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@histrionic-hero
me, lying through my teeth: i care
i hate when ppl try to bait sympathy like i promise to god idc enough to try and decipher why ur in a shit mood
there are some Narcissists who i’m like “eyyyy, same hat! nice.” and we have this like solidarity with each other over NPD.
but then i see some other Narcissists and i’m just like
the 4 trauma responses
black hole nothingness
WTF IS WRONG WITH THAT MOTHERFUCKER I’LL KILL THEM I’LL KILL THEM I’LL KILL THEM
hahaha wasn’t that fucked up lmao look at this meme i found
shaking in a corner rocking back and forth with a stuffed animal
The newest cryptid: my empathy for others
can y'all stop normalizing this shit it’s not even funny
i assure you i never intended for my personal post to end up on best of tumblr or some shit but it sure as hell aint me trying to normalize anything as you apparently misunderstood lmao
pros of no empathy: u get to appreciate all ur friend drama like ur watching a particularly shocking soap opera cons of no empathy: u dont respond with the ‘necessary’ words of comfort that everyone else has been rattling off and u look like a Bad Neurotypical
I find it the opposite, because it’s like a script - I know exactly what to say, I just don’t feel it.
NPD Problems
Projected ego =/= actual self confidence
Needing to be perfect, otherwise you want to die bc what’s the point
Developing the tendency to classify others as ‘inferior’ or ‘equals’ as a coping mechanism because you need to be better and you’re really hypersensitive to criticism but you’ll never admit that to anyone
People insinuating that they are somehow superior to you makes you so fucking angry, you want to destroy them even though it’s not an ‘appropriate response’ and it was a ‘joke’
Relying either on validation or impulsive self-destructive behaviour to feel something other than chronic emptiness and to feel good about yourself
Low empathy moods where you can’t exactly tell anyone that bc then they’ll avoid you so you have to pretend to be warm, engaging and nice even when you can’t. And progressively feeling more irritated/frustrated because of that, that you snap. Then you’re a bad person. You’re toxic and monstrous and abusive. Bc low empathy is evidently not a thing to others
Not being able to tell anyone about your actual problems because you need to keep up the illusion of being flawless, in control and perfect. Also because realistically you’re unable to fully trust anyone with the power to potentially backstab you in the future
The fuckin shitty rep people with NPD get because of the demographic of genuinely disgusting scum being at the forefront, misrepresentation by media and biased one-sided articles demonising your illness
shoutout to the people with npd who are “sore losers”
to those who honestly don’t think that it’s fair when they don’t win
to those who have their mood destroyed by what should be a fun and casual game
to those who feel nothing but hurt and fury towards the ones who did “better” than them
to those who are straight-up told that they are indeed “sore losers”, and are made fun of for it, even in a playful manner
nobody understands the crushing blend of rage and panic you feel when you’re not better than everyone else. nobody understands that, to you, not being the best feels no different than being the worst piece of shit failure imaginable.
@npdthoughts and i had an idea
feel free to repost anywhere no need to credit (or make some too! the ribbon color is #66023b)
more on the way
I may not be very nice but at least im not ugly
Your traumatic or abusive experience does not make you an expert on every single person who has a trait that your abuser also had.
*cough* narcissisticabuse tag
this user has low empathy
me, with a person i’m not even vaguely attracted to: be attracted to me be attracted to me be attracted to me be attracted to me
Tnpdfw you were being immature and once you calmed down you just wanted to crawl in a hole and die because *people saw*
someone: *does something better than me in a public setting where everyone can see*
npd: 🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪