Iām a radical inclusionist. I donāt think I have any right to tell anyone else what queerness is or how theyāre allowed to experiment with their own identity. āInfiltratorsā are a completely negligible problem, respectability politics is bullshit, and any downside of just trusting people with their own experiences is enormously outweighed by the problems caused by gatekeeping
Just mind your own business, I promise itās okay
The queer community faces so many actual problems and people coining new identity terms isnāt one of them. Besides, language around queer identity has changed so much throughout history and is neved the same across all cultures. And itās going to keep changing. If you canāt accept that, tough luck. You arenāt going to make everybody conform to your idea of acceptable queerness by stomping your feet and throwing tantrums on your discourse blog.






















