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✨️she/her - second year art history student✨️ very sane about bl ✨️ the curtains are NOT just blue

[clemelntine]

Intro to my blog #myblog

The gif on my header is from this gifset by @namtan

Personal insights: Blogging about my life - Get to know me through tag games - Tag for end of show/movie thoughts - My drawings

Always thinking (and willing to talk) about: JoongDunk, The Heart killers, Hidden Agenda, Bad buddy, The Eclipse, and Only friends.

Currently watching: Girl Rules, Love you Teacher, Life in Smokey Blue, The Warp effect, Enemies with Benfits, When Oranges Fall (I'm behind on everything tho...) Currently rewatching: The Heart Killers (when arent I)

General rule of thumb: I tag reblogs about a specific show as "#[show name] the series". Posts made by me are also tagged with "#[show name]"

Show masterposts: The Heart Killers logbook - Hidden agenda meta

Fanfic by me :) The Taming of the Thief (4.5k, Kant & Style: first meeting) All Consuming, Love (10.7k, Fadel/Style: smut and fluff) Special Service: Spiral (12.4k, Fadel/Style: hurt/comfort)

Singluar posts im proud of: (under the cut)

Shitty analysis of Proletariat Expressionism by Yok (Not me) A further analysis into Yoks other art (sketches and inspo) (Not Me) An unnecessarily deep analysis of KluenDao's first time in the tent (Our Skyy 2: Star in My Mind) Nueng and Palm inhabiting their roles as master and servant (Never Let Me Go)

[sherrymagic]

LOLFanFest2026D3

[critter-of-habit]

They're just silly

[bl-verse]

June 4, 2026 | FlukeSaengNuea 🌌💙🩵

[warangs]

Your Dear Daddy | EP 4

[buckystilinski]

Sila, what are you doing? Getting back at the little guy who ditched me. YOUR DEAR DADDY EP.4

[peatchsoda]

How about this.. come see me at the main quarter. Interested?

[grungekitty-77]

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

[grungekitty-77]

Fun fact, that was literally what inspired me to make this post!

[luca-is-a-pengu]

also using public shaming against homophobic people really works.

someone burned down a poster for a queer tea event. thr whole uni mocked and shamed them for it and it never happened again

[fallenfromthedeadstars]

Pride heart buttons are cool, I appreciate seeing a progressive queer / gay / lesbian / bi / pan / asexual / aromantic / transgender / nonbinary / intersex flag when I like a post.

But it would be better if Tumblr stopped deleting black and trans women's accounts and marking any queer content as "mature".

Just saying.

EDIT : I didn't even realise it since the trans and intersex flags have their own animation but the progressive queer flag isn't complete ! It has the brown and black lines for poc but it's missing the trans and intersex colors ! It's just getting worse and worse.

EDIT 2 : They changed it ! They made a two-parts animation : first the rainbow flag, then a mix of the intersex colors + trans colors + brown and black lines (@isuggestrespecttranspeople for spreading the information)

EDIT 3 : I was told only the brown line is for people of color, the black one is for memorial of the dead, I didn't know sorry

[cloudabserk]

it wants to be close to me. probably because it is so cold and soft & it knows i am strong and warm

[waitmyturtles]

(Source)

[clemelntine]

Going to Berlin today for an eight day uni excursion....

[maybe-boys-do-love]

People were really whining about this aging work

Look at that subtle make up work! The freckles, the darkening, the highlighting of the under eyes, the few gray strands on the edges! This is beautiful middle-age work! Y’all are just mean.

[batbetbitbotbut]

Need to investigate the flooding situation on my dash lately

[nonglukest]

DARE YOU TO DEATH // EP 3

[mysterygrl20]

so like… where is this scene 👀

because it sure wasn’t in my version of ep 4

[productofaritual]

Love character relationships that can only be described as "whatever the fuck these two have going on"