So it begins...

Katie || 28 years old || Bi

[gaynfl-moved]

now that spooky season is over and you emo dweebs have to go home, it’s time for me to be holly and jolly on fucking main

[gaynfl-moved]

time to be holly and jolly on fucking main

[heck-im-lost]

NO! NO CHRISTMAS THEMED ANYTHING UNTIL DECEMBER

[gaynfl-moved]

HOLLY AND JOLLY ON FUCKING MAIN

[bozoparade]

Fucking Hanukkah Sameach, babey

[gaynfl-moved]

this is the only valid comment on this post

[gracelessbi]

bi-on-main -------> gracelessbi

[gracelessbi]

Further evidence that exclusionists like to hold inclusionists responsible for the actions of a few, but get pissy and mean when someone does the same thing to them.

[tomiecult]

rb this with your ethnicity/where you’re from + at what age you got your ears pierced

[biaroace]

discord emoji pride set — kitty cat edition 🐾 | pictured: ace, aro, oriented aroace (check my links for definition). bases taken from android + moremoji. free to use, likes and reblogs appreciated if you do! 

[gracelessbi]

Really, everybody? Fucking REALLY, @allosapphics?

In this, the year of our lord 20gayteen, you’re going to go back to 2016, dredging up some old ass discourse (that wasn’t evil all that spicy of a take the first time around) - and for what?

Congratulations, @allosapphics​ - You wasted a good chunk of your life in an effort to make asexuals....idk, feel bad about existing or something.  Well done on being a miserable bastard with zero time management skills.  

Also, as far as wanting them to get a taste of oppression so that they know what it’s like to have slurs yelled at them,

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?

You know how awful it is to have slurs yelled at you.  You know how it fucks with your head and crushes your soul a little more every time and you’re actually going to be such a fucking prick as to wish that on someone else???

What the fuck is wrong with you???

Hey @exclusionists - Are any of you going to call this dumpster fire of a human being out or are you going to let them ruin the “ITS JUST THE CISHETS!” image you’re trying to cultivate for yourself?

[glimmer-lied]

exclusionists think calling inclusionists nazis and hacking their accounts is a game and if that doesn’t disgust you enough to disassociate yourself with them, nothing will.

[gracelessbi]

Remember when exclusionists held and continue to hold every single ace person (regardless of if they were cishet or LGBT+ in addition to being ace) and inclusionist responsible for that one jackass who made the “aces won’t get aids” comment?

Remember when exclusionists got mad when the same logic was applied to them in return? (The logic of “well one person made a stupid comment so they must ALL believe that!”)

[bunnigay-moved]

I thought that maybe some exclusionists were okay. You know, people sometimes compared them to alt-right, to TERFs, to all these terrible groups of people and I really, truly didn’t think it was fair to compare them to people like that, because I thought I understood that they were LGBT people with a different view, that felt threatened. That’s really what I thought. But not anymore. I was hacked earlier today. Legitimately hacked, not even an hour ago. I have screenshots with timestamps, the hacker changed my header to nsfw image, changed my title twice with “IM NOT A REAL LESBIAAANANNA” and “email”, changed my bio to “aro people dontt exist and ur all dumbasses”, and made multiple posts that include the following

“FUCK ARO PEOPLE YOU ALL SHOULD DIE”

(a screenshot from someone else who informed me they were posting)

“HAHA BITCHESSSS”

“ur dumb”

“Im an exclust now guys dont worrrry”

“IMMA NAZI”

“hettie”

“you can have it back now ;)”

(these screenshots were taken by me after my account’s password was restored to the original one)

They also posted on my aro positivity blog (just posted, didn’t change anything)

“DUMMMBBB MOGAIS”

I have another account using different email that I logged into while this was happening to see what was going on with the time stamp on it. It have not posted on it in months, but what’s important is that the time shows I was on it during all of this.

I say this is an important thing because I’ve seen things like this happen before and I am almost certainly going to be accused of faking this. My account was seized for about an hour today (from 7:27 to approx 8:24 PST November 30, 2018)

I had faith that exlclusionists wouldn’t go as low as the people they’re often compared to. But this is unforgivable. You came onto my account, posted racist, homophobic, and aphobic things on my blog. It doesn’t matter that it was only one of you, the people apart of your fight did this, and they will probably continue. This is what your fight is becoming. You are using the tactics that TERFs and the alt-right use. I hope you’re happy.

(screenshots including the changed bio and titles)

I will probably go on a small hiatus for a little while because I am still scared. If you want you can definitely leave an ask if you have any questions for when I get back to this blog.

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Me: *sees an aro person*

Me, tearing up:

[gracelessbi]

Remember when exclusionists said they accepted LGBT+ aces?

Remember when they immediately backtracked and invalidated ALL aces?

[gracelessbi]

Facts I learned from the one true gatekeeper:

- You have to have dysphoria to be Trans

- All Trans people want to transition. If you don’t, you’re probably just a cis faker.

- The waiting list for transitioning procedures is so long because of all of the cis fakers, and NOT from BS government regulations or insurance bullshit

Thanks for the update.

[gracelessbi]

So the president is literally admitting to blackmail now.

Cool. Cool. Cool cool.

[gracelessbi]

Because, with all of the violence in the world right now, it isn’t even the slightest bit creepy to say “soon” in response to when you’re going to brutally murder a group of people for their orientation.

(And before any of you gremlins try it, I’m not a “cishet bootlicker”. I just think that, with the recent rash of straight up mass murders, this is an incredibly fucked ur joke to make)

[gracelessbi]

@all-or-nothings

“Non binary comes under transgender”

For some. There are plenty of NB people, even just here on tumblr, who’ve expressed that they aren’t comfortable being shoved under the label of Trans

“What the hell is a non dysphoric trans person?? So like...cis?”

A non dysphoric trans person is a trans person who does not experience dysphoria. That does not make them CIS.

“That’s the problem with inclusionists....so they can feel included”

You really want to tell my bi ass that I’m not a part of the LGBT+ community? I don’t have to try to feel included - I’m part of the goddamned acronym. I AM included.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

clap your hands if you’re BISEXUAL and A LITTLE BIT OF A DUMBASS

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

stomp your feet if you’re PANSEXUAL and kind of A DUMB BITCH

[gracelessbi]

[purple-is-great]

hey guys uhh i’ve realised i’m nonbinary. i think i like the name Saukko and they/them pronouns

[gracelessbi]