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so apparently Pinterest showcased Tumblr at a better light than reality. Kinda disappointed tho.

didn't know that getting spat at online would make me kinda scared to post or comment again. feels like everytime I comment, I'm scared that someone's gonna come at me for it again.

you ever start a series then feel responsible for finishing it so much that you can't bring yourself to watch another movie or series unless you finish that one?

#please #i wanna watch movies already #i hadn't finished this series yet but i badly want to already #im alreadey halfway the last one anyway so yay for me!#its The Rookie btw #cop cuties cute and on duty #go ahead and lock me up #arrest me but make it sexy #Nolan is such babygirl

No. You don't get to tell me that if I didn't want this, I could've just said no. You don't get to say that if I really can't do it, I should just say so. You don't get to just fucking announce that I had a choice all this time when YOU'VE been paving the path and putting damn chains around my ankles and wrists and forcing me to take actions that will affect my own future.

I never had a choice into this. I never wanted any of this. I already told you long ago what I wanted and not even a whole week later you told me what you wanted. Now, who am I to object that, RIGHT???

And you compare me to literally everybody and blame all of the people around me. Hah! Hypocritical bitches! Don't you get it??? IT'S YOUR FAULT! Not anyone else's, not social media, not my friends', BUT YOURS! STOP BLAMING OTHERS AND START LOOKING INTO YOURSELVES!

”Why do you get offended whenever we talk about your weight, can't we joke around here? It's just us, come on" WELL DAMN SORRY

"Why don't you take initiative for our hopes and dreams?" I DIDNT EVEN WANT THAT

I need to get out of this place. It's either get out or die, and I may be a bit getting well from my depression, but if I don't get to leave, I'm killing myself.

everyone around me: wow you're so smart; you've gotten thinner; why don't you eat enough; you can do this; you'll definitely pass the exam; I believe in you

parents: that's not enough; why aren't you working harder; you've gained more weight; you keep on eating too much; you're not smart enough for that

#its exhausting

why is it that parents can say whatever the shit they want and expect the kid to just be okay with it? I'm already very much hating on my body, you don't have to comment on it jeez

#dysphoria #tw dysphoria #hate this damn body #i cant wait to get out of here #have my own freedom #why cant i #ugh #annoying #wrong parenting

being aromantic with mutual friends who are in a relationship is hard.

"Y'all wanna hang out?"

"Oh no, sorry, we're going on a date. Just us two. Because we're in a romantic relationship."

Yea, okay. Have fun.

#aro #aromantic pride #aro pride #aromanticism #asexual spectrum #ace #aroace #being aromantic #ugh i hate this fr #my friend took away my best friend smh #now i aint got anyone to hang out with #woohoo

the silence of forcing yourself to begin distancing from your friends because you know that you'll soon leave

Sometimes, we hurt our friends. And even though we apologize many times, that doesn't erase that fact. We still hurt them either way, and it's not our place to choose whether they forgive us or not because the one who got hurt was them, and not us. We may not even know the full amount of pain that they felt in that moment, and that's real.

So just apologize, but don't expect forgiveness.

#so i hurt a friend #i was playfully raising a fist against him as a joke #i didnt know he was traumatized by that action because of his father #we dont really talk about that stuff because well he never days anything #but still #it doesnt erase the fact that i hurt him #whether i knew it or that it was unknowingly #i still did #and i am not going to invalidate that #he explained right after to me that he was uncomfortable with that action of mine #and i apologized #but i suppose it wasnt enough #he wants to distance himself now #and i respect that #we might never return to what we used to be #and i get that #but of course it doesnt mean that im not sad about it #i made a mistake #and i hurt my friend #even i cant forgive myself #i was wrong to think that just because we talk and that we send reels to each other #meant that we were now fine #that was presumptuous of me #i think #it may be best to begin distancing from this one too

The only character worthy enough of calling themselves in the third person is

Humans are extremely lonely.

And I don't mean that in the way we look for romantic or platonic partners or family. I mean by how we look up in the night sky and wonder if there are creatures out there. I mean by how we see animals, plants, or inanimate objects and add humane-like features to them. I mean by how we try to communicate with the unknown spirits or elements, wondering if they're real or alive.

Humans are so, so lonely that we can never be satisfied with just being with our own kind.

#humans #lonely #lonliness #why do we do this #why cant we be satisfied #its sad #really

ifyourelateimsorry

girl I like: *tells me we can hang out that afternoon

me: *is excited

that afternoon: "hey sorry I actually can't"

me that already expected it:

ifyourelateimsorry

update: she messaged me and told me that she found out I had a cousin from my estranged sperm donor's side

girl I like: *tells me we can hang out that afternoon

me: *is excited

that afternoon: "hey sorry I actually can't"

me that already expected it:

well dang bro i mean if you down to hang around sometime just hit me up cuz i too despise staying beneath this roof that is too cold to call a home, but in which i am pressured by society to do so

pray tell

what more is painful

than being the

'introductory friend'

#hey have you met PERSON A #PERSON A this is PERSON B #these are two of my beloved friends and i hope they get along #they get along well #they get along TOO well #oh? they went out without me?#well okay #oh wow all of their stories and posts are together #maybe i should text them to hang out altogether #spoiler alert: they don't want to #cuz they like each other better

going to sleep to finish the day and get to tomorrow quicker. but alas

what even is special about tomorrow?

#i dont know #its like everything is in a loop #i wanna sleep #but for what #to wake up???#why #what's the point #to wake up and then hate myself and then sleep and repeat?#wow #great life

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