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>21. He/they/it

No longer able to gaslight gatekeep girlboss, I'm afraid. I can only mansplain manipulate manifest now but that's okay bc I'm now a bass-bari instead of a mezzo.

Will block bots and bigots.

I do talk ab current events every once in a while. Peep the tags to know what to block, or just block me completely. Don't care

@ everyone who has ever sent me an ask I am so sorry and I'd like to make this formal apology now. @ everyone who ever may want to send me an ask, please for the love of the gods try to make sure it's something I can come back to and know exactly what you're talking about at any time bc I just. Don't. Check my asks like ever. I have learned.

The tags:

#reference or #references : they're references, dude. Art references, learning references, whatever. Go buck wild.

#get shit done : adulting or learning.

#current events : current events, potentially triggering stuff. I try to never rb stuff that doesn't have links. If I do, feel free to yell at me. (but like don't really yell at me bc I have a sensitive heart. Just like. Sternly speak or smthn)

#hall of fame fics : fics that were so wonderous and awe-inspiring that I had to rb on my main. I'm in like 18,000 different fandoms though so like good luck if you only want one

#ramblings : ramblings??? What do you want me to say

#my fics : things that I wrote myself :)

#pinned posts : posts that are or were formerly pinned. Only the best can go up there 🤌 (this is also posts that I would otherwise have pinned)

#psychic damage tag: if I had to see this so do you. I apologize in advance.

#from the physio department: things that I spew about that I learned while getting my degree

(this list is subject to having a nerd posting tag added.)

#pinned posts

ororium-z

Happy Pride!

rootbeergoddess

Every pride, you must reblog this. No exceptions

thesaltofcarthage

I love that four different people on my feed scheduled this joyous person to reblog by 8am on June 1. I look forward to seeing this a dozen more times today.

sanchomps

WRATH MONTH NOW

starrycardinal

Slavic-inspired Herrah and bb hornet

Made in Procreate

waitingforthet

Inspiration struck on Bluesky. Again. If you’re on there and not following Jon you should totally be following Jon. Or me. (@waitingforthetrade.bsky.social)

waitingforthet

Happy MerMay!

omegaversereloaded

i love this video so much one time i got high and watched it on a loop and it made me cry

smoqueen-deactivated20251108

im actually cleft in twain right now can i call you back

valtsv

nonbinary jeff bezos hires a necromancer to cross the border between life and death to chase up an employee who killed himself without clocking out first. podcast of the year.

valtsv

also worth mentioning: nonbinary jeff bezos' alexa made of real human corpses gets musicmogged by the necromancer's singing severed head companion

going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

once my friend made a drink he called turpentine that tasted like every worst college night out rolled into one and felt like getting whacked in the head with a hammer, and I woke up in my own apartment with my phone wallet keys clothes and absolutely zero memory of the night before, and when I checked my watch I'd walked over 60k steps.

going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

60k steps in the middle of the night in heels for reasons entirely unknown to me. what was I doing. where did I go. where did I come from. cotton eye joe. or whatever.

going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

people are theorizing what happened so here's what I know:

the club we went to closed at 2am and 45kish steps were after 2am, meaning I wasn't still dancing at the club. we got there at 11:30pm. I don't know when we left.

none of us had any charges on our cards or venmos after getting into the club and none of us were missing cash

we all woke up with all our things and no injuries except some bruises (to be expected from a night out)

I woke up smelling like salt water which would make me think I'd ended up in the ocean(??) except my hair was still straight, none of my things were water damaged, and I was completely dry

from our camera rolls we know we were all together until around 4am, but not where we were because they're all too dark to see, which is fucking weird because we live in a city with tons of lights all night

I didn't wake my roommates up when coming home, managed to take out my contacts, cooked mac n cheese, and passed out on the living room floor

me and everyone else who'd been wearing heels had crazy blisters

my friend found a bunch of rocks in his pockets

two of my guy friends were wearing each other's shirts when they woke up (in their separate apartments)

we all got back to our apartments around 6am which we know for a fact because we all texted pictures of ourselves being home safe to the group chat, so being unbelievably hammered didn't stop us from having enough common sense to make sure we were all okay

if we'd been able to sherlock holmes together what happened it'd just be a funny night out but the fact we all have no fucking clue means we have conspiracy theories about it. and we don't let my friend make turpentine anymore.

lady-raziel

i'm sorry but this is the only submission to this trend that i'll consider giving any thought to

sizzlingsandwichperfection-blog

My signature is worth negative 2 dollars and 82 cents.

captaindibbzy

queeranarchism

#my wife is on the SOR for being gay #no joke #she hit on a girl in a straight bar once #in 1997 #and while the girl was into it #the off duty cop sitting nearby was not #and so he arrested her for ‘soliciting homosexual activity’ #which in our state was still a felony #in 1997 (and would remain so until Lawrence v Texas in 2003) #and since ‘soliciting homosexual activity’ was a felony and a sex crime #she got put on The List #she is still on there to this day #because it costs MONEY to ask a judge to take you off #and she has tried four times#since 2003 #to get taken off the SOR #but every time the judge has said something like ‘no you pled guilty to the crime i can’t possibly take you off the sex offender registry’ #with no acknowledgement of what the actual crime was #(the crime of being a butch lesbian hitting on a cute girl who was into it) #(in 1997)

Reposting these tags with consent from the person that wrote them. The post about the Sex Offenders Registry is locked, but these tags are too important to go unnoticed.

Younger queer people need to realize that the SOR being used against queer people simply for being queer isn’t some ancient history thing. It still impacts queer people today. And it can quite easily be used that way again.

ashelyskies-deactivated20241121

Listen!

When you hear people throwing around the talking point of “well there’s a high rate of sex offenders in the trans/queer community”, this has to do with why.

Being on the sex offender registry isn’t inherently equivalent to whatever horrific sex crime you’re meant to think of when it’s mentioned. It evokes imagery of pedophilia and rape, but there is a lot that can get you put on it and not a lot you can do to be taken off of it.

Public crossdressing used to be able to get you put on the sex offender registry (and by used to I mean as recently as 2011).

Public urination (you know, the literal only option for someone who’s homeless and doesn’t have access to public bathrooms, a venn diagram where trans people are more likely to rest in the meeting zone) can get you put on the sex offender registry.

Sex work is pretty much an automatic way to end up on the sex offender registry if you’re caught. (This is especially weaponized against black trans women who do sex work)

“Deviant Sexual Intercourse” (aka literally any sexual activity aside from penis-in-vagina penetration) could get you on the sex offender registry as recently as the early 2000s. That effectively impacts the entire queer community in one way or another.

The sex offender registry is, first and foremost, useless. It tells you nothing about what someone did. It’s mentioned to quickly associate a person or a group of people with the worst possible crimes imaginable.

It has been used against us time after time and it will continue to be used for that.

cluegrrl

And this is where the push of purity discourse in fandom shows its fetid, fascist underbelly.

gwydionmisha

This is why they are making being trans in public a felony in some states.

harperhug

When you decide that people who commit a certain crime or category of crime should legally lose their humanity, you create incentive for more people to be charged with that crime.