Stuff and Things

temporarily thk hyperfixated

[autistobrat]

this too shall pass but the fuck was that for

[ifyouknowme-noyoudont]

"Keep falling"

but make it motivational

[lunamonchtuna]

to be seen without performing. to be heard without screaming. to be missed without disappearing. to be enough without proving it. to be held without falling apart. to be understood without explaining. to be wanted without conditions. to be. to be.

[persianmom-deactivated20251026]

please don’t spend your life convincing yourself that love or joy is reserved for the idealized version of you that only exists in the future

[manincaffeine]

I want romance. I want laughter. I want the 3am love making. I want consistency. I want loyalty. I want the random looks of admiration. I want to know you're just for me. I want date nights and flowers. I want truth. I want priority. I want love that's pure and calming.

[kissmyneckandcallmebaby]

this

[joongdunking]

JOONG GETTING BABIED BY DUNK!!! 🥹🥹💛💛 That's Dunk baby right there! 🥹🤏

[kosmogrl]

[akkpipitphattana]

you guys dont understand how much bad reviews by sabrina carpenter is a kantbison song. like it’s stick actually

[7-starboi]

GOOD MORNING I SAW HIM TWEET THIS IN REAL TIME! WTF JOONG ITS TOO EARLY FOR ME TO SEE THIS SHIT😂😂😂

[artndetails]

pink moon.

[fair-itself]

I feel like this is the kind of thing you only reblog if you have an aesthetic blog, which I do not, but goddammit I just love it when the moon lines up with stuff

[a-dauntless-daffodil]

dandelion sun~

[fern-tdvuh]

Name a character a st[i/y]le(s).

Make him a certified yapper who jokes around to deal with The Horrors

and who needs to get laid.

Throw in a grump with Eyebrows who did not sign up for this

and who has a penchant for making threats in a Jeep that is one breath away from breaking down.

(But it's all fine if you feel some type of way about being roughed up)

They both have mothers who passed away a long time ago, and protective fathers who are well aware that their sons are handfuls -- and yet are continually bewildered by the out-of-pocket shit their sons say. Despite the fact that both sons take after their fathers.

The biggest difference between Stiles and Style is that Style considers himself a pacifist and Stiles' go-to solution for most inconveniences is murder.

[incorrect-thk]

The quickest way to a man’s heart is through the fourth and fifth ribs.

Fadel, when asked how he would capture a man's heart

[shebloomedbutwontforgethepast]

And after a while you just stop. You stop watering your plants. You stop watching netflix. You stop reading. You stop replying to your friends as fast as you used to. You stop buying yourself nice things. You stop putting an effort into how you look. You stop taking care of yourself like you used to. You stop sleeping. You stop eating healthy foods. You stop petting your dog. You stop socializing.

You stop with everything. You find yourself sitting in your room for hours on end, without doing a single thing. Days feel like years. And you think you can’t do it for much longer.

[chocolate-lilies]

My therapist told me that you don’t only spiral down. You can spiral up again. So maybe one day

You water your plants for the first time in a while. Surprisingly they’re not dead yet. You remember a movie that you really enjoy and you find the energy to watch it. You feel better afterwards. Maybe you still can’t find the motivation to reply to your friends but you buy yourself a nice scented candle and read your book. You take a nice long shower and you feel refreshed, so you put on an outfit you find cool. Then after what seems like forever, you get a good night of sleep. You wake up with more energy than usual so you play with your dog. Then you cook that healthy meal you really enjoy. You reach out to a friend.

You start remembering what brought you joy. You start again with the little things. You look back on the days that have passed and feel relieved they’re over.

Remember, you don’t just spiral down. You spiral up as well, even if it takes more effort to get started.

[clemelntine]

I really love the small look of contemplation/consideration on whether there is any point in trying to argue with Style before the quick realization that he is too stubborn and the look of acceptance that follows.

Fadel knows Style so well, and Joong knows his character through and through too. His attention to detail in some of these scenes is so impressive and admirable.

[dailymanners]

“Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use.”

— Emily Post (1872-1960) American author, columnist

[kosmogrl]

the secret to life is always having something to look forward to

[kosmogrl]

to anyone saying there's nothing to look forward to, I'm not saying it has to be anything spectacular or huge. it could just be a song or a book that will release in a few days, a tv show, anything!! no matter how small it seems it can keep us going

[samwisegamgeeee]

Quick! Put in the tags what you’re looking forward to right now!

I’ll go first: Im gonna go out to try a new restaurant this week with a friend!!

[meangirlnurse]

i’ve started replacing “i want to die” with “i feel overwhelmed” in my internal monologue, which is usually more accurate and more productive

[philonotis]

ive been working on replacing ‘im so stupid’ with ‘im so silly’ and it has the same effect!

[shrunkencannelini]

“I can’t do this” -> This will be a challenge for me, it’s normal to feel intimidated

“I hate this” -> This is a tough situation to handle and I’m doing my best

“I hate myself” -> I’m struggling with low self esteem right now, I need to support myself as I would a friend

“I can’t believe I forgot again” -> It’s tough to balance so many things, maybe I need to let go of some of them

“They’re not going to like me” -> I don’t have to perform for anyone, my personality is valid and loveable just as is

The list could go on and on…

Redirecting the “blame” from yourself and recognizing that you are a human suffering through normal, difficult human experiences is important. Support yourself like you’d support any of your close friends if they said these things.

[beyondthetemples-ooc]

I can’t tell you how delighted I am to see Actual Scripted Examples!

I’ve known I need to modify my self-talk like this for three+ years, and I’ve been trying for that long, but I never know what to replace it with. So the examples are super incredibly helpful, thank you so much. ~<333

[anything-thats-rock-and-roll]

My revolutionary phrase has been “I am not having fun right now.” Because instead of exaggerating/catastrophizing, I usually go in the opposite direction: every time I think “I can’t take this,” the logician in my brain reminds me that *technically* I can, and so it’s not a problem. I’m capable of withstanding a hell of a lot, so waiting until I hit “I actually literally cannot take this for one more single second” is generally not the best idea. But reframing to “I am not having fun with this” has let me modify or straight up quit uncomfortable things much sooner, because it doesn’t have to be that bad for me to acknowledge that I’m not having fun anymore, and once I acknowledge that it’s easier to give myself permission to make a change!