Seeing memes about aspie/autism problems that we have every day makes me feel understood and that i'm not alone,,,,
and they make me laugh because it's like "damn, that happens to me too".
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Seeing memes about aspie/autism problems that we have every day makes me feel understood and that i'm not alone,,,,
and they make me laugh because it's like "damn, that happens to me too".
Facebook is so beautiful tonight
If this resonates with you at all PLEASE, for your benefit, go read this tweet thread on “fawning”
Oh my god i finally have a word for it….
There’s such enormous power in naming and understanding things, isn’t there 🙏
I nearly fucking scrolled past this, but I came back and read it.
Now I’m sitting here, re-thinking all my past and present relationships with everyone, and….
Fuck
I mean I’m saying, y’all, if it gives you pause, let it!
I see it’s back to call me out again
Same, like…everyday 😂
This is not a criticism of anyone on tumblr, but just a bunch of ramblings on the way tumblr functions and how that affects us.
I’ve noticed that when posts about mental illness and chronic illness get reblogged and removed from the context of their original blog, they sort of take on a life of their own.
I had it happen to one of my own posts. Within the context of my own blog, where I talk daily about the realistic struggles of living with Dissociative Identity Disorder, my post was just me venting about one of those little minor struggles. But when that post got reblogged by hundreds of people and somehow spread outside of the DID community, it became a relatable post and people started reading this one single symptom of DID and reacting to it by saying, “I do this too, do I have DID?”
I experienced this the other way around a few days ago. I saw a post about hyperflexibility and EDS on my dash and immediately found it extremely relatable. I read the list of “Just EDS things” and thought to myself “Aren’t all those things normal? I experience all those things!” The next thing I knew, I was on Google looking up the Brighton Diagnostic Criteria. As it turns out, the things in that relatable post weren’t really symptoms or anything close to the diagnostic criteria for EDS. They were more like minor daily annoyances that someone with EDS might have, but typical people could theoretically experience too. Removed from the context of a blog about living with EDS, and viewed by someone who doesn’t know much about EDS, they gave me the wrong impression of what the symptoms of EDS looked like. This wasn’t OPs fault at all! It’s just sort of how tumblr works. Anyway, as it turns out I’m definitely not hypermobile.
Tumblr is chocked full of “relatable” content, and I think that’s one of the things that makes this place great. People crave connection and to feel less alone in their life experiences.
But I’m begging you, please be cautious about how you interact with “relatable” posts and memes about mental illness and chronic illness. Just because something seems to describe your experience, doesn’t mean that is the best description of your experience.
Relating really strongly to a post about dealing with a specific mental illness is not a sign that you have that mental illness. Many mental health symptoms overlap. While the OP could be experiencing that because they have bipolar, you could be experiencing it because you have PTSD.
Take relatable posts as a sign that you need help, not as a sign that you have that specific diagnosis.
Obviously the same holds true about physical illnesses too. I’m probably not hypermobile, but I should probably bring up my joint pain and fatigue with my doctor at my next appointment. The fact that I related so strongly to a post about living with a chronic illness is a good sign that I’m living with too much pain and I should talk to someone about it.
As a final word, I want to make it clear that this post is not anti-self-diagnosis. Please do not use it to exclude self-diagnosed people from support and recovery communities. People should be able to access support and recovery communities as they seek a proper diagnosis. Not everyone has the same access to care and treatment. This post is just a word of caution about applying labels to yourself based on finding content “relatable”.
Me: This thing is triggering to me!
Them: You’re overreacting!
It’s almost like that’s what being triggered means!
Isolation on autopilot?
Oh damn, this is super interesting. Relatable, too. From the Coping book:
Just because you “function” doesn’t mean you don’t deserve help.
Making your alters in the sims to get to know them better is DID/OSDD culture
Me: *suddenly not sure what I’m doing or where things are* “I’m getting dissociative.”
Response: “Nah, you’re just disorganized.”
Me: “Where did that thing go. What am I doing with this?…I’m definitely dissociating.”
Response: “I don’t think so.”
Me: “Wait. Who am I having this conversation with??”
Response: …
FOR ALL THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK:
having different sides of yourself and/or feeling/behaving differently in different situations (e.g. at home, at work, with friend group A, with friend group B) and/or having differing feelings towards situations, things, or people and/or experiencing an “inner child” or “inner strict parent” (or other schema therapy stuff) is not the same as having DID* or OSDD** and thus having alters***.
It doesn’t mean the same. It doesn’t feel the same. It doesn’t work the same.
People with DID/OSDD can experience all things mentioned above too - I, as an alter, experience all those things as me and on top of that, there’s alters. The more differentiated alters experience some or all of those things too.
These experiences can be a small start of trying and beginning to understand the struggle of people with DID or OSDD, but it’s far from the same. Also, DID and OSDD are not just about the alters - it’s about all trauma symptoms. Dissociation, nightmares, physical symptoms, triggers, a history of childhood trauma, and way more.
*DID = Dissociative Identity Disorder **OSDD = Otherwise Specified Dissociative Disorder ***These two disorders are the only possible explanation for having alters and both disorders are a result of (early) childhood trauma that took place before the age of 6 to 9.
The alter that hates everyone
Dissociation in Traumatized Children and Adolescents: Notes
Dissociation, the absence of awareness, is a very normal process when it occurs from time to time.
Normal Dissociation
o Fantasy stories and friends take on a separate reality
o Imaginary friends may be an enjoyable fantasy, expansion of experience, a way to fill loneliness or boredom. They can also be a process for working out fears and ambivalent feelings.
o Adults may experience a similar type of dissociation when driving but their minds are preoccupied with other thoughts.
o Adults and children may experience depersonalization—seeing or experiencing themselves as if from the outside—when they are caught in a frightening situation (i.e. getting bitten by a dog, being in a car accident, etc.) or going through a particularly stressful time.
o Dissociative experiences that are part of the normal development do not cause a fragmentation of experiences or self.
o The child can be aware of what happened and can talk to others about what happened.
o If the child’s experience continues to be frightening or nonsupported (not having an opportunity to process what happened), dissociative experiences are likely to continue.
o The more dissociation continues, the more it affects the child’s perceptions, feelings, physical sensations, or knowledge of the world that is stored outside of the active awareness.
o Problematic dissociation rarely occurs alone. It is often present with other things such as posttraumatic stress, childhood depression or severe anxiety.
o Dissociation can often look like Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), a conduct disorder, a reactive attachment disorder, a bipolar disorder, or may be comorbid with one of these disorders.
o Dissociation in a child may be mild, moderate, or extreme.
Mild Dissociation
o Presents as a type of “spacing out” which is different from lethargy from depression or withdrawal from anxiety.
o Abrupt changes in emotion or behavior may occur with mild dissociation.
o Most children who become upset experience a building of distress or other negative feelings to the point where the child no longer has complete control over her or his behavior.
o The child with mild dissociation is more like an infant or toddler who moves directly to extreme states of reacting: the mid-states of moderate emotion are missing or minimal.
Moderate Dissociation
o Children with moderate dissociation may experience a numbing of emotions or body sensations.
o The child can block out frightening experiences, strong emotions, body states, emotional needs, and even severe pain.
o The child may have the feeling that a situation is not happening, that her or his surroundings or events are not real—this is known as derealization.
o Depersonalization and/or derealization usually first occurs during a frightening event, and it may reoccur whenever something in a child’s world is similar in some way the frightening event.
o New frightening experiences that remind children of the original frightening experience trigger a fright response and consequently triggers the protective response of dissociation.
o Depersonalization and derealization are used to avoid distress.
Extreme Dissociation
o This occurs when, in order to feel safe, the child needs to separate the emotions, physical sensation, or experiences so completely from her or his awareness that the child, outside of consciousness, “creates” separate parts of herself or himself to hold these emotions, sensations, or experiences.
§ These are known as dissociative parts or dissociative self-states.
o Children may experience these parts or self-states as voices telling them what to do or experience a shift insides themselves or such that the children are consumed with the emotion or sensation or reexperiences the age of they experienced the frightening experience(s).
o The difficulty is that while in a dissociative state the child may be unaware of all the other learning and experiences that the child has had in her or his life.
o The child may be unaware that years have passed and that she or he is now in a safe place.
o Fear, anger, and sense of loss all may be experienced without any moderation.
o What a child does in a dissociative state will not necessarily be remembered when the child is not in that state.
o Each state (the emotion-state, the younger child state, the “now” state) is likely to have separate memory.
§ There is, however, an awareness within the child that there are other states or ways of being. The diagnostic term for this level of dissociation is known as Dissociative Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (DDNOS) (American Psychological Association, 2009).
o The angry or deprived-feeling child may steal or break things, but later in another state—perhaps, the part of the child that wants to be close to others—the child may not have access to the memory of lying and acting irrationally, while the child feels misunderstood and mistreated.
§ This type of interaction together with the intense emotions associated with feelings mistreated will often end of intensifying the use of dissociation.
o New experiences are not necessarily experienced across all dissociative or self-states. Therefore, infant or toddler parts are not modified by later experiences held in the child or adolescent part.
§ For some children, there are numerous parts within each age group. One part may be loving while another is fearful.
o The child’s facial expressions, movements, and general demeanor can vary greatly from state to state. Therefore, the child appears as if she/he are separate people.
o The child is not capable of recognizing when in one state or that other parts exist.
o This makes it difficult for the child to control which part is present at any given time.
o The switches between parts tend to be very sudden and often without the child or the people around the child being able to recognize what triggered the switch. This is referred to as Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) (American Psychological Association, 2000).
Children may or may not give specific names or other defining attributes (age, gender, feelings) to these parts.
Source: Wieland, S. (2010). Dissociation in traumatized children and adolescents: Theory and clinical interventions. New York: Routledge.
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I read an article about how Millennials don’t carry cash on them and got annoyed and literally yesterday I was out with a group of friends and NONE of us had cash
I mean if you get robbed you can cancel the card and transactions. if you get robbed for cash that’s it man
millennials are ruining the robbery industry.
ADHD culture is overusing ( ) and — and ; and … in everything you write because you have so many side thoughts that just GO there and wouldn’t make sense anywhere else
New tag game: are you a Too Many (Parenthesis) ADHD, a Too Many — em dashes — ADHD, a Too; Many; Semicolons; ADHD, or a Too…. Many…. Ellipses… ADHD…?
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