I should probably delete this.

Pukhtun, British, Melbourne, Married, Psychology. "Truly, it is by the Remembrance of Allah that hearts find rest." [Qur'an, 13.28]

[earthyday]

[onlydadjokes]

I asked my nephew how old his dad was and he replied “six”. I said how can he only be six if you’re six?

He said “because he’s only been a dad since I was born”

[aboohurayrah-deactivated2016100]

Fear Allāh and be patient.

Prophet Muḥammad’s ﷺ advice to a woman who was afflicted with a calamity | Saḥīḥ al-Bukhārī (via aboohurayrah)

[aabbiidd]

“He who has led you so far will guide you further.” -Rumi Wazir Khan Mosque. Lahore, Pakistan. (Instagram: aabbiidd)

[egyptianfries]

it’s so hard to eat healthy in a brown household because our food has more oil than saudi arabia

[i-love-tunisia]

Sidi Bou Said in Tunis, Tunisia.🇹🇳 For more about Tunisia visit: i-love-tunisia.tumblr.com © Mourad Soltane

[weloveshortvideos]

The difference between the USA and UK

[words-of-emotion]

Appreciate the little things.

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[moroccan-kaftan]

[ramiroo19-deactivated20200102]

[verseau-lion]

[qalbii-deactivated20170410]

It all ends. The best and worst part of everything. Nothing remains forever. And I couldn’t have found a better reason to stay alive.

Sara // “don’t give up yet. ” (via qalbii)

[19-9x]

يُؤْتِكُمْ خَيْرًا مِّمَّا أُخِذَ مِنكُمْ وَيَغْفِرْ لَكُمْ

He will give you [something] better than what was taken from you; and He will forgive you…

[onlybyexample-deactivated202302]

So be patient with gracious patience.

Qur'an, 70:5 (via skycloudsky)

[jasminemilkytea]

sass-bot the “Islamic” marriage sounds so depressing tbh like, for the longest time I would rather remain celibate than have any part in it

[palesbinian]

same here- for years i was so scared of the “inevitability of marriage” which sounded like i would be marrying some guy i dont like and taking his permission to leave the house

and let’s not even talk about how muslim women are trapped by this expectation to become mothers, which freaking terrified me because i’m a sex repulsed ace and muslims are so judgemental of people who adopt children

[jasminemilkytea]

Apart from the sex repulsed ace part, I feel the exact same!!! Marriage in ‘Islam’ sounds like such a depressing life. Like there would barely be freedom of movement, freedom of speech or freedom of dress for me. I wouldn’t even have autonomy over my own body as the concept of marital rape apparently doesn’t exist.

I don’t understand why any woman would willingly enter that kind of matrimony and even defend it.

[rimshaisnothere]

iraqifeminist Have you done proper research on Marriage in Islam? Or are you believing what culture you are from? I appreciate your views and opinions on alot of matters, and I respect your opinion and choice in never marrying. But you’re now saying Muslim women are delusional for wanting to get “Islamic marriage” or get a Nikkah? I find it so damn offensive. You sound like a stupid white Feminist who imposes what they think is “freedom” I didn’t want to be rude, but your post literally is Ignorant and it’s mind boggling Unless you’re talking about cultural experience then label it as marriage. Because remember all Marriages from any Creed, Race or Religion suffer from bullshit. Not just Muslims. So you can scrap out the “Islamic ” notion “Barely freedom or movement” “no freedom of speech” where does it day that in Islam? Have you read about the marriage of Khadijah and Rasool Allah saw? About other women during that time? Please, stop spouting crap and putting “Islamic” on it because the last thing Muslims need is stupid non Muslims to have their point proven about how oppressed our religion makes us. It is unsure if Marital rape is mentioned or direct mention of rape in general during the time of the prophet saw but there were harsh measures taken on men who mistreat their wives. Islam never, doesn’t or will encourage marital rape in any circumstances! We have to be careful about what we say online. If there are genuine issues. Target those. Making generalisations on things and labeling it “Islamic” is as dumb as a bigot saying it.

[jasminemilkytea]

I would like to clarify that when I say ‘Islamic’, I specifically mean establishment Islam. The Islam of the traditionalist scholars, which is inherently patriarchal. I am not saying that Islam itself is inherently patriarchal, I say it’s actually egalitarian. But the Islam practiced by most Muslims, the establishment Islam I speak of, is patriarchal. That cannot be denied. There is easy divorce for men, women only get half the inheritance, women are considered as subordinate to their husbands etc.

[heart0fclass-blog]

Why on earth do people insist on making Islam so difficult???!

"I don’t understand why any woman would willingly enter that kind of matrimony and even defend it." - are all the examples of marriages between Muslim couples you've witnessed that bad? What a narrow minded statement. "Marriage in Islam sounds like such a depressing life " - I feel bad for you for having this perception because, to be frank, I can't think of anything more depressing than a non-"Islamic" marriage.

[jasmincampos]

[wayofthesalaf]

Remind yourselves of Allah, for it is a cure. Do not remind yourselves of the people, for it is a disease.

‘Umar Ibn Al-Khattaab, az-Zuhd, p.101. (via wayofthesalaf)