Sorry for the late response, I didn't see your reply. I thought about Aayla Secura or Shaak Ti specifically, and Yandere headcanons of their relationship and how they would try to make the Relationship with a non-Jedi work as Jedi.
So I'll be making the headccanons about Shaak Ti if you don't mind, also so sorry for the late answer
I'll be situating this during the clone wars
First and foremost the thing with Shaak is that she is stationed in Kamino, so you would need to be some sort of staff in kamino, perhaps a trainer
Second she is a giant woman alright? fuck star wars for being cowards and not giving alien species wild heights, Togrutas are massive ok?
Shaak is a respected figure in Kamino, everywhere she goes she carries herself in a graceful manner that can leave anyone stumbling with their words
The way she is with the clones can only be described as nurturing despite the situation
Truly an amazing woman and jedi
Yet it doesn't make her any less deadly
I feel she is not someone who would be impressed or trull interested by someone who doesn't have some sort of code to stick by
Even if said code may harm others I think she would have more respect for someone who sticks to their guns regardless of situation
Something I would say she can't have anymore after the war started, having to oversee the cloning facilities and the training of other cadets all for them to become cannon fodder in a war bigger than any of them
So it could be a sort of fascination for a lost freedom she and other jedi can no longer afford
She is the kind of person who observes before acting coughstalking*couch*
But first would be how would you catch her attention in the first place?
Going off from you being one of the trainers that Jango had brought in the first time
(yes I am using a bit of legends for the spice)
Jango had asked you for your knowledge in surviving and adapting to almost anything space threw at you
Something you imparted in the first generation before leaving much like the others
Yet no long after you found yourself back in Kamino, a small deal you had made after a slightly "illegal" job went wrong and you got busted by a meddling red head Jedi who you had the misfortune or maybe fortune to have known, a bit at least
Obi Wan had recognized you as one of the old trainers, he had seen the kind of training you had set the first batch of clones through and knew it could help better the training that the newer batches painfully needed as it could even help turn the tide in the war if only slightly
So he offered you a deal, go back to work in Kamino, help train other clones for two years and he wouldn't turn you over
Considering it was that or potentially spending the rest of your life in prison you reluctantly accepted
Now at the start Shaak kept you at arms length, you were still a mercenary, one who had been "close" to Jango
Yet she couldn't deny that you and the previous trainers had been good at your job
So she let you go about your day and you did much of the same
You may be a mercenary but you weren't bold enough to anger a Jedi and much less a almost 7 ft togrutan
She would have first noticed your training
Not cruel, yet not soft, you knew they were going off to war and weren't taking it as a joke
First she'd observe you from a distance, but as her interest grew she would start "politely" following you(may explain why you feel hunted most of time)
I don't think she would be the one who'd actually take the first step, she would be content in keeping this "observation" during your stay
You'd have two options, either you somehow don't notice her "observing", despite your sharp senses or you call her out
She isn't someone who would be embarrassed, she would explain her reasoning matter of fact
You can be flustered, flattered, creeped out, it doesn't matter, it's not like she'll stop
So your only option is to begin talking with her, try and satiate her curiosity
She makes some really good tea and gladly invites you over for tea and to talk
She'd have you eating together before you can even notice
She is the kind of person who can talk you into something without you noticing
She wouldn't need to use the force or anything to get you to comply, again, you won't even notice you just signed a marriage certificate from how nonchalant she is about everything
It's never malicious, she just likes your company, and your stories, and your voice, mannerisms, and- (you get he gist.)
She would no doubt make sure you are always eating properly and taking care of yourself
I don't think she'd really try to hide your relationship
You guys are in Kamino after all, just Kaminoan's and clones around, Kaminoan's can't care any less and it's not like they could truly tell as the way Shaak and you talk is so very formal
The clones, not that it would matter, besides Shaak likes you and you are actually a pretty nice trainer, so they like you
Shaak would no doubt manhandle you after the attack on Kamino
You almost died, you would have had she not straight up picked you up as she obliterated the droids you had been fighting
(Some cadet looked on with star eyes as Mama ti just moved you around like a rag-doll, she is strong)
After this she actually becomes very affectionate
You will be drinking tea and she would just grab you and sit you on her lap
It becomes a dynamic soon enough with her picking you up whenever and you just going limp like a disgruntled cat
Not like you have much of a choice and it isn't unpleasant tbh
But hope you are ready to be on her lap whenever you both are doing paperwork or designing training regimes
You won't notice how there are literal no boundaries between you guys
You'll be acting as if you've been married for decades when you've really just known each other for like a year
Yeah she may not take the first step but once you do she will speed run the relationship as if it was the most normal thing in the world
A/N: again, sorry I took so long, I honestly really like the idea with shaak, I may expand on it later on wether order 66 happens or not, hope they were ok