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"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
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@herequeerandsincere
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
for context:
“Beep Beep Bitch, You’re Gay!”
Updated the lesbian flag and added nonbinary, pan, ace, and aro for all your tacky LBGTQ+ barcode needs.
Hope yall like my abomination
That last one is fucking moving istg
at last. the gaydar
I wonder how many gay people are actually transgender & dont know it because people thing being transgender is transitioning when it’s literally just not being cis.
like I had a friend tell me last night “all my life I wanted to be a girl. even to this day, like if someone told me I could transition & look like you or *insert another trans woman idk* I would do it in a heartbeat” and when I was like omg ur transgender he was surprised? like he was like wait just wanting to be a girl makes me transgender even if I dont do anything about it? and like its harder to pinpoint non binary people but if u have a desire be a different gender ur transgender. transitioning is a choice but being transgender is not.
“One of the symptoms of being a girl is wanting to be a girl.” Don’t remember where I heard that but the quote is my life.
This is one of the posts I can explicitly pinpoint as helping me realize that I might not be cis. The biggest symptom of being trans is wanting to not be your gender. It can also be dysphoria, it can also be euphoria, it can also be presentation, but wanting to be something else is all you really need.
#wait so ur telling me#‘i dont want to have a gender’#can mean#‘i dont have a gender??’ I would also like to know… for reasons
Confirmed. How to know you’re agender: You don’t want to be anything else. You look at the options for gender and gender presentation and decide to go back to bed
Bold of you to assume I got out of bed
Nah but seriously thanks for the insight
So, if I look at gender and say “this is some bullshit and I want no part of it”, I guess that makes me agender?
if that’s how you wanna identify, yeah.
feeling anything mentioned in this post doesn’t mean you have to identify as trans, but feeling anything in this post is literally all that’s necessary to identify as trans if you want to.
fuck gatekeepers forever.
👏if👏you👏don't👏feel👏cis👏you're👏possibly👏not👏cis👏
i mean this is literally what jvn said
This is one of those things where you can go 25+ years of your life not realising that actually no not everyone secretly wishes they were some mashup of male and female and that you are, in fact, genderfluid as fuck.
You can want to be the other gender.
You can want to be another gender.
You can want to divorce all connection to the gender you were born into.
You can want to keep it as an origin point that shapes your journey.
You can want to be more than one gender at once.
You can want to be more than one gender, at different times.
You can want to be no gender.
You can want to be sort of in between genders.
You can want to be both genders.
You can want to be rid of gendered body parts you already have.
You can want to keep gendered body parts while also being another gender.
You can want to be rid of them but not want the side effects of excising them.
You can feel dysphoria at being shaped like/viewed as/treated like a gender you don’t want.
You can feel euphoria at being shaped like/viewed as/treated like a gender you do want.
You can change your mind or adjust your goals or refine your wishes.
You can be stationary and fixed in your identity.
You can be fluid and changing.
You can be extremely gendered in your presentation.
You can be not very gendered in your presentation.
You can be androgynous.
You can be a little of both.
You can be a lot of both.
If gender is a line you can cross, as the words trans (across/on the other side of) and cis (here/on the same side of) indicate, you can cross it in any way you like, including dancing on top of it.
Be happy.
Be you.
This is an extremely affirming post.
earlier my friend said to me “somewhere out there, in an alternate universe, there’s an all female rock band called ‘king’” and I’m STILL recovering from that mental image and how gay it made me feel
they still have a hit titled “fat bottomed girls”
ok this reply really got to me. feeling gay again
#and the frontwoman is still named freddie mercury
Reblog if you think trans women:
A. Are women
B. Can be lesbians
Reblogging every time I see this
growing up closeted is literally so wack because part of me really feels like I don’t have a strong desire for sex or relationships, but I don’t know if that’s actually how I am or if I only think that because I was closeted my entire adolescence so I don’t get how relationships work
Like I’m definitely a lesbian, that’s not in question. I’m attracted to women and I like kissing them and all that shit but I’m also not like “damn I want a wife so bad” ya know? And like I find sex enjoyable but I also know if I never had sex again I would be fine???
I recognize that either scenario is valid and I wouldn’t be ashamed of either one I just like... don’t know which it is and that’s frustrating
AHHHHHHHHHH
Oh yes!
plan:
get a dog, name it husband, that way when talking to new straight people they think i too am the straight, then, invite them over, have them meet my dog “husband”, and my wife. then just watch them question everything they knew.
Skeleton Horses
GOOD SPOOKY FRIENDS
Reblog for spoops
I’ve been thinking about it and you know what makes the lesbian representation so special in “The Haunting of Bly Manor” ? It’s the 80s and yet the show doesn’t depict a coming out scene or Dani and Jamie being victims of lesbophobia. It’s all so subtle. Danielle came out to the man who would have been her husband but we don’t really see that, it’s between the lines, she might have said it in a rush, panicked, scared, but it’s not a big coming out story this time. We get to see another narrative, one that doesn’t remind us (the lesbian/gay/bi viewers) of bad memories or simply what is the most vulnerable situation we can be in.
We watch a show full of ghosts and tragic stories but somehow it doesn’t remind us too much of our horrors, the only type of homophobia we see is a metaphor. It’s the internalised homophobia of Dani herself, subtle again, when she really tries to make her relationship with her childhood friend works, when she pushes away her feelings for women because she thinks somehow that it will go away. Her guilt thinking that because she came out to him, because she is a lesbian, she’s somehow responsible for his tragic death. This guilt follows her, as a ghost, and she cannot bear his presence just like she cannot bear to see herself in the mirrors. When she meet Jamie she heals, she shows courage, she moves on. We get to see a show where the lesbian heroines do not face homophobic insults and snide remarks, this is why it’s so appealing. Their love feels warm and infinite, like a bubble that no one can burst. Bly Manor really did that and I think it’s why we cannot get over it easily, it’s different.✨
Listen everyone just cause your in a scientific field doesn’t make you smart enough to not make mistakes in the field
ADHD culture is saying “what?” when you heard the question someone asked you but… It didn’t fucking… Register… In the brain? And then you hear the question before they ask again and interrupt them when they’re talking because now you’re An Asshole™ who understands
Someone: Hey what time is it?
Me: What?
Someone: Wha-
Me: It’s 3:20
This is actually a thing, while visual info takes 0.1 seconds to process, auditory infor can take 3 to 4 seconds to process, which is why you ask, and then actually hear the question because your brains only just processed it
My husband has ADHD and does this, and I hate repeating myself constantly. One thing that I feel has saved us from so much stress in our marriage is that I’ve just stopped repeating myself. After a while he caught onto what I was doing and stopped saying “what” over and over when I didn’t respond. Now occasionally he’ll ask me “what?” when I said something because he actually didn’t hear me, and I will happily repeat myself for him, but most of the time I just say silent and let his brain compute what I said. So now our conversations go one of two ways:
Me: Hey hon, where is the tv remote? Him: What?? Me: *silence* Him: I left it on the couch.
Or
Me: Hey hon, where is the tv remote? Him: What? Me: *silence* Him: Ok, I really didn’t hear you that time, what did you say? Me: *repeats question*
Even if you don’t have ADHD, I mean, auditory delay happens with a lot of people, not just ADHD folk. If you deal with it, try this approach with your friends and loved ones. It has helped us so much.
I jokingly suggested something similar to my gf called the “3 second rule”. If i don’t respond in 3s, assume I really didn’t hear you. Tho Im p good at just masking the processing time with UUhhhhHhHhh
Also pro tip for communicating with ADHD people: say the name of the person you want to talk to before you share your thought and wait for them to acknowledge you. That way if we are distracted or otherwise occupied you know can be sure are listening. We very well may still need to process, but it will greatly cut down on the number of times we genuinely didn’t hear a word you just said.
THAT LAST NOTE
PLEASE
I AM BEGGING
presented without comment 👀
i feel it in my bones, i’m on F I R E
FUCK
hit the reblog so fast i think i broke my mouse
holY F U cKKKKkKKKkkkkkKKKKK
HOLY FUCK THIS KNOCKED MY SIDEWAYS
do yourself a favor and hit play. then reblog it for all to experience.
YESSSSS
:0000 i didnt think this would be this amazing
LOL love this
Never not reblog supportive rainbow dad and confused lesbian daughter.
This makes me smile for some reason. :)
ITS SO WHOLESOMEEEE
Here I am laying in bed, tears streaming down my face after listening to a TEDx talk on ADHD in adult women. I’ve never felt so seen. I’ve never been in therapy or seen a psychiatrist but I think it may be time. Even though I don’t actually know whether or not I’m on the ADHD spectrum, I feel like I have bottled up my struggles and my emotions for so long that they are now overflowing. Damn TEDx, you really did it to me.
sometimes pride starts with the smallest things
sometimes it starts with drawing rainbows or flags at the bottom of your notes, sometimes it’s following that one gay meme account, sometimes it’s coming out to someone, sometimes it’s wearing that one outfit that makes you feel confident, sometimes it’s correcting others when being misgendered maybe it’s trying to tackle some internalized homophobia, maybe it’s changing labels or not using any at all, maybe your act of pride starts with coming out to yourself
no matter where you are in your journey you are valid and worthy of respect and acceptance,,, your time to thrive and live your truth will come
