I honestly did not expect our national park service to be so fucking savage.
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I honestly did not expect our national park service to be so fucking savage.
These are my favorite parents in any movie ever.
Im fucking crying on my break why is this so funny
donât even bother
how have i never seen this before
oh my g o d
Advanced Warfare
wonder what Jennamarbles is up to these days
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My mom went on my account and unfollowed you sorry
That time I played Never Have I Ever with Party Gays
I AM FUCKING DYINGGGGG
IM LITERALLY CRYINGGG
Here is thing I learned when I was 29, which I now give away for free: If you want to do a thing, do it now, or as soon as feasible. Because there might not be a later. If it is a complicated or expensive or hard thing that takes many stages or has a steep learning curve, start working on the parts you can work on while you can work on them, then move on to the next thing. Accept that there will be a lot of failures along the way, and that you can come back from nearly any mistake that doesnât involve making a left turn in front of an oncoming semi. Concentrate on yourself and what you can do, and donât rely on other people to fix things for you, even though you might love them or they you. (This doesnât mean you canât love friends or family or partners. Friends and family and partners, in the long run, are the thing other than Useful Work and Adventures that make life worthwhile. Well, all that, and a really nice coffee and tea kit in the kitchen and the skill to use it. But that last thing isnât terribly expensive unless you make it be.) But to succeed at a thingâa job, a relationshipâin the long term, the thing is: You Must Commit, even though commitment is scary. And commitment is scary because once youâre in youâre in. Itâs not bobbing around close to the shore, paddling with your feet. Itâs both feet and swimming as hard as you can out where the rip currents and the sharks are, where the water turns blue. You canât hold back because youâre afraid of getting hurt: you have to accept that you are going to get hurt, and put your hand in the fire of your own free will. Itâs like climbing. You can make sure youâve got good ropes and a belayer you trust (you SHOULD make sure you have good ropes and a belayer you trust!), but thereâs moves you canât make unless youâre willing to risk falling. Iâm not saying follow your bliss off a cliff, in other words: part of being prepared and committed is having the right kit, whether itâs money in the bank for the lean times when starting off as a freelancer, or a partner who supports your work, or being young enough that starving in a cold room for a few years with pneumonia is romantic (I have the T-shirt!). Thatâs why itâs scary. Itâs scary because you are taking an actual chance. But: things donât work out the way you want them to if you just kind of drift along seeing what will happen. Nice things might happen! âŠbut they didnât, for me. Basically, what I figured out was that I had to be a protagonist if I wanted anything to happen, and part of being a protagonist was accepting that I might fail. And then have to deal with that failure. And that if I didnât do it I would more or less inevitably fail, but I could pretend to myself that it wasnât because I wasnât good enough and that I didnât know why. Seeking success, in other words, meant letting go of a layer of ego defense. This realization directly led to me having the career I always wanted, and doing pretty well at it. It also led to me having the best relationship of my life. I wish Iâd learned it when I was sixteen, rather than twenty-nine, but I had some things I had to work through first.Â
So that thing you want to do? Assuming itâs not illegal or immediately fatal? Do it now.
Every regret I have in my life is from ignoring this principle.
FULL LIFE CONSEQUENCES
male entitlement in academic spaces is so boring. canât tell you how many times iâve been in a class and a girl gives a short, insightful analysis, and then a dude raises his hand and says âjumping off of thatâŠâ then says literally the same thing she said but longer and worse.
I hate to be that guy, but it doesnât just happen to women. The assholes who do that will do that to anyone whoâs analysis isnât sufficiently complex and long winded for them.Â
Been done to me by people of both genders.Â
Also I have been guilty of doing this, so I apologize. Because I was overly excited and just couldnât wait to talkâŠ. yeah.Â
(Nothing is ever clear cut ehâŠ.)Â
âWe donât have to retrain [police]. We gotta let them be held accountable for their actions.â -Ronald Lanier (x) | follow @the-movemnt
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Whereâs all the âBlue Lives Matterâ people now?!?! âŠOr does that only apply when the victims are White? âŠOr does that only matter if the offenders arenât also cops?