel said gender. Candy Wife? A WIFE... Looks like a girl, is a wife... Gendered. Uh. Alfred? He's a guy. Literally. But ok I get this I'm non-binary just some of these don't... Fit... For me. That's just my opinion.
hi anon! this blog has not been active for a while, but i’m crawling out of the depths to answer this one.
this blog is for headcanons! not everyone will share headcanons, and that’s okay. but everyone’s relationship with gender is different, and to claim that there’s a wrong way to experience it feels disrespectful. i have personally known nonbinary people who dress femininely and are okay with girlfriend/wife as terms for them; it doesn’t make them any less nonbinary.
if these don’t fit for you, that’s okay! it’s great to have different views! but unless this is causing trouble for you, why go out of the way to tell us? (and if it is, why not just unfollow or block us?)
-mod ginger