Transfem & Trans Women Positivity

a blog for transfem/trans woman positivity! accepting of all transfems and trans women <3 [PFP ID: two transfeminine pride flags, as well as the trans woman pride flag, with the text "GET MORE TRANSFEM!!!" overlayed in light orange lettering. There is a white, slightly transparent circle behind the text. End ID]

[get-more-transfem]

Hi! Welcome to get-more-transfem!!! This is blog is inspired by @get-more-transmasc and for all types of transfem and trans woman positivity!!! I've noticed a lot of negativity and doomerism in the transfem spaces so I wanted to create a safe, loving space for all transfems to know they are loved and appreciated!!! You are welcome to send in your own bouts of transfem and trans woman positivity as well! No discourse, I block freely. We LOVE our fellow transmascs and trans men here! No hate will be tolerated on this blog!

If you wanna learn more about me, the mod, you can click below!

MORE ABOUT THE MOD:

You can call me mod 🐾! I use it/doll/fear/hir pronouns! I won't reveal my main, but I am an intersex transfemneu boygirl in a system! I like dolls and detectives and being gothic :3 I'm also apart of the goth, vkei, EGL and newly apart of the gyaru subculture! I am a dollie kittygirl (I know, breaking the stereotypes around here 💀)

[love-ardour-anarchism]

casting another spell to turn a million uncomfortable and self conscious transfems into happy transfem butches full of self love

[vinterfeminism]

This literally happened to me what the hell. I was not enjoying being forced into feminitry by my parents but being a transfem butch rocks!!

[i-suggest-transing-your-gender]

If you actually care about trans women you'll call out racism and confront people when they're being racist btw, if this is something you refuse to do then you only care about white trans women. Hope this helps!

[this-is-trans-joy]

I am planning on making a trans man and non-binary version at some point but here’s another poster I made for my girls <3

[get-more-transfem]

hello! not transfem related, but how did you make the text in your pfp??

i really wanted to take inspo of yours and @get-more-transmasc blog to create a nonbinary positivity blog ^_^

tbh i just used the default fonts in photopea. so, like... whatever editing app ur using if it has built in font function (it most likely does) you can just do whatever LOL i originally was goingwith a font similar to @/get-more-transmasc's font but i wanted it to be more readable so. i just made it some large font

[tmascs-for-tfem-rights]

i love you, nonbinary transfems. i love you, genderqueer and genderfuck and genderweird transfems. i love you, girlthings and it/its girls and girls for whom “doll” is fully literal. i love you, gender non-conforming girls. i love you, xenogender girls and girls who use neopronouns. i love you, girls with all sorts of gender identities and expressions. you’re all a light in this world and this community and you are so loved.

[cosmospicegender]

I love you, girls who don't feel included or described by "doll". I love you, transfems who are boys/men. I love you, transfem butches. I love you, closeted transfems. I love you, transfems who haven't fully figured out their gender or their style yet. You're awesome and delightful and beautiful and amazing and the world is a better place because you are in it

[interspadias]

If you're a transgender teen and you're reading this, whether you're out and proud or still in the closet, certain or questioning, align your gender within a binary or the stars, you deserve to have a safe space to exist and explore your identity. I know the world is scary right now, but there are bright shining beacons of light to look towards in the thousands of us fighting alongside you to show you its not too late, it'll never be too late for you. You deserve to live and be your true, authentic self and transition in any way you deem fit.

Please don't give up yet. It can always get better.

[get-more-transfem]

I forgot i never made like. an official pride post sooooo!!! happy pride!!! happiest prides to all my beautiful trans girls, women and femmes!!!! happy pride to the beautiful black trans women who paved the way for modern-day american gay culture and activism and happy pride to my beautiful gay, lesbian, bi, aro/ace, intersex, non-binary & genderqueer transfems and trans women!!!! you are all so awesome and deserve a beautiful kiss on the cheek and 5 million dollars. GIVE TRANSFEMS MONEY!!!! NOW!!!! /hj

[get-more-transfem]

I see you suicidal transfems & women. I hear you and I see you. Life is hard, and sometimes it feels hopeless but know you are loved. It's okay to be loved. It's okay to be seen. It's okay to feel different. Know that it's okay to feel all those terrible feelings but one day you will find happiness. There will always be light on the other side of the tunnel. Living in this world is hard, but we can make it better when we feel it together.

[get-more-transmasc]

Hey, would it be okay if I make a blog similar to this but for aromantic positivity? I'm aro and I don't see a lot of stuff for us, especially for aros with "weirder" identities. Like I'd call it get-more-aromantic or something skjdjfhfjg

I know this blog is for trans people (I'm trans too hehe) so I understand if that would be uncomfortable for you

My answer to "can I make a blog like this for [x identity]" will always be a resounding YES! Please do, and ping me when you do so I can give a boost! Tumblr always needs more positivity, especially with how bogged down with community infighting things have been lately.

Also, fellow aro trans person! Hello! I'm aromantic and bisexual :3

[get-more-transfem]

please also ping me when the account is made so I can boost 🙏🏾 I love my aros I'm also a fellow aro trans person :3 I'm aroflux!!

[get-more-transfem]

my ex came out as a trans girl a few months ago (she's not an adult yet, that's why i said trans girl and not trans woman) and i just thibk its neat because i saw it coming while we were together

congrats to her for finding herself ^__^!!! another lovely girl born to this world!!!

[get-more-transfem]

I do NOT remember if I already sent an ask in here so My bad if you end up getting two of these buuut

this blog brings Me so much comfort. somehow as a (not obviously) intersex woman who actually desires a more masc body but fem presentation I've still found I have more in common with transfem people than transmascs. and speaking of, it's been refreshing to see more blogs floating around that aren't hating on Our transmasc siblings.

tldr I love this blog please never explode <3

I'm so glad this blog makes you happy :) I'll try not to never explode lol and I've definitely have a similar situation haha so I feel you deeply

And I think transmasc hate is too overplayed. Yes, there's always issues in every community to be addressed but it doesn't warrant attacking an entire group of trans people just cause! At the end of the day, we're all one in the same. we're all fighting for the same thing. there's no point in pointing fingers at each other because that's solely what transphobes want. There's no amount of transphobia I can reasonably tolerate

[get-more-transfem]

Mew feeling euphoric rn :3 hru

haii I'm doing okay rn ^__^ just drawin 2day and happy about the persona announcements :P

[get-more-transmasc]

Are you and @get-more-transfem friends/allies? /genq

(Not hating, just curious)

We don't know each other personally, but I fully support dolls blog! While this blog is for transmascs, all trans people need positivity.

[get-more-transfem]

while we are not friends, I made this blog in inspiration to his and fully support their blog as well!! I wanted a space for transfem positivity as well for myself :3

[fipindustries]

[foxgirltail]

I love you being trans I love you trans women i love you gender exploration I love you self discovery

[link to the Reddit post]

[ID: two screenshots of a reddit post on r/offmychest by user awaythrowjessie, titled "My girlfriend made me realize I'd be happier as a woman". it reads as follows:

I am 33, born male, and have had major self image issues my entire life. I hated seeing myself in mirrors, pictures, you name it. I honestly thought it was kinda normal so I just accepted it.

Now about 3 weeks ago I was at my girlfriends house, we have been dating a little over a year now, and have plans to move in together soon. Now recently she has shaved her head to support of her friends with cancer (side note thenl treatments for that friend are going very well). She had since bought some wigs to wear while her hair grows back out. We were joking around as I have male pattern baldness, and when she went to the bathroom I jokingly threw a wig on and waited. She came our, saw me we laughed for a bit and she said "you know I think you'd make a pretty girl" we laughed some more but those words triggered something in me.

Cut to a few night's ago she asked why I've been acting weird lately and I just told her how i was feeling. She said "alright let's do this " and when I asked what she told me she was going to give me a bit of a makeover and put me in one of her dresses and if i liked it then good. I was nervous and asked what if I did like it would she still be attracted to me. She just responded with "Baby you know I'm bi, guy or girl you're still mine." Her words reassured me honestly i love her so much.

Anyways she finished the make up, fitted a wig on me perfectly and got me in a dress and even helped me put a bra on and stuff in a little so i could see what breasts would kinda look like on me. Now I expected to see myself in the mirror, laugh this off and move on right, but I didn't. She did an unbelievable job, like I looked like I had been born a woman, and when I saw myself in the mirror for the first time in my entire life, I liked what I saw. I probably stared at myself for a good 10 minutes before she finally asked me something. She asked what I wanted to be called. After a few seconds I said Jessie, I always like the name Jessie. She whispered in my ear "well Jessie, you look beautiful." And that was it, I knew this was who i wanted to be.

I'm nervous now though, my friends will accept it but my family are, well let's just say not very progressive. But this is what I want.

end ID]

[insomnivamp]

there’s an update!! 

[link]

[ID: A screenshot of a Reddit post from r/offmychest by user awaythrowjessie, titled “I went out as Jessie for the first time and I was honestly surprised”. The screenshot reads: Hello everyone, this is an official follow up to my previous post that went viral and caught me off guard.

So me and my girlfriend, (Who has officially agreed to disclose her name lol) Emily, had gone shopping for me to get me outfits and the like. Earlier today i put on one of those outfits and officially faced the world as Jessie for the first time.

To say I was nervous would be an understatement. We went to our local mall and I was almost shaking, thankfully Emily calmed me down and said if anyone said anything mean to me she'd handle it, then playfully threw up her hands like a boxer lol. We stepped inside and started walking around going in stores and I noticed something, no one was staring. Like at all. I live in an area that still has issues with LGBTQ people so I was afraid of staring or aggressive people. But none of that happened. People greeted me, the store workers were kind and nobody looked at me like I was weird. I felt comfortable, and Emily even said she saw someone check me put, though i doubt that.

This was unbelievable to me and honestly I felt like myself. I feels nice that I can go out without worrying about Judging eyes.

To all the supporters of my previous post thank you, you have made me happy. Ill keep this account going to let you join me in my journey and once I'm confident enough I'll post up some pics of me and Emily too :) end ID]

[foxgirltail]

I'd much rather people reblogged this version of the post than any other at this time btw

[anagramofbrat]

Honestly crying right now. Wherever Jessie and Emily are at this moment, I hope they're doing well.

[emilytheslayer]

This is so similar to my wife's story I'm smiling and crying at the same time. I love it every time someone realizes they can live as their authentic self.

[get-more-transfem]

To the trans girl reading this: it is never to late to transition. It is never too late to question your gender identity. It is never too late for anything. Live your dreams and be your happiest self. Don't leave yourself wondering of what could've been when it could be now. I will wrap my arms around you and embrace you, even if you want to transition in your mid 30s or 40s. Even if you've already had puberty and your body has developed. It will never be too late.

[saxypunch]

Started transition at 36, and now at nearly 44 I'm the happiest I've ever been. Basically every aspect of my life is massively improved, and I don't think I've really changed that much as a person — I just developed a willingness to advocate for myself, and that has made all the difference. And that's a skill you'll need to learn; it can't stop at just talking to a doctor and expecting everything else to fall into place. Your transition has to come from a real conviction that you deserve better than this, or you'll just be a sad lump with a prescription. Forge yourself. Decide who you want to be, and Climb. Those. Steps.