The Oculus Pack

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[sillybillylogs]

LUv u @purpleflameb0i

[purpleflameb0i]

Eheheheee Null lovee u too !!!!!

-Null

[coiningclub]

caniphae

a xenic neoumbrella related to phantom canines, dark forests, fir trees, ferns, moss, foggy mornings in the woods, uncanny and supernatural animals, glowing white eyes in the forest, and eerie silence.

CANIPHIN / CANPHIN - in nature equivalent

caniphinity - femininity/masculinity/neutrality equivalent

caniphael - feminine/masculine/neutral equivalent

phanid - fem/masc/neu equivalent

transcaniphael/transphanid - trans(gender) equivalent

cyniph - individual equivalent

venid - younger individual

aeliphid - older individual

spectral hound - presentation term

CANIPHIN 4 CANIPHIN / CANPHIN 4 CANPHIN - x4x term

canimorean - juvelic term

canimor - canimorean individual

canin - (monogamous) relationship term

canimate - (monogamous) partner

pack - (polyamorous) relationship term

packmate(s) - (polyamorous) partner(s)

moss - crush equivalent

fogfriend - girfriend/boyfriend/partner equivalent

phasmate - wife/husband/spouse equivalent

prefixes: caniph- / canip- / phan-

suffixes: -iphae / -phael / -phanid

note; i& plan to make flags for the referential language terms! feel free to coin under this neoumbrella, just please tag me& in the post!

tagging: @radiomogai @imoga-pride @obscurian @pvincely @goregender @the-novalunosis-hoard @arobotsguidetomogai @liomoqai-umbrella-archive @neoumbrellatime @daybreakthing

[v-viviro]

reblog if you love your mutuals but don’t interact due to low energy/executive dysfunction/etc (о´∀`о)

[leshermes]

June 1st is TOMORROW. It means that GAY PEOPLE will exist, but only for ONE MONTH. Do not forget to buy your tickets to see them NOW, or else you will have to wait AN ENTIRE YEAR to be able to meet them AGAIN.

[marbles-in-a-trashcan]

Hey so I don't know who needs to hear this, but you are a real man.

Even if you were born and socialized as a girl, you're a real man.

Even if you didn't figure it out until later in your life and lived most of your life as a woman, you are a real man.

Even if you can't come out of the closet because it's not safe and/or your loved ones wouldn't accept it, you are a real man.

Even if you have internalized transphobia and think that you'll always be a girl no matter what, your brain is lying to you. You are a real man.

Even if other people are telling you you're not, they're lying to you. You are a real man.

Even if you're not traditionally masculine and/or still like feminine things, you are a real man.

You are a real man. Fuck anyone who says otherwise.

(P.S: If you're a trans woman reading this post, the inverse applies to you. You are a real woman.)

[get-more-transmasc]

Intersex trans men & mascs are such an important part of the transmasc community!! The world is so much better because intersex trans men and mascs are in it!!

Thank you, intersex trans men and mascs!!

[get-more-transmasc]

To the trans boy reading this who feels like he has no hope: you're stronger than whatever you're going through.

I promise you it will get better, it does get better.

Life can be so beautiful, the world can be such a kind and loving place, the struggle is a passing thing and when you come out the other end, and believe me, you WILL, you will find yourself marvelling at the joy you once thought you'd never get to have.

Listen to me. You are going to be okay. Better than okay, you are going to survive this and you are going to THRIVE.

We're all in this together. I love you.

[purpleflameb0i]

(EDIT: The same day we posted this we got a call from our mom that we got a therapist that specializes in PDs and the first appointment is next week >_> We may not need the tips after all because the therapist should keep us alive)

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We’re going to go to a homeless youth shelter in a nearby town hopefully soon after we turn 18 (which is in less than a month) to escape our abusive household and to keep ourselves alive. We are very very suicidal due to the abuse and need a way out

If anyone has any tips on what to expect, what to do for our safety, and anything in general, we would HEAVILY appreciate it /gen

We already have a list of what to pack, and are hoping to get some money from family members on our birthday before we leave, so anything else will be extremely helpful

If you don’t have any tips, reblogging for reach would be helpful, too <:]

(Nothing forced at all ! We will hold nothing against you if you can’t help at all /gen)

[crippled-peeper]

“Psychotic people aren’t homeless in the streets or psych wards!!! some of us are playing video games” some psychotic people ARE homeless in the streets and in psych wards and they don’t deserve to fucking die for it or be forgotten or swept aside because they aren’t a convenient poster child for your symptoms RAAAAHHH

[purpleflameb0i]

We started playing Dandy’s World again around a month ago

AND

WE ALREADY HAVE 17 FICTIVES FROM IT

/silly

-Yatta (she/pop/yay)

[reasons-to-not-end-it]

REASON TO NOT END IT:

"I’ll get to see other peoples art!!"

-anonymous

#785

[purpleflameb0i]

When I think of past stuff (not even just trauma, but generic stuff like old friends) there’s no convincing me that it was “me” who was there. I’m not even talking about system-wise, I’m talking about “this wasn’t me at all, none of it was” and how it’s a completely different person who I just so happen to be seeing through the eyes of. That wasn’t me.

But that makes us think, too. Who even am I ? And of course the answer to that is just. nothing.

If we don’t exist, and our memories aren’t us, then nothing that happened to us was real.

Thinking any of it was real would be too detrimental to our well being.

[purpleflameb0i]

If you’re stuck in an abusive situation, and you feel the only option is suicide, DON’T DO IT.

I’m gonna be very blunt here. If you die, the chances of you getting out go to 0%. ABSOLUTELY 0%. If you die, you won’t see the day you finally get away, no matter what that looks like.

This is coming from someone who has been actively suicidal several times for long periods of time because of being in an abusive situation. We’re planning to get out in hopefully a month, and go to a youth shelter in a nearby town.

This wouldn’t be happening if I did succeed at killing myself.

Live to see the day you get away.

[reasons-to-not-end-it]

REASON TO NOT END IT:

"I can’t let people I don’t like outlive me"

-⭐️

#669

[jesusinstilettos]

I’m about to save you thousands of dollars in therapy by teaching you what I learned paying thousands of dollars for therapy:

It may sound woo woo but it’s an important skill capitalism and hyper individualism have robbed us of as human beings.

Learn to process your emotions. It will improve your mental health and quality of life. Emotions serve a biological purpose, they aren’t just things that happen for no reason.

1. Pause and notice you’re having a big feeling or reaching for a distraction to maybe avoid a feeling. Notice what triggered the feeling or need for a distraction without judgement. Just note that it’s there. Don’t label it as good or bad.

2. Find it in your body. Where do you feel it? Your chest? Your head? Your stomach? Does it feel like a weight everywhere? Does it feel like you’re vibrating? Does it feel like you’re numb all over?

3. Name the feeling. Look up an emotion chart if you need to. Find the feeling that resonates the most with what you’re feeling. Is it disappointment? Heartbreak? Anxiety? Anger? Humiliation?

4. Validate the feeling. Sometimes feelings misfire or are disproportionately big, but they’re still valid. You don’t have to justify what you’re feeling, it’s just valid. Tell yourself “yeah it makes sense that you feel that right now.” Or something as simple as “I hear you.” For example: If I get really big feelings of humiliation when I lose at a game of chess, the feeling may not be necessary, but it is valid and makes sense if I grew up with parents who berated me every time I did something wrong. So I could say “Yeah I understand why we are feeling that way given how we were treated growing up. That’s valid.”

5. Do something with your body that’s not a mental distraction from the feeling. Something where you can still think. Go on a walk. Do something with your hands like art or crochet or baking. Journal. Clean a room. Figure out what works best for you.

6. Repeat, it takes practice but is a skill you can learn :)

[lastoneout]

I have been in EMDR therapy recently to help with past trauma and like 90% of the appointments are just this post. Which I thought was silly at first bcs I was like "well I know how I'm feeling, I feel bad" but man you have no idea. Literally JUST talking through whatever stressful thing I have going on at the moment and whenever I feel a Big Emotion stopping and acknowledging, naming, and sitting with it makes a huge difference. I've made more progress with my trauma and mental illnesses just doing this in a single year than I have in like 10+ years of therapy.

It might feel silly or pointless at first but stick with it, it really helps.

[purpleflameb0i]

Sighhh why couldn’t I have gotten the “good at school” autism but instead I got the “hit yourself until you have brain damage” autism :((

-Sprout (he/they/she/berry)

[tattercat-irl]

Hey so like. is this normal