Guardian of the Peanut

34 - she/her

[donesparce]

Bath & Body Works logo but it says Back & Body Hurts

[fuckoffsenpapaya]

[guardianofthepeanutblog]

😭😭😭

[thickania]

I stopped interacting with Chris Evans fandom a little while ago, it has nothing to do with Alba, i actually ended up watching her work and enjoying some of it, it's more to do with the fandom itself, it got insanely boring, misogynistic and borderline dangerous, people got way too invested in his personal life, more than before, they were calling alba every name in the book in the name of "justice", lies and rumors were spread, people were being doxed and scammed, so I just stopped interacting.

So imagine my surprise (not really) when I decided to check his tag and see things about avengers new movie, and see that it was still a dumpster of fire, but now with Sebastian Stan.... I cannot stress this enough CELEBRITIES DON'T OWE YOU A GODDAMN THING, they don't owe you their personal life, yes, even if and when they talk about it, they still deserve their rights to choose where they want to keep their privacy, they don't owe you a single life just because you like them, they don't owe you a partner you aprove off, it's their fucking life. "Oh but I don't like who they chose to date/marry" well, though luck, if it bothers you, just move on. "Oh but their partners laughed at this insensitive joke when they were 14 years old, and I think we should call them out" I don't know how to explain this to you, you don't have the power or authority to call a celebrity out, you are not within their community, all you can do it's stop giving them money and attention if it's something that it's affecting you. "But I think their partner is a pornstar and a prostitute"... Okay, and? Like, I highly doubt they are, but even if they were or are, and?

And this happens with every fandom, but specially with fandoms where the celebrity is male and desirable, it's always the same bullshit, over and over and over again, y'all don't fucking stop, you guys suck the life out of everybody, it's fucking exhausting to be in fandoms. This shit, should be a breeze as we get older, but it gets more and more difficult. I understand this behavior when people are teens, but these are grown ass women, in their 30s and 40s, acting like a petulant teenagers because their favorite white men it's having a life that doesn't involve them, I'm sorry Melinda, he's not going to fuck you, even if they met you and got to know you, he probably wouldn't. Y'all a fucking weird.

[zeta-finnish]

Hey

Hey you

Yeah you, the one reading this.

*gives you a hug*

You deserve to be loved.

Have a great day!

[condemnedouthouse]

[ch0co-c0rn3t-lov3]

DO NOT DOWNLOAD TUMBLR it will install a virus on your device called tumblr

[transpigeon]

STOP! before you decide you are irretrievably doomed, try one of the following options:

transition

bdsm

iron supplements

[spirit-of-science]

sleep study

ADHD medication

DBT

[headedoutleft]

vitamin D

go outside for an hour and observe birds

eat a snack

[trackerkitsune]

drink water

[ineffable-writer]

Maybe do these in reverse order

[katelyn-danger]

Don't listen to them! Transgender BDSM now!!!!

[longnuts]

Does anyone know what to do

[princecarlton]

[weirdo-offical]

we gonna test smt out

Like if you exist.

Reblog if you dont

[uququ]

before you make a major life decision you should ALWAYS make sure that you are going through something that could be described as an "episode"

[shadybisexualpirate]

Oh you don't understand aegosexuals?

I'm as much of a fan of sex as some people are fans of horror.

It's exciting, and interesting, and thank god It's not really happening.

[quakerjoe]

[crabanarchy]

They say ooooh be a good boy for daddy and you'll get a reward. But then the reward is just gay sex. This is bullshit. I wanted a skateboard

[elthewise]

Me liking every post with pride tags to see which little flag animation I'll get:

[kayla-denker]

Hey, you, cis girl that's very (correctly) vocal about women being allowed to talk about their periods, do you include trans women in that?

I ask because every single time I've tried to talk about it to anyone that isn't a trans woman they get fucking angry. Which has caused me to have to just suffer in silence every single month. So I really relate to cis women when they talk about literally the exact same thing; being shamed by everyone around them their whole lives for talking about their periods, so they just suffer in silence every month as it negatively impacts their work and social lives. But I don't even feel like I can voice that I am literally dealing with the same exact thing because most of y'all react like you want to throw me in front of a bus for saying it, even those of you who act like your such big great transfem allies.

[kayla-denker]

I guess I'll take this opportunity to talk about trans women periods. The first thing any tme person thinks when they hear this is always "how can trans women have periods? They don't have uteruses!"

The answer is: the uterus isn't what causes your period, it is effected by your period. What causes your period and what causes trans women's periods is the same thing: the endocrine system.

HRT changes the sex of your endocrine system. Feminizing HRT makes it a female endocrine system, giving us a 28-day hormone cycle just like cis women. At the end of that cycle, the hypothalamus floods the body with prostaglandins. Those are what cause all but one of the period symptoms, because they make muscles inflame and contract. They are what make the uterus shed its lining, they are what cause intestinal cramps, they are what cause body aches, they are what cause headaches and migraines. The only period symptom not causes by the release of prostaglandins throughout the body is depression, and that is caused by your endocrine system simply not processing as much estrogen and from simply feeling like shit.

So, the only symptoms trans women don't get every 28 days is menstrual cramps, because yes we do not menstruate since we don't have uteruses. But migraines, depression, body aches, intestinal cramps, and the infamous "period shits" don't exactly add up to us having any better of a time. Except we have to pretend that we're fine and nothing is different because no one believes that we get periods, not even cis women.

"But you can't call it a period then because that refers to MENSTRUATION!" is another one I hear all the time. This is incorrect. You use the word "period" instead of just "menstruation" because it doesn't just refer to menstruation. It refers to a period at the end of the hormone cycle where we experience a host of symptoms. And not all cis women experience all of the symptoms that encompass the period. Not all cis women get migraines, or body aches, or have severe depression. If a cis woman gets a hysterectomy she doesn't menstruate either! In that instance she experiences an identical period to what trans women experience. Yet, I doubt you'd insist that cis women who've had hysterectomies don't have periods.

[kayla-denker]

Oh, another thing that I personally discovered after bottom surgery: vaginal odor changes for trans women during our periods too. I was not expecting that because I always thought it was just from menstruation. But nope, the ph levels of a trans woman's vagina are the same of as a cis woman's vagina, and it changes during our periods just the same.

[guardianofthepeanutblog]

Feel free to complain about periods anytime. It sucks

[futurebird]

The "B" is *not* for "buses"

Via mastodon(aka the fediverse)

[kairithemang0-fm]

Reblog if you're transmasc, support trans men, or want a chocolate chip cookie

[pusheen]