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Here, a cheater course on caring for natural fibers!

1. Wool. Treat it like it has the delicate constitution of a Victorian lady and the conviction that baths are evil of a 17th century noble. (If I get in WATER my PORES will OPEN and I will CATCH ILL AND DIE.)

2. Cotton; easygoing. Will shrink a bit if washed and dried hot.

3. Silk; people think it’s like wool and has the constitution of a fashionably dying of consumption Victorian lady, but actually it’s quite tough. Can be washed in an ordinary washer, and either tumbled dry without heat or hung to dry.

4. Linen; it doesn’t give a shit. Beat the hell out of it. Historically was laundered by dousing it in lye and beating the shit out of it with wooden paddles, which only makes it look better. The masochist of the natural fiber world. Beat the fuck out of it linen doesn’t care. Considerably stronger than cotton. Linen sheet sets can last literal decades in more or less pristine shape because of that strength.The most likely natural fiber to own a ball gag.

stonefemblues

personally i don’t like to define stone top/bottom as only giving or only receiving “sexual pleasure” since that makes it sound like only the bottom feels any kind of pleasure when having sex, and is more likely to be interpreted to be one-sided or selfish by non-stone people. instead i prefer to define it more based on the specific sex acts one is or isn’t ok with giving or receiving.

at its most basic definition, a stone bottom is one who does not penetrate their partner, while a stone top does not receive penetration. boundaries around other sex acts, such as oral or chest stimulation, often also follow this only giving (top) vs. only receiving (bottom) pattern but are sometimes more flexible depending on the individual.

it’s important to note that a stone top receives sexual pleasure by performing sex acts to their partner, so it’s not a one way street for enjoying the sex. we both enjoy it very much and can be entirely satisfied during sex without pushing anyone’s boundaries.

giantbutch

I’ve never heard stone described this way and this feels so related in so many ways

fagfishing

this is the kinda stuff you guys want right

ruffdyke

im not i to force masc but the posts under the tags are amazinf

giantbutch

Just now Realizing I haven’t been fucked in a bass pro shops yet and now I feel deprived.

How did I end up with DDs after only 8 months on hrt help

#I think they might be too big

boyth1ng

reblog this if it’s ok for a butch to dm you <3

jack-the-lesbian

ring of keys measuring contest

butchfagminotaur

someone sent me this and like… it’s so true some of y’all treat us like exotic pets who can fuck you rather than fully grown human people

#honestly though #trans butch

butchfagminotaur

i don’t remember making this but i was so right

genderqueerdykes

being cisgender is just not an option for a lot of intersex people.

i was never given the option to be cisgender anything. every part of me that deviated from what a girl or boy "should" look like spelled trouble. because i dressed and acted very masculine, before puberty, people called me a bulldyke, a butch lesbian, a "girl pretending to be a boy" and "not a real boy". i was never "feminine enough" to be a woman.

after puberty hit, i started growing a beard, and my shoulders and chest got broader and more square. my body became more "masculine", so suddenly, i was labeled as a "boy pretending to be a girl" and "not a real girl". after I started testosterone, i haven't stopped being called a faggot, a fairy, a sissy or a pansy because i'm not "masculine enough" to be a man despite being a bear.

there's no winning in the eyes of a society that's so focused on binary this-or-that choices. i had no hand in the matter, this all happened way before I started testosterone HRT. in fact, even when i was placed on estrogen HRT to try to "correct" my intersex traits and symptoms, i still wasn't gendered or seen as a cis woman. i was still the same tranny bulldyke. no matter what i do, my intersex and transsexual traits will always be weaponized against me; whatever sounds the "worst" at the time, or whatever invalidates what i want.

in order to liberate trans people from this struggle, we must also liberate intersex people, for our struggles are virtually one in the same. our fight for body and identity autonomy is shared. it will always be impossible for me and other intersex people to be viewed as cis anything while white American society remains focused on pointing out the "differences" between men and women, instead of embracing the similarities we all can and do have.

intersex and trans people owe it to one another to disassemble these dangerous attitudes and shut them down when and where possible. it's not only trans people who face this struggle- intersex people deal with never being able to pass or be clocked as their actual gender from birth a lot of the time. people MUST understand that women and men come in all types of bodies, shapes and sexes, whether or not they chose to look like that. and whether or not they chose doesn't matter, they deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, which means being gendered correctly despite how they look or sound.

genderqueerdykes

I think a lot of people on this website would benefit from hearing that back in 2011 when I was a part of my college's pride group, I was friends with a gay cis male drag queen whose roommate was a lesbian. They had sex with each other often, but it didn't stop my friend from identifying as a gay guy, nor did it stop their roommate from being a lesbian. Neither of them identified as bisexual. This kind of stuff happens between queer people of "conflicting" identities all the time, it's nothing new. There aren't any rules