Pip's vent tent and hidey hole @hairthingies - Tumblr Blog

Made this blog because I need to vent my gender related stuff somewhere and I feel bad about spamming my friend full.

Origin of the name is that I'm currently growing my hair out and I very specifically want some locks in front of the ear. Trust me, this is not the last time you'll hear of them.

#new blog #blog intro #enby #confused #venting

gendercensus

A quick and easy nonbinary name survey

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It's open until 19th July 2026, and it's open to anyone whose gender(s) (or lack thereof) defy the restrictive binary of male/female.

Boost for SCIENCE~~~

gaelahanlon

For anyone unaware, this week Scotland elected our first ever trans members of parliament

🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

💛🤍💜🖤

hikariruka

ファンアート：DIGIMON BEATBREAK (デジモンビートブレイク) 「久遠寺マコト＆キロプモン/山田ハルコ＆シェイドモン」

I got mistaken for a woman for the first time today \o/

#nonbinary

zenbaron

Happy Birthday Inca 🔥

#before recent character development I would've probably said gender envy #now she's just cute #inca kasugatani #fire force

thegrayangel

Please Help Save the Gender Wiki

Hello, Tumblr. I've never posted here, only lurked. But this is one of the most important things in the world to me, and I honestly need to ask you for help. Please reblog if you can.

This will be a long post. It will be summarized with a TLDR at the end, including ways that you can help.

With over 9,200 pages, we are the biggest collection of gender identities on the Internet, especially the biggest source that is readily available. We are a community that has existed since 2009, and has taken off in terms of growth in the last few years.

Today, Fandom decided to close the Gender Wiki. We were given absolutely no warning, and they've only given us a two-week deadline to move the entire wiki to a new host, which we are utterly unprepared to do. The download would also not include any of the 17,000+ images on the Gender Wiki, many of which do not exist anywhere else on the Internet.

Here is a link to the post Fandom staff gave us today, and a paraphrased summary of it below:

https://gender.fandom.com/f/p/4400000000000132176

Fandom staff says that they won't continue to host our wiki because it "spreads harmful misinformation". They believe we have gone too far in "positioning everything as a gender identity", referring to xenogenders. They mention pages with xenogenders referring to suicide/self-harm and violence --- which we, the staff members, were /already/ in the process of deleting before this notice was given to us. They decided that the best solution was not to ask us to delete those pages, or even delete the pages themselves, but instead to remove our entire database.

There are many other wikis on Fandom with much worse references to violence than the Gender Wiki, which Fandom appears to have no problem with whatsoever.

I cannot express enough that this is erasure, and it will absolutely negatively affect the LGBTQ+ community to not have this treasure trove of information readily available.

I am an admin on the Gender Wiki, and I can assure you that our entire staff team is already trying to appeal to Fandom staff. I'll add any updates if they decide to respond to us, but they have no yet given staff any more information than the above

PLEASE help in any way you can. Reblog, spread awareness, or sign this petition if you have a Fandom account. Archive any Gender Wiki pages, especially ones that don't have pages elsewhere, with the Wayback Machine or alternatively archive.is, or even write posts about them here or on other sites. Please help us save this information. It can't possibly be done this quickly without help.

TLDR: Fandom staff decided that, in two weeks, they will close the Gender Wiki, the biggest gender resource on the Internet. They gave us no warning. It will be impossible to save all of the information on the wiki. Please reblog or sign this petition if you have a Fandom account. Help save the data by archiving pages here or here. Post about this. Help spread awareness.

darklightthedragon

I can't help, but I'll spread it around.

@holymuttz @xxc0ffeeb1tzxx @saber-toast-tiger @mossymycelium @the-bone-eating-vulture-kirin @cinnabunnsky @cautiou5-salmon @halogen-insertlastparthere and all my other moots. I just put a bunch of random moots here idk.

th3deadmanwalking

@ajolteonnamedsparky @watermelon-flavored-dragon-candy @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical @princeofthedark @addiction2peaches @do-not-u-dare @d1g1t4l-system-yapz @galactic-credentials @getjingledyouabsolutesquare @holymuttz @kaicannotfuckingdothisanymore @lukewarmsoupxx

itsuwari-no-kibo-offical

I would tag but im in a rush sorry

#lgbtq community #lgbtqia #lgbtq #transmasc #transgender rights #transgender #transfem #trans woman #xenogender #trans men #nonbinary #non binary #enby #neopronouns #idk what else to tag

themaveriqueagenda

"nontransitioning nonbinary people who did nothing except change their name, pronouns and label"

ah, so you mean nonbinary people who *checks notes* have transitioned.

#I envy those for whom it was this simple

the-rat-trapjaw

<3

#I think I'm cooking with my gender #but I'm adding water to compensate for too much salt and there's not gonna be much left

You know what? My gender is confusion. I am confused, you are confused, everyone is confused! My pronouns are whatever seems to fit in the moment but actually not.

#nonbinary #someone help I'm having one of those days

batmanisagatewaydrug

re: that recent post an interesting thing about being an any pronouns user is that most cishet people will hear that and immediately go "oh thank god I can just call you the normal girl pronouns" and many queer people will go "okay got it I'll use they/them and apologize if I ever fuck up and use a different one" and it's like. okay. you're actually both kind of whiffing it in different ways.

loooomband

everyone I know just exclusively using she/her for me <\3

hairthingies

Ok but actually in my experience the any pronouns user can be difficult with this as well. As the person who has to use your pronouns, changing them up all the time is confusing. When ask if they have a preference, they usually give a vague answer and it doesn't help either of us.

loooomband

Honestly that's pretty understandable :,). I can't really speak for all genderfluid people ofc but it may have to do with the fact that a lot of people are still trying out what pronouns work for them and what doesn't, which leads to it being confusing for both the user and other people wanting to refer to them (if that makes sense). Personally for me, in terms of my pronoun preference, I really don't mind, and I'm okay with literally any. The changing them up constantly is part of the discovery process imo, and while it is confusing, I think it's also important to just try and be supportive because the constant changing isn't other people trying to be confusing on purpose. Sometimes the person is genuinely just trying to see what works and what doesn't !! ^^

hairthingies

Oh I'm all fine about changing pronouns as part of dicovery. I meant it in a way of calling someone he/she/they/it all in one conversation. I can do that, but it becomes confusing to everyone in the conversation.

big-ender

batmanisagatewaydrug

re: that recent post an interesting thing about being an any pronouns user is that most cishet people will hear that and immediately go "oh thank god I can just call you the normal girl pronouns" and many queer people will go "okay got it I'll use they/them and apologize if I ever fuck up and use a different one" and it's like. okay. you're actually both kind of whiffing it in different ways.

loooomband

everyone I know just exclusively using she/her for me <\3

hairthingies

Ok but actually in my experience the any pronouns user can be difficult with this as well. As the person who has to use your pronouns, changing them up all the time is confusing. When ask if they have a preference, they usually give a vague answer and it doesn't help either of us.