Habanero Blog

they/them pronouns --- TERFs, Pedophiles, Aphobes, Biphobes, Transphobes, Homophobes, and Polyphobes are not welcome here.

[j-uwu-ish]

[xqueerneurosisx]

A reminder, since pride month is coming up:

Exclusionist cowards like to talk tough on here, but you know, and I know, that ace, aro, pan, and even polyam these are here, queer, and they aren’t going anywhere!! So, keep your head held high, be proud of who you are, and remember that you have just as much to celebrate as anyone else in this community!

[red-revival]

I remember my first year where I had a chance to join any aort of lgbt+ group and talk to other lgbt+ people, I didn't join. I didn't join because I ws afraid i wouldn't be allowed in. At the time, I didn't know I was biromantic or nonbinary. All I knew was that I felt attracted to the gender I identified with, didn't feel any sexual attraction, and while that gender i idenfitied as felt very wrong, i didn't think I had another option.

This yeah I joined an lgbt+ group run by the same organization that runs my study group and dnd group. It was great. I talked, I laughed, I had fun. For the first time in my life, I could be open about being bi, about being ace, about questioning my gender. Near the end I thanked them for being super chil and kind, and was honest about having been afraid they would be exclusionary. But they were super awesome and chill.

We talked and had fun and were kind to eachother and that was all I had ever wanted. I could have had that earlier, when I was still questioning my biromanticism and gender. I could have figured things out easier, had support from others who had been through the same, and not been so afraid and confused. But the mass amounts of ace exclusion I had seen made me too afraid to take a step that could have made my life, both as a biromantic and as a trans person, so much easier.

Ace exclusion hurts more people than it helps. But I need you all to remembwr that you won't find nearly as much exclusion in real life. Take that step. Go into that lgbt+ group and be proudly ace. Be proudly aro. It'll be worth it.

The worst that can happen is they'll say no and hurt you in some way, but the best that can happen is you'll find a place of love, support, and joy.

[conjoins]

Please help me move away from my homophobic+transphobic parents

It pains me to make this post. I’ve been much too proud to admit this, but I need help or I may die.

My name’s Atticus. I was housing in UNR during fall semester, but this last semester I couldn’t afford to take out an unsubsidized loan to pay for my boarding fees (the only thing not covered by my scholarships). I chose to go to UNR in order to live openly as a trans man, but since effectively dropping my courses, I’ve been living with my strongly conservative family in Las Vegas. I’m constantly afraid of my parents finding out I’m LGBT and this fear for them has impacted my mental health very negatively. I’ve relapse in self harm and have strong idealizations of suicide because of how trapped I feel.

I am not yet out with my family but intend on coming out as transgender this June. My parents are christian conservative republicans and are openly homophobic and transphobic. Knowing my parents, I strongly doubt that they will be accepting in any way. In high school, they refused to let my continue therapy after I nearly attempted suicide. Instead, they only allowed me to talk to my pastor, whom I couldn’t disclose my struggle with depression because it was tied directly to my gender identity and sexual abuse from a fellow LGBT person. My father has already tried to coerce me to come out since moving back in. 

I had planned to return to my summer job to save up for this move, but the casino I worked in has been closed due to covid. I have 70 USD in the bank right now.

Misha and I have been looking into housing in Reno. Here is the apartment lease we’re looking at right now.  This lease is for the whole year.

This lease is for the whole year. 

We’re hoping to make 700 USD and leave by early August. Reblogs and donations are greatly appreciated. I’ll also post emergency commission information soon.

I’m sorry that I have to do this.

Ca$happ: atlaswalking

paypal: [email protected]

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100/700

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160/700 thank you so much for your generous donations ; ;

[conjoins]

210/700 i’ll be posting commission information tomorrow, it’s really late right now, again thank you all so much for your support. i’d like to give back in any way

[conjoins]

409.89/700 the amount of the support that appeared overnight is incredibly overwhelming. i really doubted my post would reach so many people so quickly, let alone get over half of our goal in two days. i know due to the pandemic many people have been put in financially compromising situations, and i don’t want anyone to give if they can’t afford to, so seeing such large donations really surprised me. reading everyone’s encouraging messages really gives me hope, and i can’t express how grateful i am for everyone who’s helped.

i put together my commission post, and for those of you who donated already i hope to thank you directly once things with my family inevitably blows over and the dust settles.

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419.34/700

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521.96/700 

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531.96/700

[digg]

life finds a way

[keepcalmandcarriefischer]

What pokemon is that?

[hangryhabanero]

hedgedile

[i-am-a-koi]

just animal stuff in general

things you shouldn’t trust:

- any big brand pet store such as petco or petsmart, they do not know how to take proper care of the animals

- any pet store that has puppies or kittens that aren’t from shelters, they are most likely from puppy mills and they are very unhealthy puppies

- any breeder who breeds for looks and not functionality

- any breeder who is in it just for the money, not to make families happy

to be perfectly honest i just don’t really like purebred or standard breeders (and i mean this for dogs and cats) in general, purebreds often have more health issues than mixed breeds, as well as they sell their puppies/kittens for so much, and you already have to pay for food/vet/toys etc, i always encourage people to go to shelters and get puppies or to accidental breeders/breeders who don’t sell puppies/kittens for a hellish price cause usually they are more understanding

also many purebred breeders inbreed their dogs/cats to get a certain trait/look in their puppies/kittens and that is extremely unhealthy and that is how we get animals like pugs (which as cute and love-able as they are shouldn’t really look like that seriously look up how they looked before people started breeding them for looks)

i am just in a really animal care mood rn

[gayturians]

[asgardian-viking]

List of People who could use this:

-Trans women (cosplayers and non-cosplayers)

- Cis Women who feel too shy to actually show off their chest but still want to pull this off

- Cis women with small chests who also want to be true the characters.

-  Pretty much any dude who wants to cosplay as a female character

- Anyone who wants to piss off Travis

[avocados26]

Reblog to piss off Travis and support trans women + male cosplayers

[esterix]

Real Punks Aren’t Nazis

Real Punks Aren’t Transphobic

Real Punks Aren’t Homophobic

Real Punks Aren’t Racist

Real Punks Aren’t Sexist

If you call yourself a punk but you’re a bigot, congratulations you’re just an asshole

[delioncourtss]

So this is happening in the UK right now. The “equalities” minister is trying to ban trans yourh from getting healthcare.

This CANNOT happen

Blow this shit up

[sicklesium-moved-deactivated201]

i dont get offended at white people jokes even though im white because: 

i can recognize white people as a whole have systemically oppressed POC in america, which is where i live 

most people when they make white people jokes only mean the shitty white people and i am not a shitty white person 

im not a pissbaby

[damncommunists-deactivated20180]

my white friends that have reblogged this give me life

[zelda-tempest]

4. Sometimes I am a shitty white person and the jokes remind me to FUCKIN STOP

[lallamariamhabibi]

If ur white and like this post I fux with u

[birdpapi-deactivated20171121]

^absolutely

[verdant-witch]

5. It’s hard to be offended when white people jokes involve bland food/tourist dads in socks and sandals/white girls in yoga pants obsessed with pumpkin spice/suburban PTA moms and other harmless and mostly true stereotypes while jokes about POC involve them being called thugs/criminals/slurs/uneducated/illegal immigrants.

[blackpoeticinjustice]

i fucks with u heavy if ur white and you reblog this

[sm0k3-ring-deactivated20160109]

6. They’re usually really fucking funny and don’t perpetuate stereotypes that will ever affect me economically, politically, or cause me any true harm, let alone create risks that “justify” my murder and/or death

[satyrical-prince]

Waits for my white mutuals to reblog😌

[anar-tea]

yesyesyesyes

[tomuratoons-moved]

👀

[diangelo-supporter10]

As a white person, I wholeheartedly agree with all of this👆👆👆

[1zashreena1]

I recognize that even tho I’m actively fighting to fix the fucked up system,

unfortunately

I

am

still

benefiting

from

it

[todisfake]

hey quick question if the power goes off (which it keeps flickering bc of the storm) what the FUCK do i do for my bearded dragon. despite the fact that its may and i live in texas, its kinda cold bc of the storm and shes just a baby...

[hangryhabanero]

hug

[sapphicsinthecloset]

I grew up going to public school but in college most of the lesbians I knew came from private catholic schools... lol do they put something in the water ?

Hmm… I wonder too / x files theme song plays

[hangryhabanero]

all girls school

constantly surrounded by girls

[bloodyke]

for those of you who don't speak spanish and don't know what is currently going on in Puerto Rico, this is what the government is passed BEHIND CLOSED DOORS in the middle of a pandemic where they know people cannot protest against it.

they are stripping away the rights of women, children, lgbt community, etc. and trying to privatize all of our public resources for private profits.

edit new link: PLEASE sign this petition

[2-beadyeyes-deactivated20251104]

remember when you bought a gaming console and all the things you needed to use the console was already in the console so you didnt have to go buy a bunch of other stuff and remember when you bought a game and you put the game in your console you could play the game immediately there was no downloads or subscriptions or dlc it was all right there in the game you bought do you remember tell me do you remember any of it

[hangryhabanero]

nintendo

[antifainternational]

We are sharing some of our favourite gifs each day this month for Antifa International’s fifth anniversary. Today: Nazi monuments being destroyed after the defeat of Nazi Germany.

[flowerpatchedheart]

If this offends you 😊 unfollow me 😊

[homoeroticisminspace]

And a note to confederates: these monuments weren’t kept because this was “history”. These monuments celebrated horrible things and we BLEW THEM UP.

[yeehawcowbi]

That second to last one is so fuckin satisfying with how it all just comes to a nice even collapse

The last one is satisfying because that swastika wasn’t just destroyed, that shit was vaporized from existence

[aberrantemotion]

Whats the second to last one supposed to be? Was it an important building for nazis or something?

[hangryhabanero]

probably

[red-revival]

Shoutout to the half-orc lady who bought some random stolen trinkers off Clink for 50g

“Hey, can I sell you anything or can we do sone buisness?”

Clink, instantly, pulling out her bag if trinkets, “Can I sell YOU anything?”

[red-revival]

Ok so a dwarf just told our partys warforged the history of warforged and he got sll sad. How did he stop being sad? Our lizardfolk made a joke abt how he pushed the warforged into a river upon meeting him

My party has a lit of a-hole moments but at keast we can joke abt it

[red-revival]

OUR BABY DRAGON JUST MADE ONE OF THOSE CUTE CHITPING NOISES HSPPY CATS MSKE

THERES NO WAY I CAN KILL THE DRAGON ITS SO CUTE ABDOLUTE BABEY

[red-revival]

An npc foubd the cage our dragon is in

So Clink conbinced thrm it was the lesser of two evils. This npc thinks we have an entire bear

[red-revival]

Ok everything us fine, anither party member convinced the noc it was just a coyote and not a dragon ir a bear

[red-revival]

ONE OF THE PLAYERS DEADASS JUST ASKED THE FM IF WE COULD HAVE CALAMITY GANON IN THIS CAMPAIGN OH NY GOD

When your party comes up with a horrible udea that actually sounds pretty fun

I mean its not unrealistic to have ganon, one of the npcs is literally mayor dewey

[red-revival]

Of all the party members to be gambling, you think it would be the hoarder merchant rogue Clink, but no, it’s the party’s lawful good paladin

[red-revival]

Clink roping Veran, our party wizard, into a big thief thing:

Party wizard figuring out what she’s getting roped into:

[red-revival]

The entire party getting roped into this:

[thesoggybug-deactivated20191205]

Sokka Appreciation Week

[ladyginoza]

Always reblog Sokka

[adhd-vibes]

The thing about adhd is like if you hit any sort of roadblock while doing a task, no matter how small an obstacle, it’s gonna throw you completely off track.

[adhd-vibes]

like for example:

I’m hungry and I want to eat. But when I get to the kitchen I realize I have to cook something. It’s not that hard but it’s something in the middle of where I am now and me eating. So I end up not eating.

I’m cleaning my room. There are dirty clothes all over the floor. But my laundry basket is full and so I can’t put my dirty clothes where they are supposed to go. Now my momentum for cleaning is shut down and I go back to something I know how to do, like change playlists.

and that’s on executive dysfunction