DUMPSTER JEDI

I'm Ariel and I'm just straight chillin. I got a head full of dumb and a heart full of love.

[hobbit-kin]

I went against my Cowboy Code in my last post and I wasn't very kind in my wording. Normally this is where I'd apologize, but I'm not going to do that.

Because it wouldn't have mattered how I said what I feel and what I'm struggling with, y'all lump everyone who isn't on their knees for the gender cult into one group. No matter how delicate, how nuanced, how genuinely kind a person might be, the "TERF" label is final.

I'm nearing 30. I don't need a bunch of people who can't make phone calls without crying telling me what my morals should be. I've got those figured out, thanks.

I'm uninstalling the app and taking a break for a while. I've been on this site almost 10 years and it's brought me a lot of laughs and a few friends. It just might not be worth it anymore.

Have a good week and live deliciously everyone.

[hobbit-kin]

My ex fiance physically dragged me to the second rape of my life, knowing that I was a COCSA survivor.

Are you listening? Good.

I don't give a stone cold fuck about trans women.

I'm not going to censor the language I use about reproductive rights when women could fucking die in order to ~validate an identity~. I couldn't care less about your gender. Gender isn't real and if you gave a shit about anyone other than yourself you wouldn't be focusing all of your efforts on it.

The vast majority of domestic violence victims are women. The vast majority of rape victims are women. Women get paid less. Women's work is undervalued. Women die in labor when they don't have to. Women still endure FGM in many parts of the world. Women still get put in menstrual huts. Even the most basic tenants of women's biology is misunderstood, unknown, or ignored.

Go on pornhub and look at the most popular categories. Tell me that men are treated like this.

Every single figure a TRA will cite is misconstrued or a flat-out lie. I see metaphorical screeching from trans women every fucking day. I see posts about lesbians ("if you wouldn't sleep with a transwoman you're transphobic!" mmm no maybe they're a fucking lesbian? and don't like dick? this was obvious 10 years ago?) not being inclusive enough every fucking day.

Funnily enough, I n e v e r see posts about gay men not being inclusive enough to trans men. I wonder why that is?

(Jk. I don't wonder why people socialized as male are howling and screaming and making death threats 25/8 and people socialized female are virtually unheard from. I don't wonder at all!)

Anyway I'll make a long story short: sexual dimorphism is real no matter how much liberals try and convince you otherwise, TRAs are lying about the trans life expectancy/suicide rate, and no matter how much a man in a dress cries to you about how oppressed he is, he hasn't been raped twice in his life, especially by the man he meant to marry (but how many ~trans women are attracted to men?)!

Shut the fuck up.

Cancel me, I don't give a shit. Nobody worth my time is going to undermine the hell I've been through as a woman - rape, miscarriage, and beyond - and tell me I'm a bigot for focusing on people who understand the hell I've been though.

"Block and stay safe!" Fuck you. I've never been safe a day in my life.

[lookataleaf3000]

I’m screaming LOL? You’re a terf if you criticize porn literally at all, even just some of it. I can’t imagine trying to learn about feminism for the first time in this online environment.

[kitchenalia]

no explanation on why the eradication of pornography might be a bad thing, just tut-tutting about you criticizing any form of pornography—which includes pornography with either themes or literal depictions of rape, pedophilia, bestiality, and/or murder. imagine being a teenage girl discovering that she’s a category on porn websites (which i did as a teenager!) and trying to reconcile her concerns with rhetoric like this.

[madmaxies]

calling women terfs is a VERY convenient way to force women into obedience and make sure they never make any connections regarding sexism and misogyny.

“if you notice any patterns about women’s treatment in society, you’re a terf”

[lap0esie-deactivated20200712]

Maybe we should stop calling them liberals and just call them conservatives

[thatkindoffeminist]

All they had to do in this post was say that it’s TERF rhetoric and implying that it’s bad for no other reason than being ‘TERF rhetoric’.

No critical thinking skills involved here. Reminds me of that post where someone shared some research and then someone commented that the researcher was a well known ‘SWERF’ and this was ‘SWERF rhetoric’ and suddenly people are apologising for sharing it as they didn’t know that the author was a SWERF.

No critical thinking skills. No analytical skills. Just ‘OP is a SWERF and this is SWERF rhetoric’ and suddenly people avoid it like the plague.

[vladtheunfollower]

Ibex and the moon  

Photo: Tiki Ozer

[incendavery]

new jobs are fun

[petalstofish-deactivated2022041]

[thesnobbyartsyblog]

[lotrreactionmemes]

How Pippin saw it.

[convulsionsbyskinnypuppy-deacti]

It’s great as a woman how you get older and you just slowly begin to ease yourself out of the idea of being the male fantasy girl and you just want to be appreciated for who you are at your core

[convulsionsbyskinnypuppy-deacti]

It’s all a happily constructed lie. The shaving, the make up, the stupid restrictive clothes, not eating, being deliberately passive about your opinions, not talking too much, not having interests that are too ‘feminine’ or too ‘masculine’ ...it’s all just some stupid lie to men that we aren’t rly human we’re just their decorations

[bowsersex-deactivated20220424]

If y’all got cancelled what would you be cancelled for? Say it in the tags.

[hyper-nico]

i’m going to have an aneurysm 

[bowsersex-deactivated20220424]

Love this cause this is actually the kinda stuff I wanted to comment instead of the shit like “I like “problematic media”” or “im a conservative” “I hate trans people”. I wanted people to say funny shit. Like here’s my original tag I did.

[hobbit-kin]

Today in the group chat: I share my theory about horses (They Know)

Here are the memes I made for your enjoyment:

[exeggcute]

reminder to all my followers that a fabric shaver is a cheap and effective way to remove pills and lint from fabrics, which is a great way to restore an old sweater back to its original appearance, especially if you combine it with a fabric softener treatment to make your sweater feel soft again. but be sure to test the fabric shaver on a small corner of the sweater to make sure it won't rip the fabric, and never attempt to use it on certain handmade and delicate fabrics. spread this to raise awareness

[the-real-numbers-deactivated202]

If I ran a retail store I would let my employees tell rude people off

[the-real-numbers-deactivated202]

RIP to your idiot boss but I'm different

[the-real-numbers-deactivated202]

What the fuck are the boomers going to do, huh? Gonna fucking cancel my store because they can't be rude to my employees and get away with it? Gonna give me a few bad reviews on Yelp? Gonna tell their friends not to shop here? lol. It's just words bro, and you started it, so get over it. I can advertise on the internet and get people that aren't assholes to come in here. Bye bye, bitch.

Plus now my employees are happier and feel respected, which helps me in a number of indirect ways

[the-real-numbers-deactivated202]

The biggest mistake of capitalism was letting managers believe that stuck-up ladies in their 50's would actually shop at another store after experiencing a tiny inconvenience because of how much of a hissy fit they worked themselves into about it in the moment. And also believing that somehow revenue from a single customer impacted their bottom line more than the job satisfaction of one of their own employees.

They'll be back. They're resistant to change lol. Your employees won't be though. You have about 6mo.

[aliiiiiiice]

why don't people in zombie apocalypse stories ever just wear suits of armor? you think any zombie is gonna get their shitty rotting jaws through this?

I'm gonna rip and tear my way through the zombie apocalypse completely unharmed because none of the undead hoards will be able to get through my plate mail

[githvyrik]

tumblr is a free website compilation

[pettydavis]

this is what pandora released when she opened that box

[blackwoolncrown]

this is the serpent chewing at the roots of the world tree

[tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva]

IT’S THAT TIME OF THE WEEK FOLKS

[hobbit-kin]

My taste in friends is great but my taste in romantic partners is fuck awful. If I develop feelings for someone that's more an indictment of them than anything.