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L'Orchidée Précieuse: Georges Hobeika RTW Spring 2022

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Sphinx

ink-the-artist

the way some of you describe art that you like is genuinely incredible

oh I’m ready alright

Those “teach girls its okay to hate/not like kids” needs to die. Not wanting kids is cool. Not wanting to be a mom, 100% okay. Hating kids simply for being kids makes you an asshole. If you think hating/disliking kids is okay then unfollow and block me. This hating kid culture somehow weaved into liberalism is so gross.

anneluciaf

Okay imma bite.

I can agree that hating kids isn’t okay. Absolutely not. They didn’t do anything to anyone and it can have long-term impact. I can hate the parents that are raising hell spawns, but it’s not the children’s fault.

What I don’t understand is OP in the notes saying it’s also wrong to be like “well, I don’t really like kids, but I don’t hate them… I just don’t get along with them, can’t communicate with them, don’t understand them. I won’t be mean to them bcs of that though”.

What’s wrong with that? What am I supposed to do? Snap my fingers and miraculously develop Child Skills? I don’t hate kids. I don’t particularly enjoy their company, I don’t really get along with them, I can’t communicate with them. I know it. I do my best to be nice and not let it show but on the rare occasion when I’m faced with a kid, I am awkward and it can be pretty obvious I have no idea what to do. I’m not mean. I don’t hate them. I’m just awkward.

How is that wrong? I don’t hate kids, I’m not mean to them, I do my best. This is exactly why I don’t want kids, because I know I couldn’t really give them what they need at a young age.

But somehow, I’m still the terrible kid-hater OP is talking about?

visibilityofcolor

You don’t have to have “child skills” to not dislike kids. Yes, you are exactly who i am talking about.

Like i don’t like being around kids. i am autistic and have anxiety. i emotionally and mentally cannot be around them for long periods of times esp when they get loud. i don’t have child skills at all. and that’s okay . it’s okay to be uncomfortable around kids.

but disliking a whole social group of human beings when they have no power over you is strange. literally, disliking one of the most vulnerable groups of human beings, just because they don’t come out of the womb as perfect, neurotypical, able bodied beings is very strange to me.

and trying to justify disliking a group of vulnerable, oppressed people, when it’s os much easier to just say you’re uncomfortable around them, dont’ like being around them and cannot handle them is vey strange.

so yes–you are 100% who i am talking about.

tolkienblackgirl

Why are people confused?

Replace kids with ANY other demographic of people & ask if it still tracks or is it problematic?

I don’t like Autistic people

I don’t like people with ADHD

I don’t like Neurotypical people

There are things many people who fit in that demographic do that can make me uncomfortable& trigger my anxiety…but I’m not sitting here saying I DISLIKE them.

Disliking.a.whole.demographic.of.people.and.disliking.being.AROUND.them.is.not.the.same.

“I dislike being around children” is not the same as “I dislike CHILDREN:tm:”. Just as we don’t like to be treated like a monolith, they shouldn’t either. There are plenty of children who are as quiet as mice, and many who are very loud & energetic. There are some who are BOTH many times during the day, just like you, because they are PEOPLE.

That’s what @visibilityofcolor Said. It’s wrong to dislike a whole demographic of people because being around them makes You uncomfortable. I might be uncomfortable around loud people but I don’t dislike them as a WHOLE. Because no one is a monolith

Why do people feel intent on purposely miss understanding when WOC speak? Like. Disliking a whole group of people because they are a certain way is wrong, full stop. That’s different than avoiding certain types of people because they are too loud or what not. It’s not that hard, they said what they said.

whitepeopletwitter

doesitsparkjoytho

sindri42

Every cat I have known would immediately climb up through the hole and start stealing everybody’s food.

graycoin

Crime porthole

if-i-was-a-wyrm

this was designed by cats

ilovecatsandbaking

Just get one of these and put them over the whole, you can have cat and food protection.

lurking96

You imprison miette. You put her under the glass like the cheese. Jail for mother for hundreds of years.

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sasuke-and-naruto

everyone sit down i found the original

korrasatos

hoemie-sexual

i was about to SCREAM

ultimatebottom69

Same

kayascodeliaro

guerrillatech

thesadboisguidetolife

All of these are good and valid. Especially that last one on the bottom.

“No, i just dont want to.” You dont need a reason not to drink.

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obi-waankenobi

#i like to think data took him all the way to the brig tossed him in and left#and then came back 60 seconds later and was like ‘i believe i have successfully played a ‘practical joke’ on you :)’#riker loses it & claps him on the back like ‘wow. good job u rly had me going. dont ever fucking do that again’ Perfect.

ingridverse

Actually it’s 73 seconds. Data, knowing something of how human minds work, estimates that Riker will give him 60 seconds to come back (because humans prefer “round numbers”, however arbitrary the units). After 60 seconds it will take 4 seconds for Riker to fully process the conclusion that Data is, in fact, not coming back after all, and an additional 9 seconds to build to the optimum level of anxiety.

After all, comedy is timing.