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[katimorton]

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I came across the topic of eldest daughter syndrome on TikTok and had to dive deeper into this subject. As someone who has spent significant time researching and working with family dynamics in the psychology setting, I am always fascinated in learning more about how childhood dynamics and how everything from childhood trauma to sibling relationships (and everything in between) impact our upbringing. So what is eldest daughter syndrome, or we may call it oldest daughter syndrome? The truth is that many of these signs are not specific to sisters and may also apply for oldest or eldest brothers, or any parentified child. Let's tap into the psychology the oldest or eldest sibling and the signs you may struggle with this syndrome. Are you the oldest sibling or eldest daughter and have you experienced any of these signs?

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[cowboylikesubai]

i can't breathe when i think about it too much.

Mahmoud Darwish, Memory for Forgetfulness / unknown / F. Scott Fitzgerald, Benediction / Taylor Swift, exile / @/free-my-mindd / Zhenya Katava & Neus Bermejo / unknown / Blythe Baird, If My Body Could Speak / C.C.Aurel / Florence + The Machine, I'm Not Calling You A Liar

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HMmm

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Broken hearts SUCK!!!

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Shinin

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[thedreamthieves]

283,000 likes………giant meteor strike the earth rn holy shit. oh my god.

[insomniac-arrest]

"maybe it's not your pussy" is such a funny phrase and also correct. People wonder why chores are so hard and it's like, friends we used to have a whole intergenerational team on this and now Grandma is locked in a beige box. Cooking is hard.

[sensiblereblogifposts]

Reblog the problem is capitalism and not your pussy

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#fearbasedsociety #gearbeasedsociety

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It's like no Tumblers like me....

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[lazyyogi]

You cannot heal your wounds if you are too busy hiding them.

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Grow Grow Grow...#Love yous

[depsidase]

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Word!

[hiabiscus]

Keeping it in the dark=....

Isolation

Secrets

Self Will

Negative Results

Missed Opportunity

Hindered Growth

BRINGING IT INTO THE LIGHT =

Open Discussion

Relationship

Healing

Growth

Strength

Power

Self Control

Positive Results

Fulfilled Opportunities

Happiness

Love

Respect

Peace

Serenity

Self Respect

Honor

What will you do with your Thoughts Feelings and Emotions....?

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#Motivation...Miss You #LilMissSarah

[eggshellsareneat]

Alright, I think I like tumblr now.

A pun post crossed my dash, and I reblogged it with an equally bad pun in return. A couple of my followers find it funny, it's a good day for everyone.

That was on July 7th.

Virality on Reddit was entirely algorithmic. You could garner a couple crossposts, but the success of a post was entirely dependent on whether or not it hit r/all--the main page of Reddit. If your post does that, it's immediately exposed to 10x the number of people and immediately gets upvoted.

On my pun post, I get a couple reblogs. And those reblogs get a couple reblogs--nobody really adds any content to the post, it just gets a couple reblogs here and there.

There's a specific chain of reblogs that I'd like to focus on. The most popular post on this chain has about 25 reblogs on it. Half the posts have three reblogs or fewer. Five posts in this chain have just one reblog total.

But the reblog chain keeps going. And going. It breaches containment many times over. And finally, after a chain THIRTY SIX posts long, at 9:30 AM, July 22nd this morning, it hits a popular account.

99% percent of the people who have seen the post--virtually unchanged from how it left my dash--have seen it because it was curated by 36 different people. That's insane to me.

None of those 36 people know that they're part of this chain. They saw a post, reblogged it, and moved on. If any one of these people had not reblogged, the post would have a fraction of the impact it has.

And yet, after two weeks, the post has effectively hit the main page of tumblr. It was picked up, only because people liked it enough to show it to their followers. There were no algorithms necessary.

You really, truly, cannot get this on any other website.

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My friend 🐢 loves turtles

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Let's get after it....