Giant Alien Spidergirls are No Joke

idk what I'm doing anymore :3 Adult/TMA/Disabled/Métis/ML public transportation pervert spidercat girlthing

[downsouthdyke]

Hi, it's me still, needing help!

I never reach goal on my posts so I can't catch up and it's really stressing me out. I work endlessly it feels like, despite being exhausted and disabled. I keep canceling all my dr appts bc i just cant keep tryna deal with the mounting medical bills even with insurance and can't rly afford all my meds after the fact anyway.

My car is having issues, my battery is seemingly on it's last leg. I had to get a jump last week at work and I have 3 broken sensors. I desperately need work done on it and need to pay my car note.

The power company for my part of the state is out of control and doubling and tripling ppl's bills to the point we have a large scale group abt the corruption and a protest planned.

And good news, I am OUT OF THE DIABETIC RANGE! but I do still need to get fresh groceries and stuff bc I worked very very hard to get to where I am and need to maintain it!

My wife does have a new job tho now! Filled with more transphobic issues as is usual here in the deep south but for now she has to keep it while we try and stay afloat 😭

And yes im still working on doing nails for ppl, I got one order a few weeks ago that im abt to ship out! Im so excited! Please support black business if u can!!!

Between my car note, power bill, groceries, work on my car, meds, etc im aiming for $1325. Please help if u can.

TLDR: Black disabled lesbian and Trans lesbian wife struggling to catch up on bills 🖤

zlle: [email protected]

cshapp: $sailorsylvie

pypal: [email protected]

vnmo: Serena-Manning

Kofi

Home Needs Wishlist

My press on nails website 💅

Thank you so much for reblogging and/or donating! 🩷

[downsouthdyke]

Here's where im at rn 😭😭😭

[downsouthdyke]

Things are still bad y'all especially since I ended up in the emergency room last month after being very sick for a couple weeks. Ive lost my car insurance, im behind on rent and car payment and I rly need groceries, cat food and to refill my meds.

Please please please show up this Juneteenth for a Black Disabled Lesbian in the deep south!

[downsouthdyke]

Im still having to drive without insurance bc i have not reached goal for that or rent. Please please keep sharing this post!!!

[downsouthdyke]

I came outside to go to work and my car is gone. Y'all PLEASE help me get my car back. I have a job. I work so much. Im disabled and STILL bust my ass. I dont do anything to enjoy life im just tryna fucking survive and it sucks. Please please help.

[downsouthdyke]

URGENT. I NEED $1338.01!!!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

[downsouthdyke]

$73/1338!!!

[downsouthdyke]

URGENT URGENT URGENT!!!! PLEASE SHARE!!!!

[downsouthdyke]

I have just a few days before everyrhing falls apart for good. Idk what to say. Just need help if u can. Thanks y'all.

[posthumousprincessparts]

PLEASE HELP TWO TRANSFEMS IN DANGER

hi there it's princess/nova back again, i'm really sorry i have to come here like this but me and my wife are still struggling abandoned by our families and unable to reach any of our friends. we've been trying to survive without me being exposed to harassment but at this point we're going hungry. we don't have any income and need help affording food for ourselves and our kitties please if you can, donate. I would be so truly thankful

v3nm0: @Crow-Forgemaster , @Prince-Nova

c@sh@pp: $dragonforgedbutch , $StrayNova

and for people from outside of the USA, i take donations on my F@nsly: @lil_puppy_nova

[hand-inthe-dragonsmaw]

Hey everyone im Crow, Princess' wife. Princess was deleted in the middle of the night and she didnt even get an email about it and all of her posts have seemingly been wiped from the website again. we still need donations, the living situation just becomes worse with each new termination that happens

also, just as important, if anyone could reach out to me or @hyenapup-aphros, especially if you were mutuals or talking to princess, she desperately needs community and people to talk to who care

[cyprozombiegirl]

terfs are equivalent to nazis to me. theyre both forms of white supremest ideology. as a jewish trans woman ive zero positive interest in the lives of either continuing.

[enba-and-luka]

The azteca according to some teams:

[innerchildabortionclinic]

it's been so long since i've had berries

[zitongzi]

I guess you had a nothingberry

[innerchildabortionclinic]

[innerchildabortionclinic]

it's been so long since i've had berries

[zitongzi]

I guess you had a nothingberry

[innerchildabortionclinic]

[sailatina3]

Tgirl power fantasies: friends who genuinely like you unconditionally

[aradiabot612]

monogamous people in relationships bios are so fucking funny. oh you're taken? stolen? lock emoji with their name/initial? heart next to their name in bio? girl did you get kidnapped? are you experiencing the fake idea of stolkholm syndrome?

[aradiabot612]

oh so that's whyyyyy. question answered, post cancelled, monogamous people are being held hostage

[redmenacealine]

[redmenacealine]

[cannibalings]

have you reopened the wound? will you reopen the wound? when will you reopen the wound?

[hand-inthe-dragonsmaw]

what tf???????

my wife just got nuked not fucking four days after she got hack and she didnt even ANNOUNCE she was back, just fucking started posting

and shes nuked?? pendulousbunnyudders just got back and now shes gone again?

someone help us, help HER, cause we needed to make a donation post today and now she cant and mine is barely making the rounds

v3nm0: @Crow-Forgemaster , @Prince-Nova

c@sh@pp: $dragonforgedbutch , $StrayNova

and for people from outside of the USA, her F@nsly: @lil_puppy_nova

we need food for us and our cats and bills! we had some money before but a large unexpected bill took it all

[hand-inthe-dragonsmaw]

Hey, guess whos blogs just got NUKED again

yeah its my wife, who literally wasnt doing anything, y'know, besides begging for her life so we didnt live in a rotting shack in the bible belt in the fucking mountains with the closest town 20 minutes away from us and both of us disabled

this fucking hurts, can you see that? time and again we have to beg because there are no jobs here and every bit of money we get has to go straight to food and bills and keeping ourselves barely alive in this hellhole and we cant even set any aside to get us out of here

and her blog keeps getting nuked, for what, just existing?

please help, if not for me, for her. the house is literally falling apart around us, her throat is closing up on her and her insurance is literal days from running out, theres just so much falling apart in our lives

please

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

[punissuer]

ID / TL;DW: young Black man explains the history of voodoo dolls: they originated in England, where Black people where prohibited from learning to read or write, to help witches keep track of what ailed their patients. Eg., person goes to witch and laments headache, they treat their headache and make a small doll (called "poppet"), trying to represent them as good as possible, stick a needle in its head and put it up a shelf. When they return next week, the witch takes their poppet and asks about their headache. If it's gone, they remove the needle, otherwise they know they have to treat a rather persistent headache.

[tartrazeen]

I'm just gonna freeze-frame this for everybody:

[frostops]

Rhps being played on the sphere is funny as hell. Still bleak, but funny

[frostops]

your fucking "counter cultural" "queer" masterpiece is being put on the giant ugly orb in las vegas. maybe its time to really look at it and see if its worth your attachment to it.

[frostops]

[pixiecaps]

like and rb to cause another abortion

[sailatina3]

Lets abort until its 1/2 of the generation.

[villainessbian]

It's not too late to abort these fuckers

[posthumousprincessparts]

PLEASE HELP TWO TRANSFEMS IN DANGER

hi there it's princess/nova back again, i'm really sorry i have to come here like this but me and my wife are still struggling abandoned by our families and unable to reach any of our friends. we've been trying to survive without me being exposed to harassment but at this point we're going hungry. we don't have any income and need help affording food for ourselves and our kitties please if you can, donate. I would be so truly thankful

v3nm0: @Crow-Forgemaster , @Prince-Nova

c@sh@pp: $dragonforgedbutch , $StrayNova

and for people from outside of the USA, i take donations on my F@nsly: @lil_puppy_nova

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

I love that tumblr scrubbed every instance of this post from the site when they terminated her account, awesome. thanks to the person who had a copy in the drafts and made sure I got it.

anyway, here's the DM I got after a couple days of fundraising

do you have $20 and a desire to make a sad girl smile? we can't right the wrongs done to her, but we can make her day better.

[autogynophelia]

I'm running a pride event for trans people with a transmasc acquaintance. They've written a quiz for the event about queer history. In one of the questions, referencing a period in history pre-dating the terms "trans women/men", they refer to trans women as "crossdressers" and trans men as "trans men".

I've had to call attention to this in the most convoluted way, going out of my way to thank them profusely for their efforts, positive emojis etc etc, pointing out bits I specifically liked, and only then drawing attention to the issue with this one question. I have to point it out as if it's a minor issue, I have to pretend it was an understandable mistake, I have to let them save face by saying "I'm sure you didn't mean it that way". I have to suggest an alternative to give them an easy fix where they don't have to think. Then I have to thank them again and end the message on a high.

Then I have to patiently listen to their nonsensical excuses, and thank them again for changing the text of their quiz. Then write another appeasing message that characterises their transmisogyny as understandable.

And after all this shit I have had to do because a non-transfem wrote some transmisogynistic nonsense, it is me who is left riddled with anxiety. Because every time I call out something like this, even if I am as meek about it as possible, I am rolling the dice as to whether I will end up being smeared as an unreasonable bully and kicked out of this group (which might be a blessing honestly atp).

It often feels like transmisogyny is 10% abuse and 90% consequences for drawing attention to that abuse. "When you expose a problem you pose a problem" indeed, thank you Sara Ahmed for giving me the language to describe this shit 🙏