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Men Pay Attention
Genuinely one of the most important things I could talk about: there’s a difference in supporting a legitimate partner through struggle, versus slowly training yourself to accept chronic inconsistency, neglect, low effort, emotional unavailability, etc from a man because you think enduring it makes you more valuable to him somehow. Especially when there's no reciprocity.
A man benefiting from your patience is not the same thing as him respecting it.
Men are extremely observant to what is tolerated or not. If a man learns that he can give inconsistent effort, emotionally withdraw, cross boundaries, come back with minimal reassurance, and still fully retain access to you every single time, that becomes the relationship dynamic. Being overtly accommodating does nothing more than remove his own urgency, and lower the emotional cost of disappointing you.
The only real true gold diggers are the men who expect you to give them your body, take care of them and their needs, clean the house, wash their clothes, give birth to and take care of their children for 18+ years, AND on top of that still go to work & contribute 50/50 to the household expenses
You Can't Be Selfish And Successful At Seduction
Most of us understand that certain actions [things we do or say] can have a pleasing effect on the person we would like to seduce.
The problem is that we are generally too self-absorbed:
We think more about what we want from others than what they could want from us.
We may occasionally do something that is seductive, but often we follow this up with a selfish or aggressive action (we are in a hurry to get what we want); or, unaware of what we are doing, we show a side of ourselves that is petty and banal, deflating any illusions or fantasies a person might have about us.
At all costs, resist the temptation to hurry to the climax of your seduction. You are not being seductive but selfish. Everything in daily life is hurried and improvised, and you need to offer something different. By taking your time and respecting the seductive process you will not only break down their resistance, you will make them fall in love.
Robert Greene
One of the best things I learned was that it was never too late to start over.
I've heard this being said before but it never really clicked until I met someone who embodied it fully and unapologetically. My Palestinian neighbors had a relative who I had always looked up to when I was in high school. She was smart, funny, loving, and most importantly knew her worth. Her worth wasn't spoken about. Never had I heard her utter things like "I'm confident" or "I know my worth" or anything else along those lines. However, she did embody it.
When I was in high school she was being courted by a man who seemed to adore her and shower her with love. From the outside looking in, he seemed enamored with her. At some point, she accepts to being his wife. They have a lovely engagement party. The wedding was going to be even better. So, imagine my surprise, and many others, when on the day of the wedding, as people are getting ready and making their way to the venue, the entire thing is called off. Money was already put in. Money they couldn't get back. The reason for calling off the wedding? This man began to insult her and make some interesting remarks and as a result she decided she wasn't going through the wedding. I don't know what was said but I do know her family made it clear that she should've worked it out rather than just leave especially on the actual wedding day. After all, what would people think? For those who don't know, plenty of Middle Eastern and North African cultures would view this as an issue. And I personally know many women who have had deep regrets over their marriage but were too worried about the stigma of canceling the wedding when it was so close and the potential of being seen as difficult or spoiled. Of course, this wasn't everyone but a good majority.
Seeing this very statement of "never too late to start over" be embodied by someone wholeheartedly really altered my perspective when I was younger. I also got to see first hand the strength it requires to start over while everyone around you is judging your very decision. Thanks to her I grew up with a solid example to follow and have tried my best to have this attitude with everything in my life. Personally, it has paid off well.
5 level-up & hypergamy youtubers you need to watch
Hey yall! this is part 2 of my favourite Youtuber list CLICK HERE to view it!
I thought I’d share some of my favourite feminine/level-up/pro-hypergamous YouTube channels. Some of them directly talk about femininity, etiquette, or growing towards becoming a better person.
In no particular order, here are my top 5 favourite YouTube channels about femininity, levelling up, hypergamy, and inspiration for generally becoming a better version of myself. I hope you enjoy them too.
