this blog is sfw, but i regularly rb sfw posts from nsfw accounts, so it's still 18+
about me:
~ 24
~ communist
~ nonbinary femme lesbian
~ white and transmisogyny exempt
~ very happily taken by @punkbutch ❤︎
~ fat, disabled, chronically ill, and neurodivergent (adhd, autistic, bipolar)
~ i use they/them pronouns with everyone except my butch, who i prefer to refer to me using she/her pronouns
dni under the cut
do not interact if you are:
~ a minor
~ a capitalist
~ an ed or feeder blog
~ a defender of "bisexual lesbians" or anything similar
~ someone who believes that nonlesbians can use the terms dyke, butch, or femme
~ someone who believes that nonblack nonlesbians can use the terms stud and stem(me)
~ a cishet man (cishet women, cis gay men, and straight trans men are all on EXTREMELY thin ice)
~ a racist, zionist (two staters included), transmisogynist (this includes terfs, ppl who believe in "transandrophobia", ppl who think trans men can be lesbians, etc), fatphobic person, or any other sort of bigot that i may have forgotten to put
it's been brought to my attention that the first thing you see if you look up my url on here is that i'm on an "anti-lesboy/mspec lesbian blocklist" and that's so heartbreaking to me so i wanted to clear things up
SIKE lmao i'm proud to be included (also thanks for the follow list)
Help two disabled trans girls afford groceries after getting screwed by their ISP
We're completely broke after having to pay off 7 months of internet bills to get our internet turned back on because our ISP started sending our internet bills to a digital mail address tied to my wife's old SSN due to a mistake in their payment system. We don't have any food left after budgeting our meal planning, and we could really use some help with groceries and medicine for the rest of the month.
Hiiii, loves. Thank you so much for all the support! Could anyone possibly spare $70? I know it's a lot but if 7 people can each donate $10, I'll meet my goal to finally get my mom's meds. She's a 77yo woman with a bad back, various other clinical issues like depression and high blood pressure, and I'm her caretaker.
We have a 7 ish day holiday starting today (carnaval) and I could use the help. Thank you!!!
Hi! I could also use help with food... stores near by are closed for the next 3 days but we can get delivery from a few places... please, anything helps, and we got nothing for days now.
the different reaction to internet girl live vs internet girl studio version is so funny to me. like EVERYBODY had a positive reaction to the live version it was stuck in everybody's heads and we all were in love with the song
i fear a lot of you who say there is a "masc" shortage only want a cis skinny white girl with short hair and cannot handle the concept of a hairy butch who takes testosterone, has had top surgery, is a person of colour, has big muscles, uses he/him pronouns, refers to themself as a dyke, or a tranny, or is a trans female butch.
hell, most of you won't even say the word butch. you want a dumbed down, acceptable version of butch lesbianism, and the reality of the matter will not accept that.
why is it that in 90% of posts like this, the go-to example for a "scary, socially subversive butch" is a transmasc butch on T. My fat butch on E is just as (if not more, in the majority of lesbian spaces) subversive as a transmasc butch. She rejected everything about being masculine as a man, and created her own masculinity just to get less respect from her own community. Why is every butch with a weird gender assumed to be transmasc everywhere I go. It's just frustrating to have to see posts going "butches can be trans too! help every butch in your life get on T!" I don't expect other people to understand what it's like to have to put up with the subtle excising of transfems from being butchfemme. Logging onto this website only to have to see your entire relationship erased from public consciousness because you had the gall to commit the sin of being born with a penis
The banning of aid in Gaza will almost certainly mean a return to severe famine. Over the summer during the blockade, her family was starving when unable to afford the exorbitant costs of price-gouged food. Her mother lost 27 kilos during this period.
It is terrifying to be returning to this level of scarcity, especially because it is of deliberate genocidal design.
Mahrah's fundraising efforts have been vetted by @90-ghost and shared by fairuzfan. My wife, @cannilyuncanny hosts her family's GoFundMe campaign and sends transfers of donations directly to Mahrah in Gaza.
They have relied on this campaign to afford food. Please help them to raise funds for what's to come in this new year.
you may think misogyny is good because it is made up of miso, which is delicious, and gyny, which is woman. and girl miso sounds great. but 👆 it is not girl miso
sometimes i be saying im gonna go to bed and then i dont go to bed. frequently in fact. this is because i have the heart of an optimist and the soul of a liar