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CHECK MY PINNED FOR MORE! Anarcho-Hedonism: Pleasure and progress, painless* (*unless for play 😘) and stateless, excess without exploitation. Punk scene: 19 years, FA for about 21 years.

[gluesniffingluttonlover]

Early 90's gen, Non-binary, omnisexual, punk rock feeder of my darling feedee @alisacupcake. Fat sex, safe drugs, and rock n roll, biker, former reformed trooper of the empire. Autistic/ADHD former-gifted-kid burnout sufferer, Occult/Esotericism enthusiast. All my own posts are tagged with #gluesniffingluttonlover original, and all my punk song posts are now tagged with #musicpunkposts if you're interested! 😁

Kinda private person, but want to try being more social, hit me up if you'd like! DM's and asks are open, as long as things aren't mean and not super invasive I'm open minded and game to talk about most things. I'm terrible at replying however so sorry in advance, no minors, suspicious/hostile blogs will be blocked.

Beware this blog will feature a huge variety of things for fun, kink and not. Posts may include: firearms, intoxicants of varities, and potentially triggering sexual content. I will try to tag as best I can, but be on alert.

[Feedism Kinks]

• Belly play of all kinds

• Force and funnel feeding

• Overeating to the point of sickening fullness, acts of unrestrained gluttony

• Extreme weight gain ( gaining past 500+)

• Stretch marks 😍

• Sinfully unhealthy fattening (think deep fried butter sticks)

• Burps and farts from being so overfed

• Shameless messy eating and food covered feedees

• So fat mobility aids are a must

• Extremely out of shape wheezy sweaty feedees are fucking adorable. 🥰

• Fat specific caretaking (washing rolls, powdering rolls, circulation care, helping mobility, cute stuff like that.)

• Obvious public stuffings, feedings, and teasing

• Wearing skimpy/out grown clothes in public, fat spilling out everywhere

• Healthplay

• Bed bound immobility.

[Non-Feedism Kinks]

• BD/SM: Mostly dominant, sometimes switch, light DD/LG, light petplay, Shibar

• Brusing & marking, whips, flogs, and spanking

• Humiliation, degradation and praise, sadism, edging/oversitmulation

• Body worship, breeding, electro play, exhibitionism, intox play, mirrors, sensory play.

[Non-Kink]

• Punk Everything

• Psychobilly.

• Skins (where have all the bootboys gone?)

• Meme trash

• Weeb trash

• ESPECIALLY Shoujo romance weeb trash (you read that right)

• Nerd shit

• Gaming (Table top and video)

• Motorcycles

• Guns

• Buds, bottles, and powders oh my

• Witchcraft & Occultism

• Whatever autistic hyperfixation I'm experiencing till my ADHD finds a new shiny.

Credit for header art: https://www.deviantart.com/sweetnessadmirer

[honey-jaw]

Some people will never understand the experience of being 13 in the 2000s and desperately looking up different versions of “fat,” “belly,” and “big belly” on Deviantart.

[fattenedlore]

One of the things I enjoy most about being a feeder, is that I get to anticipate and be proactive about a feedee's desires, needs, comfort, accessibility, happiness, and pleasure.

It's the fucking best when your feedee knows that you're fully equipped and prepared, not just for their current weight, but all of their future weight, as well. You'll catch me saying things like:

"Yeah, I called ahead and got you special seating at the restaurant/venue (and at the special entrance so you won't need to walk far)."

"Of course, I bought that dress you love in multiple sizes so you can style it depending on your desired tightness (and always look cute and have options in-spite of your rapid growth)."

"You know I brought at least one seatbelt extender everywhere we go. And I always have that collapsible stool that can hold double your weight (for now) at the ready."

"Of course I brought a cooler of what I know are some of your favorite snacks. Yeah, you've got multiple sweet and savory options... I mean, the pantry at-home is overflowing with them, anyway."

"Hey, I upgraded the shower chair to something MUCH wider and deeper with a nearly 4-digit weight limit... yeah it took some searching/research to find the right one, but I want you to enjoy your showers! Oh yeah! I added a couple new handles to the walls, and installed a hand-held showerhead!"

"I know you said you loved this underwear and how it fits your body shape, so I bought a few pairs in both your current size, and few sized up, just in-case!"

"Of course there's more body powder in the cupboard; and there's a few different scent options; go splay out on the bed, I can powder all the spots I know you like to apply it."

"Oh, you'll have a delivery left at the door in about 15 minutes, I'm working a little late tonight, so I ordered you a few of your favorite entrees from a few different spots, just eat what you want, put the rest in the fridge (if there even are any leftovers)."

I want my feedee fully content in knowing that I'm always thinking ahead of what they want and need, long before they want or need it. I want them to fully expect that I'll always over-deliver, and KNOW that they'll never go hungry, uncomfortable, bored, or horny, ever again.

Its not enough that I enable my feedee to get fatter, I empower them to engage in non-stop, completely unrestricted overindulgence without any doubt, concern, or second thought.

Everything is already taken care of.

All that's left is pleasure and growth.

[tenacious-teasing]

If you don't treat Belly with the same reverence and eroticism that's given to Titties what are you even doing

[dogpuppy]

[bakersfield-row]

[gluesniffingluttonlover]

@funnier-as-a-feedist

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

[superspecialcherrysurprise-blog]

what i honestly love the most is unrepentant, hedonistic, blissful gluttony. when a person gorges themselves with a smile on their face, leaning back in their chair, unbuttoning their clothes, clutching their belly while they eat. hiccuping, burping, moaning, sighing. it’s the most beautiful thing in the world.

[gluesniffingluttonlover]

There's very few things more sentimental than a feedee that shares their treats with you. ❤️ You mean to tell me that your gluttonus food-obsessed lover loves you more than food? SO cute 🥰.

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

I think there’s no national feedism day because it’s such a controversial kink. Like no one’s gonna want a national cnc kink day.

There are plenty of people who fall victim to wanting to please their toxic partner pushing their body to an extent that doesn’t make them feel good and only to become an object to someone you love. Imagine having a day dedicated to something that’s associated with a dark time in your life. I don’t think it should be celebrated, because there are more victims in the community than people who genuinely enjoy this, and even if it isn’t like that the type of manipulation that people have gone through because of this kink doesn’t make it justifiable.

I wish more people spoke about that side of feedism too, because it’s not skinny people who get manipulated it’s fat people who have grown up in a society being rejected only to find a way to feel accepted but it comes with a price sadly.

WRONG there is a national feedism day and it's SEPTEMBER 28 SO YOU BETTER PUT SOME RESPECT ON HER NAME 🔊🗣️🔊📣

Feedism is not only comprised of feeders; it is also a community of feedees. You can not be in a relationship with anyone else and still be a feedee. There are many feedees in healthy relationships with feeders, and also in healthy relationships with non-feedists who still indulge their fantasies. Feedism is not inherently manipulative and anyone who is traumatizing feedees doesn't belong in this community! There are many more feedists in healthy relationships than there are victims! This community is vibrant, and loving, and supportive, and fat liberationist, and radically loving and accepting! If you can't see that then you are looking at all the wrong sources of feedism!

Having a day to celebrate feedism isn't celebrating a dark time where people are manipulated; it's a day to celebrate our bodies, our love of food, and our connection with the community.

We need a day to celebrate this to 1. Enjoy ourselves 2. Show others that feedism isn't manipulative and dark. There are people that are manipulated in any aspect of life. Saying that we didn't deserve a day to celebrate who we are just because there are victims is dismissive and unfair. This day is for the victims too, and those who were manipulated by feeders/nonconsensually involved in the kink: I'm sorry you had that experience and I promise feedism is much better than the worst things you've seen!

Feedists can be either thin once or fat all their lives. It makes no difference. Your pity for fat people is gross. It shows that you don't even view fat people as equal to skinny people, but something pathetic. Feedism shows fat people that they should be loved, respected, and accepted exactly as they are, and it's not because they're fat. That respect and love doesn't come at the cost of sexualization and objectification. It's inherent. You view respect as something transactional that can only be obtained through societal capital, sexual attraction, or conforming to a beauty standard. I hope someday you confront your own beliefs and narrow views, but in the meantime leave the rest of us alone and let us be decadent, hedonistic, happy, emotionally healthy, and FAT!

If there's a price to pay for being fat then it's worth paying because fatness is something that is worth being! Fuck!

[fishfoodpellets]

Not to derail but "I wish more people talked about this side of feedism" is a crazy thing to say when there's a horror movie, a new documentary, and COUNTLESS youtube commentary videos talking about that exact side of manipulative feedism. It is most people's baseline understanding of the kink. Who else do you want to be talking about it? Do you need a disclaimer on everything a feedee ever posts that they don't condone spousal abuse? I see posts about how to keep yourself safe in the community all the time. So genuinely, when you say "I wish more people talked about this side of feedism" what do you actually want? Because people do talk about that. All the time.

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

Prev this is golden

[hunnytoastt]

I'm going to hold your hand when I say this- what someone does to their body is their choice, and this includes things that you deem "unhealthy." I understand when people are worried about gainers being "unhealthy" because it comes from a place of concern, but there are plenty of other fetishes that include body modification that aren't as openly frowned upon. People don't have to be healthy to be treated as human beings. Your "concern" is just sugar coated fatphobia.

[bellypovs2]

"chicken bake for breakfast 😋"

"three slices of cake for breakfast 😌"

"half a dozen donuts on my way to the office 😍"

"leftover ribs and mac n cheese before work 🥹"

some of y'all are too cute. eating a day's worth of calories before the sun rises. before you form a conscious thought.

[adepsmagnum]

Intentional Weight Gain as Body Modification

A reflection on body architecture, ethics, and cultural norms

When people hear “body modification,” they tend to picture tattoos, piercings, implants, stretched lobes, or surgical enhancements. These are visible, often celebrated ways to reshape the body. They're viewed—depending on the cultural lens—as art, rebellion, identity, transformation.

But there's another kind of body modification that is rarely acknowledged: Intentional, sustained, and celebrated weight gain. A transformation not sculpted with needles or knives, but with calories, time, and will.

🧱 The Architecture of Growth

In an architectural sense, gaining is construction. Just as a builder adds volume to a structure, the gainer adds mass to their form. Just as cathedrals are raised layer by layer, a body grows in soft, rounded stages—first subtle, then significant, then monumental.

There is planning:

How much should I eat?

What will expand first—belly, thighs, chest?

How will my center of gravity shift?

What rituals will mark each stage of my build?

Gaining is not passive. It is design. The body becomes a living structure—elastic, warm, and evolving—responding to internal and external forces like pleasure, gravity, resistance, and desire.

🧬 Body Ethics: Consent, Control & Self-Ownership

Ethically, we often accept body modifications that are medicalized or commercialized: Botox, cosmetic surgery, orthodontics. Even extreme plastic surgeries find tolerance, if they promise "betterment" or conform to beauty standards.

But gaining? It disturbs people.

Not because it harms others—but because it violates deeply internalized rules about control, health, and conformity.

Yet from an ethical standpoint, intentional weight gain is:

Consensual

Self-directed

Bodily autonomous

And for many, deeply fulfilling—psychologically, emotionally, erotically

In the ethics of body sovereignty, pleasure is as valid a motivator as pain or trauma. If someone can cut into their skin to feel whole, someone else can fill their belly to overflowing to achieve the same result.

🧠 Cultural Perception: Subversion Through Flesh

Culturally, fatness is stigmatized. It's associated with lack of control, weakness, or medical failure. Yet, gaining flips this script:

It’s not accidental, it’s deliberate.

It’s not shameful, it’s celebrated.

It’s not a side effect, it’s the goal.

In doing so, intentional gaining becomes a radical act of resistance. It resists diet culture. It resists the demand for minimization. It resists a capitalist logic of “efficiency” and “fitness.”

Instead, it embraces:

Abundance

Visible pleasure

Softness as strength

Mass as meaning

The growing body becomes both a canvas and a mirror—showing the world not just what is taboo, but what is possible.

🔍 Closing Thought: A Modification Made of Flesh

What makes gaining unique among body modifications is its medium: Flesh, not ink. Volume, not incision.

It is alive, and responsive. It jiggles, stretches, folds, and settles. It’s unpredictable—yet cultivated. It’s taboo—yet intimate.

It is, at its core, the slowest, heaviest, most embodied art form there is. And for those who choose it—whether for fetish, identity, defiance or joy—it is just as real, intentional, and worthy as any scar, tattoo, implant or piercing.

You are allowed to sculpt yourself. Even in cream. Even in fat. Even in fullness.

[transandrogyny--turtlebug]

It's literally so punk, so counterculture, to be fat and anti diet. People hate it. They hate it so much that you eat food for pleasure instead of weight loss. It's freeing

[innerchildabortionclinic]

should i be buying kerrygold ?

yes

[squidwardtelevision]

[gluesniffingluttonlover]

@funnier-as-a-feedist

[vewkbelly]

One thing feeders need to do more is gentle passive feederism praise. When my bf / feeder comes up to kiss me, and he gently puts his hand on my belly and squeezes it. Or when without asking, he rubs my belly, giving it kisses and love. Even when he makes me food, he makes me extra and calls me his good girl. Our bellies deserve praise for how much we stuff ourselves, and how heavy we are.

[fatinamorbidosa]

❤️

[thesophistiicate]

if you want to experience life more deeply you have to find more beauty. stop training yourself to dismiss, to mock, to assume the worst all the time — when you do this you build walls between yourself and the world. and after a while you stop feeling the warmth of it entirely.

beauty requires openness. it asks you to let things reach you, to soften enough to be moved. it’s not naive to see beauty everywhere—it’s a skill, a form of intelligence, a kind of quiet bravery. because it is so much easier to critique than to create, to detach than to engage, to dismiss than to love.

let yourself be affected. let yourself find things beautiful and let that be enough. life is not asking you to be cool, sitting on the sidelines and nitpicking everything. it’s asking you to see life and experience it fully.

[sitronsangthoughts]

I've seen a fair amount of fat liberation activists explain that they have always been fat, they're not about to stop, and that's natural and beautiful and fine. That's an incredibly important message.

What I've seen less - and what I want to remind people of - is this: if you've become fat, that's also natural and beautiful and fine.

When you're a fat person who has been thin in the past, that comes with its own brand of shaming. People take your history of thinness as proof that you don't have to be fat. You often fear the look of disappointed surprise in the eyes of someone you haven't met since you were thin. People try to determine "what happened". They don't see your fat body as just you, but as a sort of symptom that isn't part of you.

Becoming fat is not a tragedy, it's not a sign of failure, it's not a bad or shameful thing. The thin you is not the Real you. You are always real and always worthy of freedom, respect and peace. You are allowed to be fat no matter how or when you became fat.