dear questioning systems, newly discovered systems, and systems who are worried about being wrong about how your plurality presents
try not to focus on if you're doing it "right", there is no right or wrong way to be a system
you're valid if you switch quickly
you're valid if you switch a lot
you're valid if you switch slowly
you're valid if you dont switch very often
you're valid if you dont hear from your alters very often
you're valid if your alters talk to you often
you're valid if you dont know anything about your system
you're valid if you have non human alters
you're valid if you have fictives
you're valid if you have factives
you're valid if you dont have any of those
you're valid if you dont have a diagnosis
you're valid if you dont want a diagnosis
you're valid if you dont have amnesia
you're valid if the host is always co con
you're valid if you think your trauma wasnt that bad
you're valid if you want final fusion
you're valid if you dont want final fusion
you're valid if you all have different tastes
you're valid if you all like the same things
remember you dont have to be a system in a certain way, you dont need to be the poster child for the symptoms listed in the dsm.
