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We all know and love the Holy Trinity (KristSingto, OffGun, and TayNew), but what if you could have one alternative couple from the Almighty Pillars of GMMTV?

Who would you most want to see couple it up for a series, if we were allowed such a blessing?

CHOOSE YOUR FAVORITE ALTERNATIVE COUPLE FROM PEBACA

SingtoNew

TayGun

KristOff

NewGun

OffSingto

TayKrist

SingtoGun

NewKrist

TayOff

TaySingto

KristGun

NewOff

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#everyone wants Tay with OffGun and they are not wrong #I'm everyone

poast-bot

its not reccomended amd probably not legal but in a pinch a coyote can be your plus one to most events

#mercy thompson

kuttithevangu

I have a disease called if the author tells me this world is good and then doesn’t examine the power structures involved I start looking for the Omelas hole

swoopymagpie

there will never be a time when i will not laugh at this

liesmyth

the new euro banknote designs with the birds are sooo pretty... I hope the birdies win

liesmyth

I would like to get paid in birds...

its-timego

Imagine the surreal insanity of being Irina Petrova and just hanging out having a hobby that you're very intense about and then you notice something weird and then all at once your name is one of the most uttered in history, by total accident. In the movie universe they describe her as a "radio telescope enthusiast" she does not even do this professionally. And suddenly everything is Petrova line, Petrova frequency, Petrova wavelength, Petrovascope, Petrova Task Force, Petrova problem. And you're like man. I have a day job.

#phm

orphetoon

the sweet and humble sudoku: here’s some numbers to get you started :) please enjoy my puzzle <3

the nefarious minesweeper: why don’t you just Guess. fucking Guess.

Every time i go back to my dads house i accidentally out myself further to my step mum. Because I show her things before I remember what I have written. Like my jacket full of pins or my penpal postcards.

#look. theyve suspected for over a decade now but i cant he bothered dealing with the fallout if i actively come out. its a hassle.#rambles

kitsnicket

I don’t like this actually

kitsnicket

This is depressing does anyone else find this depressing

mikkeneko

I would actually make the argument that the heart of the problem here is not either about fans, as the article claims, or production companies being exploitative cowards, as some of the comments are claiming. The heart of the problem is the increasingly eroding privacy we are seeing in the modern age.

There's some people in the comments saying "fandoms have always been like this" and others saying "No, it's worse than it was." And both are to some extent right. Fans (or at least a small percentage of fans, and the larger a fanbase gets the larger a group this will describe) have always been Like That; but they did not always have the level of access to creators and actors that they have now.

The notion that a performer needs to be constantly available to public scrutiny, that their personal information should by default be available to any rando with google, is pretty new. It used to be that actors would only be expected to engage with the public on limited, specific, and controlled occasions, usually with security provided. Now they're being asked to rawdog exposure to the mob 24/7 on their own.

(Also, production companies have always always always been exploitative cowards, just to get that straight; reading the biographies of literally any actress from golden Hollywood years makes that clear. It's just, again, more public now.)

There has also been a negative feedback loop as fandoms come to realize that the constant access they have to creatives increases their leverage and power. It did not use to be the case that this was so; fandoms pre-internet largely worked under the assumption that they didn't really have any meaningful way to contact or influence the publication houses. Even if they sent a letter or a campaign of letters, they wouldn't even know whether the letters were being received or read unless the publishing house chose to respond. So, without that expectation of access, the drama usually stayed internal. Nowadays, with constant immediate feedback from creators and publishers, fans are ever more incentivized to act out to try to push an agenda, get attention, or just vent whatever is going on in their lives onto a face contractually obliged to be friendly to them.

ispyspookymansion

to be honest, kitten doesnt know how many more “ok 💗 yay 💗”s they have left in them

I can never escape the poetry I studied in year 12

#robert gray when i get you.#journey the north coast will forever live in my mind #catch me writing a homage called south coast line #as my phone slips out of reception #rambles

kingdeath000

man I hate when I'm in a situation where I have a lot of small rocks or balls about to crush me and the only way for me to get out of the situation is for someone to match three or more objects on a grid. and then they don't match the objects on the grid! like bitchh just match the objects godddd

blackshvck

the idea that every summer will be as hot if not hotter than this for the rest of my life is unbearable i need to (remembers suicide jokes are bad for my mental health) murder an oil executive

girl-mercury

nickname poll

So currently I answer to my full first name (which I usually introduce myself with) as well as two nicknames/diminutives plus my last name when people mistake it for a first name. There are two or three other nicknames I've also gone by in the past. I'm perfectly fine with this, or neutral at minimum-- I have a common name and have had to be flexible with how I'm distinguished for my whole life. I also don't feel a deep and fundamental connection of my name with my identity, though I think going by another name entirely would confuse me.

A number of friends have been appalled at me being called names I don't say are my name. Which is really weird to me, although I'd go to battle for anyone else who was getting either deadnamed or called something they didn't want. But this perspective seems surprisingly common!

How do you feel about being called something other than the name you introduce yourself with?

I think it's fun if people give me (non-derogatory) nicknames or shorten my name

I don't care if people call me something else and will answer to it

I'm mildly uncomfortable or annoyed but won't make an issue of it

I HATE being called something else and will always correct people

Nuance in tags/Vanilla extract/I'm bald

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#prev im suprised you dont get frez if you dont like frey #the only name i disavow is hazzy.#everything else is fair game. including happy and carrot.#one of my friends Abigail doesnt like Abby but unfortunately. everybody uses abby.#even at her wedding the pastor referred to her as Abby. i think im the only person who uses her full name because i know she hates it #its kind of insane #i personally would go nuts #she just doesnt feel like she can correct every single person in her life especially as abby is such a common nickname