today is the ten year anniversary of the Pulse Nightclub shooting. a full decade ago, i lost a friend and a coworker. i was lucky. i had friends that lost several people. today, please remember and fight for all those that have died to live the live they should have been free to. i'll always remember you, Cory.
"The sex tells the story, so it never felt gratuitous to me. The sex is character development. The sex is what is moving this relationship forward, and watching it change over time."
Me: "Damn people are REALLY BAD at knowing when to tag their eyestrain art/images...either that or they just don't care about photosenitive epileptic people like me. I feel really sad now."
Person: "But Allison, what if they just don't know or understand what qualifies as eyestrain and what doesn't?"
Me: "You know what? That could be a factor...While it is always better to be safe rather than sorry (so YES people should always tag eyestrain even if they're unsure if it "counts" or not) maybe you've got a point?"
Anyways! HERE'S YOUR HANDY GUIDE TO WHAT CAN COUNT AS EYESTRAIN! I'm pulling this straight from the Artfight rules page about what needs to be labeled and filtered as eyestrain because it's VERY helpful and VERY accurate! I also know not everybody has an AF account and might not always have access to this handy guide, and this is an important resource; That's why I'm sharing it here! (under the cut)
PLEASE TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY!!! THIS IS ABOUT THE HEALTH AND SAFETY OF OTHERS!!!
Full eyestrain AF page link
"But Allison! How were you able to screenshot that example if you're so sensitive to eyestrain?"
I dimmed the HELL out of my computer screen and looked away while taking the screenshot and did the same when putting it into this post, that's how lol. BUT YEAH ANYWAYS!!! Once again:
PLEASE TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY!!! THIS IS ABOUT THE HEALTH AND SAFETY OF OTHERS!!!
You are currently going through a major transformation or breakthrough in your career. Your illusions are being challenged, and your perspectives are shifting. You feel stuck because there's so much to do, but you don’t know where to start. As a result, you're trying to do everything at once, and now it has become overwhelming and difficult to manage. Your mind constantly traps you in a loop of over analyzing. You feel stuck because you doubt your ability to rise. You're not feeling secure or confident in your skills. So how can you fix this now? Firstly, ask for help whenever you need it. You are not a fool just because you don’t know something. Secondly, start believing in your abilities. You’re actually about to receive something you've been waiting for. There is great freedom in accepting things as they are. You cannot move forward on your path until you release some of the blame, anger, and sorrow you've gathered along your life’s journey. Don’t try to fit in—be authentic instead. Seek and honor the beauty and splendor within you and all around you. If your critical inner voice has been overactive lately, or if you find yourself dwelling on negative behavior, take a moment to relax and ground yourself.
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PILE TWO
You’re expecting a lot from yourself—you want to achieve everything at once, and this is making you feel stuck in your career. You're not satisfied with where you are; even if it's enough, you still want more. Soon, you may experience a major breakthrough that feels like everything you've built is being destroyed, only to realize that nothing truly belongs to you. You are a light worker, a healer, a psychic, or perhaps simply a kind soul. Your soul’s mission is to connect with your inner spirituality. In order to grow beyond your current situation, you’ll need to say many goodbyes and let go of things that no longer serve you. It’s time to bring balance between the spiritual and material worlds. Your career will begin to flourish when you start listening to your inner guidance—you hold immense power within yourself, pile two, so trust it. Begin a spiritual practice that grounds your day; this can lead to life-changing breakthroughs and ideas. Whether it’s worshiping a deity, meditating, chanting mantras, or anything else that calls to you—follow what pulls you. Reflect on how you feel about the different areas of your life: spirituality, health, finances, relationships, and emotional well-being. Remember, circumstances are not inherently good or bad—they are neutral. What matters is how you choose to approach them.
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PILE THREE
You have everything it takes to be successful—you possess knowledge, passion, resilience, and determination. The only thing you’re lacking right now is direction. You’re a powerful manifestor, pile three, but you're wasting your energy by not channeling it with intention. Your inner critic sometimes stops you from taking the necessary actions. You’re not meant to play small—you’re meant to be the king or queen of your chosen path. Give your ideas a chance; don’t shy away from shining. You are meant to reach great heights. It's time to release anger and unforgiveness from your heart and mind. Right now, you’re not fully open to receiving abundance—let go of past hurt, love. The universe wants to spoil you—let it. Your vibration and frequency are shifting, so protect your energy during this transformation. You are moving forward on your spiritual path, and your energy is undergoing a powerful transformation. You deserve to feel good about your existence. Ask yourself: how deserving do you truly feel? When you believe you deserve good things, you treat yourself well and expect the same from others. It’s time to heal your sacral chakra, pile three. The true essence of your soul is complete health. See yourself as a complete, healthy, and whole being. You are fully capable of handling matters of health and relationships without blame, and with integrity and grace.
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Mini PAC n°11: will you kiss anyone in the next 30 days?
I wanted to know, so... why not ask?
This is for entertainment purposes. Be delulu and ignore this reading if you dislike it. It's always your decision, in the end.
Pile 1
Yes, you will kiss someone with whom you'll continue to text later. I think you'll be surprised that this person is more sentimental than you expected, they may seem very put together but they can cry or be emotional in situations that you don't think deserve thus reaction. It'll look like they're trying to get a hold on their feelings but can't. It's like a 30 year old person but fir some reason you feel like they're 21 when you kiss them. It's not immaturity, it's not toxicity, it's just that they can be a soft boy with some mental health stuff going on that makes the feelings hard to control? It is not as extreme as I'm making it sound, but you'll find it odd. You can find it funny when their emotions slip off their sleeves. This thing you have will start maybe in a park or place with families or many people, friendly and safe for work. This can lead to some sort of sex/sexting/sexual fantasies, or it can mean that the kiss will be very good. I see good make out potential, it can escalate just the right amount and the conversation is good too.
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Pile 2
Nope, I'm sorry. No kisses here. But I think you're happy, you said to yourself "I'm not gonna settle for less than I deserve and I'm not gonna feed tumultuous relationships". You realized that you used to be stuck in a second-best situation, that you were okay with what you got but it wasn't really enough and wasn't what you deserve. So you prefer to be alone now than put yourself in situations that take your peace away from you. You will have the realization that you were seeing things from a wrong perspective and now you are correct. You will feel enlightened about your love life and your choices. It seems to me that you're setting yourself free.
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Pile 3
Maybe. You'll have the chance to do it, im not sure if you'll take it. You'll be in some social situations for sure, and if everyone drinks you may end up kissing your best friend or just people of the same gender as you while you party. Fun but meaningless. About the people you may or may not kiss outside of this party/social event: I think someone's pride may put you off and kill the mood, if the person humbles themselves I think you will kiss them. If anyone approaches you as if they're better than you or higher than you, you'll refuse; but, if they lower themselves and you see that they value you, value your opinion, want your attention but aren't entitled to it and aren't annoying about it, you may entertain yourself with them. If they ask please and genuinely beg, you will give in for funs lol I love your energy here.
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Pile 4
Well, someone here surely wants to kiss you and they'll peacock in front of you if they must. I think you're not gonna give them much attention, you're very focused on your goals and projects. So you most likely won't kiss anyone because this person's energy won't match your wavelength. It'll be a clash of energies and you may reject them because of it. That being said, I do think you may change your mind. If you're bored enough and too tired of waiting for someone better, you'll allow them to woo you, take you out, give you small gifts, hook up for some hot days. You know they're independable and all you get is the quick fun times.
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Pile 5
No, you won't kiss anyone because you'll reject the people who want to kiss you. You have decided to be in the look out for better people, you may visit new places or cities. Someone finds you attractive but you'll go "nah, thanks". And then you'll beat yourself up afterwards half asking why you rejected and half being in self pity of why can't you find anyone good enough! You may reject that person because you'll feel that they only want to "conquer" you, they want to be able to say that they did it and they got you under their spell. You'll feel that if you kiss them you will only feed their ego. You'll think you'll end up hurt, or that it isn't a good use of your energy. So to avoid feeling sorry for yourself for too long, try to open your eyes to other possibilities that may appear after you reject that first person.
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Pile 6
You will kiss someone, and may even go further than just kisses, but it'll be once. You have an open door to a bedroom with the person you want, likely someone you already know and are in communication with, but after that one ocasion it seems that things stagnate. The person slows down and you don't understand how it's possible that such a great conversation and great physical compatibility lead... nowhere? Your delulu will come true, but after it happens you'll open your eyes to reality. I think you may even start to reconsider previous partners or people you have rejected before. For some reason it doesn't feel like a fuckboy, I think this person is somewhat serious but the type to be fully satisfied with very little or with occasional intimacy. I see them reliving and replaying what happend over and over in a positive way in their heads, like chewing old bubblegum (they like it, for some reason). My point is that they wont reject or abandon you, but it'll feel like they don't need you with the same urgency anymore so you're gonna move on without them and do what's best for you. No bad feelings, no regrets, some good memories and you seeing things clearly.
PAC: What part of you is becoming impossible to ignore?
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Pile 1 : The Voice You Keep Softening.
There is a part of you that already knows what it wants to say, but you keep editing it before it leaves your mouth. This pile is about your truth becoming harder to swallow, harder to hide, harder to make “polite.” Your opinions, your message, your creative voice, your actual needs are being voiced. You may be realizing that silence is no longer keeping the peace, it is only keeping you small.
This pile asks: where have you been making yourself easier to digest?
Pile 2 : The Desire You Keep Calling Unrealistic.
This is the part of you that wants more. More beauty, more money, more recognition, more space, more devotion, more freedom, more life. And it is becoming impossible to ignore because your old life may suddenly feel too tight, almost suffocating. You are not being “too much.” You are outgrowing the version of yourself that was used to ask for crumbs and call it gratitude.
This pile asks: what desire keeps returning, no matter how many times you try to be reasonable?
Pile 3 : The Boundary That Became a Personality.
This pile is about the part of you that is done. Done explaining, done over-functioning, done being available for dynamics that drain you. Your standards are becoming louder than your guilt. The part of you becoming impossible to ignore is the one that says: “I actually don’t have to tolerate this anymore.” Not because you are cold, but because your nervous system is no longer willing to pay the price.
This pile asks: what are you no longer willing to carry just because people expect you to?
Pick a pile: What transgenerational curse are you about to break?
Pile 1: 8 of wands 5 of swords and 4 of pentacles.
Well, the headline is simple: Goodbye to believing that you can only prosper by stealing, competing, or selfishly hoarding things!
Someone in your family has made you believe that abundance is linked to being the fastest, the one who steals, or the one who hoards and spends stingily. Goodbye to that way of thinking that, deep down, has only brought you thoughts of lack and distrust of the world.
You are about to break that curse and enter a new stage, one that opens the doors to knowing that you can be abundant, independent, and prosperous without being a bad person. True success belongs to you too.
Pile 2: The judgment, 6 of pentacles and the world.
Judgment and the world together speak of a karmic duty, something that comes to an end because it can no longer be postponed. You are breaking, once and for all, the curse of family imbalances and karmic debts that are not yours.
Enough of carrying other people's karmas. Enough of having to live with the weight of guilt for things you didn't even choose.
In your lineage, there has been a sick pattern of giving too much, of begging for crumbs, or of maintaining a false balance where you always lost out so that others could be well off. Now is your moment. That cycle of submission and asymmetry has come to an absolute end. The universe balances the scales and frees you from the contracts of the past. Your new era begins with a clean slate. What you do now will be for you, both good and bad.
Pile 3: The magician, 8 of cups and 10 of cups.
In pile three, yours is a transgenerational breakthrough, one that will change your life. You are breaking the curse of family uprooting and nomadism for survival.
You come from a lineage that has had to manifest its life from absolutely nothing, forcing itself to leave its land time and again in search of greener pastures. Your parents or grandparents likely had to emigrate to achieve prosperity, missing out on your upbringing, or forcing you to constantly change schools as a child to support the family. Perhaps they had jobs that required constant travel, like soldiers changing bases every other day. Everything in your history involved incredibly hard work, instability, and the pain of leaving behind what you loved in order to survive.
You no longer need to flee; you no longer have to move out of fear of scarcity. You have inherited the power to manifest a safe, stable, and peaceful home without having to pack a suitcase and constantly move.
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