[herrrsdior]

I love seeing black girls in luxe, black girls enjoying life, just black girls doing regular things.

A lot of people have always focused on the negative or the notion of “the angry black woman” so shifting my focus and always staying positive and looking at life from a different perspective has been good to me and my mental health.

And always remembering that I too deserve the nicer things in life. Positive affirmations and positive thinking >

[herrrsdior]

I miss ce vixen, does anyone know if she made a new tumblr account/is back on here?

[expensiveity]

stay genuine. tables will always turn.

[almondmilkcleanser]

Normalize black women being calm, quiet, shy, and soft

[almondmilkcleanser]

Normalize black women being outspoken, charismatic, firm and confident without being categorized as loud and angry.

[almondmilkcleanser]

Normalize seeing black women gardening, painting, composing, and relaxing.

[fendi-in-pariii]

Normalize black women being bougie, inaccessible and wealthy. 📝🧘🏾‍♀️

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

Normalize Black women being bubbly, perky, girly, and whimsical! 💭

[themeauxexperience]

Homebody 🕯️

[sadbxddie]

[scorpioluvvr]

[eatpussypraylove]

You just have to get up and get shit done. It’s as simple & as difficult as that

[dreamgirlvibes]

[hypergamiss]

Walking away when you should gets easier the more you do it.

[sk-lumen]

anyway, *starts going to the gym, eating healthier, going to bed early, getting therapy, healing from past relationships, journaling daily, taking courses, yoga classes, reading self-help books, listening to podcasts in the mornings,

[laurrynnohilll]

@lim.sieben

[86jodeci]

[reverthelp]

A beautiful life does not just happen, it is built daily by prayer, humility, sacrifice and hard work.

[baddiesofluxury]

SELF-CARE SUNDAY

[fruitsinthesky-deactivated20221]

Shifting your story exercise

Your story is what you believe to be true about yourself and life. It's what you tell yourself over and over again. The story you believe creates your reality. Therefore, shifting your story also shifts your reality. This is an exercise to become aware of your current story and any limiting beliefs in order to shift them into one that aligns with your desired reality.

Take out a notebook and write all areas of your life

what are your beliefs about relationships, love, your body, money, success?

Body

What do you believe your body should look like?

What do you believe is stopping you from getting that desired body?

What do you think is healthy and not healthy for your body?

Career

what are your beliefs about money?

Do you believe it is fair and just for you to have more of an income?

Do you believe you deserve abundance and success?

Relationships/love

what does a normal/healthy relationship look like to you?

Home

what do believe a home environment to be like

what do you want your future home environment to look like

Emotional state

what is my natural emotional state?

Why is my emotional state like this?

Now, rewire any limiting beliefs with these five steps.

Notice the limiting belief: Spot limiting beliefs with self-awareness. If you have that annoying little voice inside your head telling you that you’re unworthy or unable to do something your rational brain knows you’re capable of, this is probably a limiting belief. (Meditation is great for getting in tune with your thoughts, self-awareness, and spotting limiting beliefs.)

Acknowledge: Acknowledge the limiting belief for what it is.

Question your limiting belief: Once you’ve spotted a limiting belief, isolate it. Write it down. Now we can question it.

Let go of the limiting belief: Forgive yourself for holding this belief, take a deep breath, and let it go. You simply don’t need it anymore.

Replace the self-doubt:  Replace this old belief with a new one. Using positive affirmations can be really good for this exercise. It doesn’t have to be outlandish or unrealistic – accept yourself for who you really are. Realize that you’re okay with your abilities and that nothing can hold you back.

[philosophybits]

“If anyone can refute me — show me I’m making a mistake or looking at things from the wrong perspective — I’ll gladly change. It’s the truth I’m after, and the truth never harmed anyone. What harms us is to persist in self-deceit and ignorance.”

— Marcus Aurelius, Meditations (6.21)