iBringAllTheFandomsToTheYard

Welcome to my happy place

[thecoolradcoffin]

hope this explains it

[invaderxan]

it does and I hate it, thank you

[sheryl-lee]

Emilia Clarke as Daenerys Targaryen

GAME OF THRONES 1x01 - Winter Is Coming

[deejay]

[zlink]

[big8cola]

school is temporary but old hyperfixations you had in middle school are forever

[big8cola]

[ceasepool]

do you trust her

[smugsbunny2-deactivated20160120]

Yeah.

[the-milk-eyed-mender]

Yes

[tasteyandfreshe]

she was an agent, a traitor!

[fosszilisdinoszauruszhanyas]

[animal-factbook]

[guccigoose]

Blasphemy

[whitepeopletwitter]

[guerrillatech]

[nelkenbabe-deactivated20211107]

"i would die for you" this, "i'd walk through fire for you that"

what about "i'd live for you" romances? what about "i never thought i'd be worth the work it would take to piece myself together"?

what about "i don't believe i'm worth it, but for you i'll try"

[griffys]

me @ myself: maybe u should try not to depend so much on validation and attention from others because u really let it dictate your mood and it’s so unhealthy

me: huh. interesting. anyway whom here loves me

[sitcom-gifs]

NEW GIRL 01.23 “Backslide”

[lyrium-deactivated20230102]

your level of education means nothing if you never learned any compassion

[youchangedme]

felt the entire range of human emotion in the past six months and yet every day was exactly the same. how does that work

[crpl-pnk]

ok very funny guys. you got me. now seriously who left all these neurotypicals in charge of the mental health field

[eurekapix]

who left all these healthy doctors in charge of the hospital

is literally what this sounds like

[agentelderofshield]

God, can you imagine how awful that would be? People with amputations consulting on things like prosthesis?

People in wheelchairs designing living and working spaces for people with mobility issues?

Autistic people actually trying to help other autistic people?

OMG, just thing – wouldn’t ti be awful if people who are now in remission actually helped manage the pain and other symptoms that come with having and treating cancer?

I mean seriously, what on Earth do any of those people really have to add to the discussion? What could they possibly know that an able-bodied neurotypical wouldn’t already know? I mean, experience doesn’t teach all that much!

/end sarcasm.

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

[jenroses]

My care for EDS got radically better when my doctor’s kid was diagnosed. 

[goosewithajob]

Dr. Marsha M. Linehan more or less reinvented the field of behavioral therapy after spending years being treated to the worst 1950-60s psychiatry had to offer. She created the system now known as Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, now considered one of the most effective treatments for suicidal and self-destructive behaviors, as well as pretty much any other form of mental illness or mood/behavior disorders. She was able to do all of this BECAUSE she’s self-diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, not in spite of it.

[lanthir]

The only therapist, out of the many I have seen over the past 30 years, to succesfuly treat my anxiety?  The one who had anxiety herself.  Not a coincidence.  

[star-anise]

Doctors with Disabilities Are Changing the System

[femsolid]

[no-uterus-no-opinion9]

Just say you enjoy boring sex and let others enjoy their rough sex, it ain't hurting you

[twoxliberation]

“it ain’t hurting you” except now we have to worry that men will automatically think we like being slapped, spanked, and choked by default. except we’re shamed for not liking rough sex, thus putting pressure on us to ‘consent’ to violence. except there is so much pressure to be cool and kinky that teenage girls are being injured during sex because they think sex that hurts is good sex. except now it’s considered funny and cool for women and girls to end up in the er because of how violent men were towards them during sex.

“it’s not hurting you” until being kinky is the norm and not liking being hurt during sex is shameful.

i can’t even begin to tell you how traumatized i am because i was so brainwashed by pro-bdsm freaks like you when i first started having sex.

y’all aren’t kinkshamed enough, honestly. you’re responsible for so many people, mainly teenage girls and young women, who are now traumatized or fucking dead, all because you care more about feeling accepted for wanting to beat the shit out of your partner. “rough sex gone wrong” is a murder defense now. a teenage girl had her colon perforated during what was describe as an “anal gang bang gone wrong”. y’all have turned domestic violence into a joke with your stupid ass “if you hear screaming and crying, we’re just having sex - don’t call the cops!” door signs.

[fairy25]

I can count on one hand the number of male sexual partners that I have had in my life that did not try to choke me during sex, something I have never consented to and have even said “I don’t like being choked” and guess what? They don’t care.

[lacite-desdames]

@savethebees99​ How can you read that and then just do exactly what she said is fucked up... “boring sex” ... ok, so you are pressuring everyone who doesn’t like trauma bonding. Based on the usual pattern, you are probably secretly very sex negative, terrified of real connection that doesn’t rely on that trauma to stay “exciting”, and find sex itself degrading and dirty but have a contradictory need to engage with it so ritualistically celebrate that degradation from the perspective of the defiler, the defiled, or both.