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Bratz Wardrobe âĄ
1. Bling and Fur âĄ
The Bratz always had either rhinestones, glitter, Diamondz, or fur somewhere in their outfits. It could be jewelry, shoes, bags, anywhere. These details add a feminine, fashionable, and confident touch to any outfit. I personally love bling in the warmer months and fur in the winter, but there are no rules as long as youâre comfortable. (Baby Phat, PrettyLittleThing, Fashion Nova, Jorden Dime, Dionne by T. Dionne)
2. Textures, Layers, and Prints âĄ
The Bratz ensembles were popular for the use of ruffles, tulle, and mesh. Along with leather, zippers where they werenât necessary and laces. Also prints like animal, or houndstooth were a statement, especially in the early days of Bratz. Try adding a jacket or tights under your shorts or skirt for an extra put together look. (Meshki, PLT, MissPap, I.AM.GIA)
3. Heeled Boots and Sandals âĄ
Name how many times youâve seen Sasha, Yasmin, Jade or Cloe in flats. I can barely remember any. They stayed in a pair of pumps or high heeled boots. Heels were made just for women so these pieces pack an extremely feminine punch to the simplest of outfits. (Aldo, MissLola, Nordstrom, Shein, UGG, Amina Muaddi, Public Desire, YSL)
4. Mini Dresses and Skirts âĄ
Just like heels, skirts were designed for ladies. Try pretty mini skirts or dresses. They donât have to be super short, but show off your legs. Pro tip: your legs and hips look even better when wearing heels, so pair some chunky heels with a skirt you have in your closet. (SHEIN, Nordstrom, PLT)
5. Statement Accessories âĄ
MY FAV PART. Please, donât skip out on accessorizing. Buy some hats, belly chain, big hoops, shades, the whole nine. Add some fun, pretty purses to your closet. Aldo and Ted Baker have affordable pieces of youâre on a budget. Buy clutches also, I have a Fendi one I just got and love. Youâll never see me without a purse and a pair of earrings in my ears, usually hoops. They donât have to be big, but youâll definitely draw eyes. (Tory Burch, LacebyTanaya, D. BleuDazzled, Forever 21, Michael Kors, Jorden Dime, Chanel, Louis Vuitton, Fendi)
6. Halters and Crop Tops âĄ
This is just a staple for early 2000s fashion. I love the way crop tops make my waist look and halter tops tend to give women a very confident, modelesque look in my opinion. (Fashion Nova, Jorden Dime, I.AM.GIA, ROMWE, HONEYBUM, Sorella, Hidden Cult)
7. Flared Pants and Low Rise Jeans âĄ
I have found my love for bell bottoms and flared jeans again recently. Theyâre such a stand out piece. Along with low rise jeans. Very very early 2000s video girl. I love low rise because they highlight your hips. Bratz wore flare nearly whenever they wore jeans. Women who wear these exude trendsetter in my eyes because this is the era of âhigh waist skinnies.â (Fashion Nova, Levi, MissMe, PLT)
Crafting your Sugaring Persona 101
Tell me now, without thinkingâ what is the ideal woman like?
Thereâs almost 8 billion people on the planet right this second and half of them are men. What kind of woman are they looking for? What does she look like? What traits does she have? What personality, clothes, hairstyle, body shape, smile, does she have?
You might have had a general image pop to mind. Maybe some skinny, white Instragram model whoâs always in the hand of wealth and wearing the skimpiest clothes. Maybe the names many of us have idolized over the years.. Megan Fox. Adriana Lima, Anna Kendrik. Whoever, whatever floats your boat for beautyâ or appealed to the men youâve lived your life around.
Iâm here to tell you that youâre wrong. 4 billion men on this planet and every one likes a spoiled princess Kardashian type, white and skinny and bratty? NO!
Listen, every man is attracted to something different. Even men who are into the seeming default idea of beauty for our culture, the âInstragram thicc,â have variations in their taste that differ from the norm. Not to mention the men that PREFER curvy girls, PoC girls, bossy girls, girls with scars or stretch marks or odd nipples or ANYTHING you can think of.
Every man is seeking something different. You, as you are right now, are incredibly desirable and enticing. Whoever you are, you are someoneâs idea of perfection. Right. Now.
Now, the point of this isnât to give yâall a pep talk. This isnât to tell you that you were the Divine Feminine all along. The point is, anyone can sugar. Anyone can be successful in sex work. (And I donât mean anyone COULD; itâd kill 90% of all girls off real quick, letâs be real.) You have the materials: yourself, your body, your story, your tactics. Itâs just cherrypicking what you present to SDâs.
Itâs just about choosing which sides of you to show for the maximum output from them.
But how do you maximize your chances to get the men who are into a girl like you? Someone outside the norm, maybe even non-conventionally beautiful? Or maybe youâre unsure how to get started in sex workâ if youâre this far, you should know well enough that you sure as hell donât sit down with these men as your vanilla self. You are the clay, and you mold yourself into something handmadeâ unique, just for them.Â
This is my guide on an essential portion of sex work: learning to market and adapt yourself to different types of men, as well as how to create a persona that mixes reaching your own goals with the story you have to put on for these men.
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Update: June 3rd, 2019
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Hey Babydolls!
Tonight is my last night at the beach with my S/D Cal. Itâs been an amazing trip, did a lot of shopping today, and spent quite a bit of time at the beach! The new bags, relaxation and daiquiris were much needed! đĽ
After my first initial postings about traveling to see two of my out of state SDs, I received a lot of messages asking for tips/advice on meeting with POT/SDs that require long distance travel arrangements. So while Iâm sitting here on the beach, Iâve decided to compile a list of things I hope offer some answers and insight on the frequent questions Iâve been getting!
BEFORE meeting
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1.) Make sure you REALLY know who youâre traveling to meet.
⢠Know his real name, a photo form of government issued I.D is a great way to confirm this.
⢠FaceTime/ Skype/ Snapchat Vid Call him, or oovoo him. (He can fake his pictures, but not likely a video chat.)
⢠Look him up! Run his name on google, and
a background check platform.
2.) Make sure you guys are on the same page, about EVERYTHING.
⢠The compensation you are receiving
should be clearly stated, EXACT numbers.
⢠Form of compensation should be clear as well. (cash, direct deposit, etc.)
⢠Compensation should always be given up front, make sure he is aware and prepared.
⢠Has sex been discussed in a respectful and mutual manner? Whether you are comfortable, OR NOT, with intimacy should be clear. (Condoms are a standard ladies and gentlemen, for your own health do no risk it. Bringing your own supply ensures an untampered with option at the ready.)
3.) Making Travel/Lodging Arrangements.
⢠Always first request an airline voucher/gift card so you can manage your own travel arrangements.
⢠If the POT insists on taking care of your tickets themself, always call the airport and confirm the legitimacy of the information you are provided.
⢠If the POT offers their private jet, always request to fly commercial first for the initial meeting. Explain you are not comfortable boarding a private aircraft until after becoming acquainted with them. Private planes are much more comfortable and tend to take off quicker however, definitely utilize this option after you are comfortable youâve had a successful meeting.
â˘First meeting trips should only be between 2-3 days.
⢠Request private appropriate lodging. There is no reason to stay in the POTâs personal home/condo/flat. This is a must for your safety, as well as privacy.
⢠Research the hotel your POT suggests. Confirm it is up to your standards, and that its location is in a safe neighborhood.
⢠The hotel room should be in YOUR name. Confirm this by calling the hotel itself, and have them confirm your reservation.
4.) Safety First
⢠ALWAYS tell someone where you are going, when you are going, and with whom you are meeting.
⢠If possible, tell a trusted individual you know in real life all of the above information.
⢠If for privacy and discretion reasons you are unable to alert someone in your real life, ALWAYS alert a sugar sister. We are a loving community of support, and I for one have been blessed with many friendships through the bowl, and Iâm sure many of you have as well. There are so many of us who are more then happy to be a friend and confidant to any sugar babes out there looking for a support team. (Most of my layovers and plane transfers I spend talking/facetiming my sugar babe friends, seriously so amazing to be able to talk to someone who is likeminded and knows what experiences you encounter! This can also really help shake any nerves you may have; by talking it out with someone who understands! đĽ°) My inbox is always open to you babydolls! ((Sometimes messages get burried due to an overload of spam đ))
⢠Upon arrival after your plane lands, request private transportation arrangements that do not include your POT present. Getting into the car alone with him before checking into the hotel and settling in is not ideal or safe. Your first meeting should be public, not in his vehicle. Suggest he sends you an Uber/lyft gift card, or some taxi fare that will cover the full amount of the trip from the airport to your lodging space. This way you can arrange your own arrival to the hotel, allowing yourself time to freshen up, as well as time to get comfortable- And itâs safer!
⢠ALWAYS travel with emergency money on your debit/credit card. Should something go wrong, or change last minute, you need to be able to adapt! Whether that be getting yourself a new hotel room or plane ticket, you should be prepared to take care of yourself if necessary.
5.) Packing Guidance
⢠Discuss what the plans will be for the time you spend down there. Will you be going to the Yacht club? Music theater? Louvre de france? Knowing your plans will help you pack appropriately and efficiently!
⢠Check out the weather forecast for where you are traveling to, plan accordingly.
⢠Pack a few back-up outfits! A zipper can break, a dress can snag, but you can be one step ahead of these fashion disasters.
â˘Review TSA guidelines as to what amounts of liquid and powder can be brought through security. (3.4 ounces) Double check all the cosmetics you are bringing! Thereâs nothing worse then having an agent rummage through your belongings and confiscating a precious product all because itâs size is an issue!
â˘Pack travel size cosmetics you are comfortable with! Traveling to meet a POT is not the time to discover you have an allergy, or just overall unsatisfied in a product you purchased just because it was in the travel size section. Buy travel canisters/containers you can transfer the products youâre already using into instead.
⢠Pepper spray in the the purse is always a nice touch!
⢠Always leave a little space in your luggage for any shopping scores. However, if your shopping was EXTRA successful, donât be afraid to let your POT know you need additional luggage space to be purchased. Also note, often times airlines will charge extra for more baggage to be included, remind him of that fee he needs to take care of as well.
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If your POT has any objections to any of the above, trust your gut and tell him goodbye, sugar daddies are replaceable- you are not. Your safety is key, never compromise yourself during this process for any reason, there is no payout worth your life.
But donât forget to have fun! Breathe! This trip is about meeting a potential man who is going to take care of you the way you deserve to be! Enjoy the journey đ
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The Manifesto,The Mantra and The Prayer Of A Sugar Baby
THE MANIFESTOÂ
The minimum monthly allowance I will accept is $2,000.00
A POT will stay a POT until I receive one full months worth of allowance (and gifts if there are any), at that point he will be my SD.
If a POT asks me about sex, I will tell him that until I am comfortable in a relationship I will have sex on my time. I will not be forced, coerced or pushed.
I will always look my best on a date - makeup, heels, fitted clothing, done nails, smell good, perfect hair. On time - always.
If a guy is willing to actively and frequently discuss sex, I will just as actively and frequently discuss money. Never be afraid to ask for what I want.
If a POT suggests I pick a place to meet I will suggest a restaurant that I know is pricey, based on what he says after Iâve told him where will be a good idea if he can afford me.
I will always post on tumblr, where I will be having a date with a POT (or at least what I am wearing) so I will have some kind of safety net.
I will learn from other Sugar Babies, learn everything and anything involving sugaring - cry with them at their losses and smile with them at their successes.
I will state my opinion but not start wars with the other Babies.
I will respect myself and ultimately do what I want.
I will gain confidence & pay bills.
The Mantra
I am a woman of the highest caliber, and I deserve only the best. I am providing a valuable luxury service to men who do not deserve me and have to earn me by funding me and treating me like the lady I am. No man who would act entitled to my time, my company, or my body deserves it.
THE PRAYER
Our Sugar Gods which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy Name. Thy Sucrose come. Thy will be done on Rodeo Drive, As it On Fifth Avenue. Give us this day our daily allowance. And forgive Not the Salty, As we throw Shade on those that would Wish Salt against us. And lead us not into poverty or Frustration, But deliver us from Splenda. For thine is the Money, The power, and the respect, For ever and ever. Amen
hoe tips: date night prep đ
1. taking a bath before a date will calm your nerves and make your skin super soft! I recommend adding olive oil or coconut oil to your bath along with rose or lavender essential oil. exfoliate EVERYTHING (except your face) with some exfoliating gloves. shave your legs with olive oil (please be careful with all this oil,do not fall and die) If you wanna shave down yonder you can do that too (or not, itâs yo shit.)
2. get out and exfoliate your face in the sink, preferably with a konjac sponge or something else gentle. if youâre going to be putting makeup on I donât think you should do any deep exfoliating right before.
3. do a sheet mask or a clay mask. I recommend the creme shop sheet masks or the aztec healing clay mask.
4.after you do your mask, tone and do the rest of your skincare routine.
5.slather yourself in a thick body butter or some cocoa butter if you wanna smell like chocolate đ put a robe and socks on.Â
6. if you plan on doing makeup, make sure you prime so your makeup stays on. i also heard hard candy makes a good setting spray thatâs only 6 dollars. nyx also makes good setting sprays. also try doing the buffing technique! this will help your makeup stay put and look gorgeous even during any extra curricular activities đ
7. some pretty date night looks: 1Â Â 2Â Â 3Â Â 4Â Â 5Â Â 6Â Â 7Â Â 8Â Â 9Â Â 10
8. Beauty Bakerie makes lipsticks are smudge,transfer and oral sex proof. Theyâre also vegan,cruelty free and black owned.
9. big bombshell curls, waves, silky straight ponytails, flexi rod sets and bantu knot outs are all good hairstyles for a date.
10. before putting on whatever youâre wearing, put a scented/or essential oil (dilute it with a carrier oil if itâs essential) between your thighs. NOT on your genitals. between your thighs. this way, if your partner goes down on you, youâll smell sexy as hell. I recommend jasmine or vanilla.Â
11. apply a little vaseline or vitamin e oil to your pressure points (your inner wrist, inner elbow,behind your ear and behind your knees) before applying your perfume. this will make the scent last longer. do not rub the perfume into your skin after applying, just spray it and let it dry. donât overapply, you donât want to suffocate your partner.
12. make sure you carry your own protection, (condoms/dental dams,etc.) as well as extra panties, đŚ mints/gum, and your phone charger.Â
13. always let somebody know where you are ESPECIALLYÂ if itâs a first date. I cannot say this enough. whether itâs a mom,sister,best friend whatever. just let somebody know where youâre going,who youâre with and what time you plan to be home. for your own safety.
14. whatever youâre wearing, you look good bitch đÂ
Managing Splenda Expectations
While we all dream of one day meeting that mythical SD that can offer us $10k/month with presents and travel and mentorship and support, the truth is there arenât many of those to go around. Theyâre called the 0.1% for a reason.Â
What there are a lot of though, are kind, generous, wonderful potential Sugar Daddies - with limited budgets. These men are genuine about spoiling you, and for a lot of them, they would give more if they could - they are the perfect SD in all but budget. Right now, realistically, $500 or $1000 a month is all they can offer. Now, if that doesnât work for you, it doesnât work for you. Donât push them to spend more than they can afford. That just leads to unhappy SDs piling a bunch of expectations and pressure on you to justify their overspending. But if youâre thinking âHey, yeah, $1000 a month from a man whose company I enjoy is nothing to sneeze atâ - then it just becomes a question of making sure everyone is on the same page with expectations. Where things can go a little wonky is when these men with $1000 budgets want $10k worth of your time. They want to see you several times a week, and text all day, and plan trips with you, and it can be difficult to set limits on that without outright saying âI want $x/hour, and if you have $x spend, you get that many hoursâ - that can be uncomfortable for everyone involved. I ran into this uncomfortable conversation a time or two, and I didnât always handle it well. But after a couple hits and misses, I developed the following short response that adjusted â$1000 for a couple of meetings a month and weekend tripsâ to â1 weekend a month and some picturesâ âIn the same way you have a financial budget to work with, I have a time budget. I have a lot of really ambitious goals that I am working towards, and I need to make sure that Iâm investing my time in ways that best support me. I really enjoy our connection. And itâs important to me that this arrangement be mutually beneficial, and doesnât involve either of us overextending ourselves. I hope you can respect the amount of time I have available the same way I respect the amount of money you can spendâ
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*ďźâżânymphet essentialsââżďź*
1. Acquiring a signature aroma
You want to smell something along the lines of sweet, yummy, like fresh fruit, flowers, candy, anything tasty and light everyday. This set of white strawberry & mint by Olay is like heaven, and a perfect example. It just smells sooo good and sweet and the aroma lasts all day, leaving a trail of strawberry scent wherever you go
2. Warm colors incorporated into your wardrobe
Obviously there are different styles of nymphet,but this is one of those common things you see in all of them. Colors like dusty rose, soft baby pink, sunset colors, pomegranate, a blanket of snow with frozen daisies peeking out of it, cherry blossom petals falling, pinkish beige, warm, light colors during the day, deep colors like warm browns, forest green, olive, mustard yellow, light grey, and burgundy during the night. I listed some outfit collages above, for some inspiration (: (these colors are also common in nymphy makeup!!)
3. Soft, dewy, glowy makeup
Flushed, rosy cheeks, pink, glossy lips, minimal to no eyeliner, super long, curly, lashes, natural, fluffy eyebrows, etc. are some examples for everyday looks! Having a younger looking face is what you should aim for to complete a nymphy look. The first and last makeup looks are adorable for a night out!
4. Improving your life style!
this step is optional and not exclusively nymphet, but it would really help you achieve that baby soft skin and better physique, not to mention all the health benefits and just feeling good in general will really boost your confidence which is key to being nymphy! Having a skincare routine, drinking lots of tea and water, and getting into yoga is great to not only help improve your physical and mental health but it makes a difference in your over all perspective in life and makes you feel like you have your shit together lol
5. Lovely music for moods
Music is such a great way to inspire yourself, listening to some classical, french, 70â˛s, (lots of vintage sounding music), music that makes you think of dates at the beach, or having a picnic in a meadow of flowers, or taking a bubble bath with the view of a forest outside your giant window early in the morning, music that makes you get up and dance around your house in underwear without a care in or of the world, music that makes you appreciate being young and living in the moment and noticing the natural beauties of life <3
thatâs all for my mini masterpost of some nymphy essentials that i personally think anyone who wants to get into this style and just needs some inspiration should learn from! If youâd like me to make more essentials lists about any specific style of nymphet just send me a message!
Hey gorgeous! First of all I just wanna thank you for being SO sweet and supportive and such a good example of true hustle~ I wanted to ask your best tips for shifting the conversation in the direction of a SB/SD relationship with a tinder match? So far I have just been going for successful-looking, well-spoken older men... Will men specify if they want to spoil etc? Thanks so much doll! xo
Alright hereâs my advice on How To Get A Tinder or OKC Daddy:
1. Youâre doing everything right so far. Only swiping the men that look like they have their shit together. 40-60 years old (my preference) that have something semi-ok in their bio especially if itâs their career, and have pictures of them looking like they have money to spend.
2. Good! You have a match. First thing you ask, is where they live. You can always tell if a man has something going on based on the neighborhood or area he lives in. Next, whatâs his job? This is so important because even though the job sounds nice, doesnât mean heâs making money. So you need to get specifics, and RESEARCH. For example, he says heâs a doctor. Awesome! Now what kind of doctor? Orthopedic surgeon? Cool. Alright so is he working in a private practice or hospital? HospitalâŚ.because heâs on his second year as a resident. SNIP SNIP. Orthopedic residents or even any resident for that matter, only make up to $60,000 a year. Whatâs he gunna buy you? A happy meal and some sketchers? This goes for ANY career. Lawyer, accountantâŚnot all of them make the big bucks, or havenât gotten to that point yet.Â
3. YAS BOO you found out he got monayyy. Now hereâs your first mistake. Never bring up a sugar baby relationship especially when you havenât met him. I know you donât want to waste your time but sometimes these things do require time. Chat with him a little, see what his personality is like, what he likes to do for fun. Now mock literally everything. Put yourself in his shoes, like the same things he likes, but in a fun a sexy way. Not a smart and boring way. Men, even people in general, find themselves most attracted to others who share their same interests, and are exactly like them. Duh. Especially if the guy is married or came out of a relationship with an old, boring, too proper woman. He swiped right on you because he was intrigued. Not only because youâre hot as fuck, but because he needs some fun and carefree from a cute, witty, 20 year old. So what do you do next? FIRST DATE.
4. So for the first date, make it dinner. Heâll probably get a gin and tonic, youâll probably where a delicious ass dress, and he wont be able to keep his eyes off you. For the location, let him choose. He asks where you wanna go? Say âHow about you pick, something good!â Now not only do you get to see whether or not heâs a splenda or if he has good taste, but this is where you put him in charge. Make him believe that heâs the one that makes the decisions. Men fucking love this. Now when you get to the restaurant, donât stop making eye contact. Donât be creepy but look into his fucking soul. Men also love this shit.
5. So your date is over. Your manipulation started as soon as you figured out he had money but here is when it comes into play. Youâre about to part ways and he had a great time, obviously. Now youâre going to kiss him. Not a peck I mean an actual hot as fuck no tongue, bottom lick sucking kiss. Just once though. Youâre going to pull away slowing, thank him for the meal and leave. HAHAH yeah bitch ya did that! Heâs hard as fuck right now and heâs going to text you as soon as he gets home. You tell him you canât wait see him again, yatta yatta.Â
6. Now the next day, heâs gunna call or text you. Youâre busy. Even if youâre just sitting your ass on your couch eating ramen, youâre busy. He gets a limited supply. Men want what they donât or canât have. Make him want you. Heâs going to ask when he can see you again. Now he had his time to be a man the last date, and he still thinking heâs the man. This is your time to show that everything is by your rules now. You tell him youâre busy the next few days but maybe you can squeeze him in for dinner. Now you pick the place. Elegant and expensive so he knows your taste. Lmao I just rhymed, thatâs how you know this shit is gunna work. He complains about it being too expensive? SNIP SNIP.
7. So now during your second date, your order something expensive as hell and he pays for the bill with a smile on his face. You are about to part ways, but this time you kiss him, with tongue, and you arouse him a little. Not too long though, I would say 2 minutes or less. Then you do the same thing you did last time, leave. Let him understand that intimicy is a reward. He needs to earn it. He paid for that $300 bill with a smile? He earned that damn kiss. Now this man is infatuated as hell. He wants more. You have him in your hands. You have the power. The pussy is the power. He calls you the next day, but youâre busy, duh. Call him at night. When heâs off work, relaxed, and he has some down time. Mention the kiss, tell him it was amazing. Tell him you canât wait to see him again. Eventually heâll start getting hard by the sound of your voice. This is what you want.
8. The next date? Do something different, something besides dinner. Let me just clarify that you are not going to sleep with this man. Even if you want to, donât. Not until you get what you want from him, whether thatâs him agreeing to a sugar baby relationship or a new celine bag. After the third date is when you know you have him. Meet casually after this, tell him you want to go out to lunch or ask him to meet you during your lunch break at work. Give him some kind of sob story. Make sure youâre somewhere private. Tell him you had a bad break up, recently got out of an abusive relationship. Whatever is true, just dramaticize it and stretch it out a little. Let him know youâre so attracted to him but you donât want to move to fast because youâre afraid of getting hurt again. Now a couple days after this conversation, IS WHEN YOU STRIKE. Tell him you want to be taken care of. Not because you canât take care of yourself, but you want to be treated the way you deserve to be treated.
9. Heâll agree to a sugar baby relationship. If he doesnât Iâm really fucking sorry lol.
NOTE: I literally just summarized a couple chapters of HO TACTICS and mixed in a couple chapters of The Art of Seduction. If you want to really get into detail, read the books! If ya donât wanna buy them Iâll be happy to send them your way via email if you private message me. This is honestly should work, especially for an old man with money. Like why shouldnât it?
Sugar Baby Guide w/ 200+ tips!
So I recently ran into a sugar âmaster postâ on here but noticed a lot of the links were broken. Since there are so many aspiring sugar babies with a ton of questions I thought Iâd make a new one! Here it is: a very long compilation of my favorite tips and tricks from sugar babies all over tumblr. Enjoy! Xoxo
Safety
Deleting yourself from the internet
Sending pictures via google voice textingÂ
Square cash warningÂ
Amazon gifts safety
COP or POT?
Tips to remaining safe as a sugar baby
Phone safety
What information should you give your SD?
Verify him
Safety links for sugar babies
All about screening
How SDâs can track where you live
The Miranda warning
Internet safety tips
Receiving packages
Staying safe as a sugar baby
Sugar baby safetyÂ
Sugar baby safety tip
Sugar baby safety & catfishing
Free background check website
Is he the real deal?
Tricking him to keep your privacy
Keeping your privacy
Very important hoe safety tip
Free-styling
Free-stying guide
Eye-contact
Turning vanilla to sugar
How to approach men while free styling
Free-styling and where to meet sugar daddies
Where to freestyle
All about free-styling
Free-styling and how to trigger a mans generosity from the start
Free-styling tips
Top three places to freestyle
Free-styling & staff
What NOT to ask him
Meeting SDâs online
Craigslist title tip
Ashley Madison
Sugar dating and craigslist
List of sugar dating sites
Sugaring using tinder
Tindering tip
How to tinder
Craigslist masterpost
Craigslist sugar
Writing/writing back to messages
The perfect message
How to message men on sugar sites
Sugaring: Tinder and OkCupid
Perfecting your message
More messaging advice
Sugar sites to check out
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Strategies to try on your POT/SD
1) Benefactor-Before-Beggar
SDs are used to being treated as the benefactor, but I think many of them fear giving and giving and getting nothing in return. Although they are rich and a few thousand dollars may mean nothing to them, it still hurts to get duped. My SD and POTs tell me about their many experiences with girls who deceive them for a monthâs allowance and never hear from them again.Â
Shit, if I was a millionaire⌠I would feel pretty dumb and put my guard up the next time around. No one wants to feel like a fool. Thatâs why the benefactor-before-beggar strategy works in my experience. Give them something, and then wait for them to give something back. Human beings have a unique trait of not wanting to owe anyone anything. This is the rule of reciprocity. Give them something to owe. This does not mean sleep with them. I do something small. I will bake some cookies or buy a few candies and package them with a cute ribbon. Even a little card would suffice. Write something like, âHopefully this is the start of something exciting!âÂ
2) Concessions
This is a great way to get the allowance you want and more. Iâm sure youâve seen to double the allowance he offers you, and then meet in the middle. Do you know why this works? By doubling the allowance and agreeing to meet in the middle, it seems like you are willing to make a concession. If someone makes a concession, it is only polite for the other party to make a concession as well.Â
Think of it like this⌠Youâre asked to donate $100 to a charity. You donât have the means to do that⌠so you say no. The person then asks you to make a donation of $10. Ten dollars seems awfully small to $100 right? What if a person asked you to donate $10 upfront without asking for $100 first? You wouldnât right?
Similarly, if you ask for a large allowance⌠and then follow it with a smaller allowance, it makes the allowance you want seem more doable. âI was thinking more $6,000, but I am willing to meet you in the middle and do $5,000.â He feels as if he is saving $1,000.
3) Attraction
This seems pretty âduh.â People are more likely to do things for people that they like. Did you know that how well someone likes you is twice as likely to determine a purchase than liking the product itself?
Get your SD to like you as a person, not a product.Â
Be attractive to him! Make sure you are always well groomed, smell good and act with class. Attractive people are better liked and more frequently helped.Â
4) Similarity
People like people who are similar to them. If you have the means to do so, stalk your POT/SD and learn everything about them. Listen to what he tells you. If heâs a lawyer, read up about some things relating to law. If heâs in finance, read some current stories relating to the economy. If he likes sports, study some of his favorite teams. You can subtly manipulate him into liking you by imitating his interests and background.
I researched everything I could about my POT. I watched video interviews of him, read articles about him and studied his past and current companies. That way, if/when he wants to talk about his accomplishments/work, I can properly compliment him and hold a decent conversation about it.
5) FlatteryÂ
Men love to be flattered. Your SD probably never hears that he is attractive or handsome. So tell him. People love to believe compliments even when they know it is false.
Imagine it this way. You are having a fantastically crappy day. Your hair is a mess, your eyeliner is smearing, you failed your exam⌠and someone comes along and tells you that you look great. Even though you know it isnât true, it still serves to make you feel better.
Of course, do not overdo this. Make your compliments as genuine as possible. If he isnât handsome, but he has a way with words, you can say, âI really love the way you talk. Itâs so eloquent.â If he dresses well, âI love the way you dress. That suit looks great on you, and I canât keep my eyes off of you.â Other ones to try are, âYou have great taste in food. You always bring me to the best restaurantsâ or âYou are so cultured and sophisticated. I find that really attractive in a man.â
Flattery helps him believe in his fantasy that a younger woman is truly into him⌠maybe not only for his money.
6) Appearance
The kind of clothes you wear is a big indicator of your status and power. An SD who claims to be a CEO of a multimillion-dollar company that shows up to dinner in a t-shirt and ill-fitting jeans from Sears probably wonât be very believable. An SB who claims to have experience with SDs who have spoiled her and shows up to dinner in a t-shirt and ill-fitting jeans wonât be very believable either.
Now imagine your POT comes to dinner in a well-tailored suit, an expensive watch and styled hair. See the difference? Expensive looking clothes are closely associated with wealth, power, status and authority. Try to invest in well-made clothing. If you are just starting out and cannot afford it, donât worry. It doesnât have to cost $500 to look good. Sometimes a $30 shirt can look just as great, if not better. Always look at the material and stitching of the item.Â
7) Rarity
Why would an SD give YOU $5,000 allowance when someone just like you, if not better, will take $1,000?
Make yourself seem rare and unique. Objects appear to be more valuable to us when they are scarce. When you go to the store, and there is only one handbag left⌠you are more likely to buy it than if there were 100 handbags left. I never let my POTs know how free I am. I pretend to have multiple jobs and little time. This makes them value the time they share with you more. People are more motivated by the thought of losing something than the thought of gaining it. Make him feel like he is missing out on spending time with you.
For example, a POT wants to meet. I always say, âWell, I will be free at xxx until xxx. I have to run to work after.â He is more likely to take this opportunity to meet me than if I said, âI am free all week.â This also gives you an out. If the date isnât going well, you have an excuse to escape.
If something interferes with what we want, we respond by wanting it more than ever. When something becomes unavailable, it suddenly becomes more valuable.
** These are tips I learned from The Psychology of Persuasion**Â
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Sugaring 101: Upping your bedroom game with some sensuality and simple escort tricks.
*** Warning: Only try this with the sugardaddies you actually like and feel some attachment too. And definitely trust ***
Please heed the warning or you will crash and burn if you attempt the following.
PREPARE YOUR MEETING PLACE: If youâre regularly meeting at a hotel room, get daddy to get you a prepaid card so that you can go ahead and rent the room ahead of your visit. This will save him the trouble of doing it and allow you a chance to control your interaction. A lot of escorts do this for that very same reason: control. Â For him, the businessman or exec whoâs dealing with all kinds of shit this takes some pressure off him. What you have to understand about a successful man is that heâs always under pressure. Heâs getting beat to shit daily from work, life, and home and heâs probably middle-aged meaning half of daddyâs life is already gone. Daunting. You need to be the calming voice in his life. When he gets there, of course be in your best lingerie, smelling good, etc, with the sheets pulled back on the bed. Or, answer the door naked, in a pair of red bottoms, etc. Or, ask to keep one of his ties for a souvenir on a previous date and when your next visit at the room arrived, have it on and nothing else.
If you host your visits at your residence, then ask daddy what kind of snack he likes. Fruit? Have some strawberries or grapes waiting for him when he comes over. He likes wine, etc.,? Have a glass poured. You can enjoy glass too. Its ok. If you have a problem drinking with daddy, refer to my warning above. :)
RELAX HIM: Give daddy a massage. Not an hour, just 10 minutes to break him down. This is a good time to ask for shit. If he has dry skin, bring some oil in your purse. First rub his back, making sure youâre getting in between those shoulder blades, etc. Skip the legs, lower torso etc. Unnecessary. Heâs tense from meetings and conference calls all day. Turn him over and rub him briefly on his chest before you work your way down to his love zone. Rub his dick and donât forget the boys. When heâs nice hard, start fellatio (if you do fellatio). Â If he doesnât want a massage or doesnât have time thatâs cool. You need to put it out there anyway.Â
Time taken: 7 - 10 minutes
LAY YOUR HEAD ON HIS CHEST: After sex, cuddle up next to him and lay your head on his chest. If he has little or no hair this will be easy. If heâs a hairy bastard you might find another place to lay your head but the goal is to cuddle him. Use the hair to your advantage and play with it as you lie there. Twist it in your fingers or some shit. Make him feel like he just pleased you in every way possible. He probably didnât, but itâs all about the fantasy. This is easy to do if you like him. Refer to my warning above! Say something meaningful like, âThat was good daddy.â Â If you have psychological hang-ups about calling him daddy then say âThat was good baby..â Â or âMmmm I needed that.â All too often chicks are just lying there side by side with him in her own world. You can remain in your own world just do it cuddling him. This is also a good habit to have when you get married. :)Â
Time taken: Not applicable
CLEAN HIM UP: Grab a warm damp warm towel, and remove the condom. Wipe up his penis and go put the condom in the toilet. If no condom was used, you can still clean him up if his penis is about stick to his leg. If  heâs caught off your guard, or ask what youâre doing, tell him âIâm just taking care of you daddyâŚâ I got this one from several Escorts Iâve seen over the years. Trust me. You want some brownie points? Try it a few times. You can even be cute about it and say, âGosh, you had a lot in there.â Or my FAVORITE ââŚ.I see youâve been saving up for me. You had a lot!â The latter is perfect for you babies seeing daddy once a week. When youâre done cleaning him up, lay back on him. This is also another good time to ask for shit.Â
Time taken: 30 - 45 seconds
TASTE IT: Now I might lose a few of you here but itâs my duty to put it out there anyway. Â While you cleaning him up, put a forefinger in your mouth and say, âMmm you taste good.â He might pass the hell out. If youâre good at this he wonât know you donât actually have some cum on your finger. Hopefully, some of you catch what I mean on the latter. :) Or, if you swallow anyway then nothing is wrong with a little protein on your finger and tasting it.
Time taken: Â 2 seconds
PUT HIS SHIRT ON: If youâre going to be in the hotel room awhile, try this one out. This will kill him. If he wears good smelling cologne capitalize on it. With the shirt on, pull the collar up to your nose and say, âMmm I love your smell daddyâŚâ You wonât be lying if he wears good cologne. Chances are you already noticed his cologne but you were too much of a bitch to say you smell good. This is the sexiest shit EVER though. Nothing cuter than your 110, 120, 150 lbs ass in his big ass shirt. One of my previous sugarbabies used to do this. Drove me crazy.
Oh and congratulations!!!! Now heâs going to be thinking about you the rest of the day. Youâve inadvertently left your perfume on his shirt. Now heâs gonna be smelling your pretty little ass the rest of the day. Just donât leave any lipstick!
Take a selfie with the shirt on. Send it to him days later in between your visits.
Time taken: 10 seconds to put on his shirt. Time elapsed before he wants to take it back off and fuck again: 60 seconds. Likelihood of you getting that Celine purse: High.
HELP HIM GET DRESSED: This one is especially important for the busy executive, businessman or man that works in a professional setting and heâs on his lunch break, or on his way home to his vanilla life. No, donât help him pull his trousers up. But you can help with the belt as you kiss him on the chest. Iâm saying as he buttons his shirt, go help him. Help him button the ones on his sleeves as well. And most important help put his tie back on and straighten it and his collar afterwards. Then finish it with a kiss. If you donât get a chance to do all that, then collect his shoes and socks and bring them to him. Donâtâ try and put those on - thatâs just corny. Youâll love his reaction I promise.
Time taken: 30 â 45 seconds
CUDDLE HIM: Recently, I learned something about myself. I read somewhere that one of the reasons why I cheat is because I as a man want to be cuddled and held. I thought this was bullshit but itâs quite true.  I know this is contrary to all the SD advice youâve been getting but take it from a long standing member of the sugar community its true. Iâll explain this one better by giving a real life example. Now when I would first come over, Nebraska and I would sit on her bed and talk and sheâd find some way to wrap her legs around and hug me like I was her long lost boyfriend. I was going through some things and it felt good for somebody in this world to seemingly take an interest in my plight. Then, sheâd just sit there and stare at me like I was a big piece of steak. Staring at my mouth. When Iâd talk too long sheâd start taking off my clothes. While she was getting me undressed, she was always say one of these 3 things:  â I know you didnâtâ come here to do all that talkingâŚâ or âYou just gonna talk?â or my favorite âOr we gonna fuck or not daddy?â One day, after sex I was sitting on the bed and she climbed on the bed, sat down behind me so that I was in between her legs. As I was talking so she kissed me gingerly on my back and also laid her head on my back as we talked.  This shit made me feel like a king. When Nebraska and I ended our arrangement she said, âWell I was actually genuinely interested in youâŚâ This is why I mentioned only try these techniques when you have some type of genuine attraction to daddy. Its easier to do and you wonât be faking which will speak volumes.
Time taken: none. You were going to be doing all this talking anyway, just on one side of the bed or side by side as you sat on the bed. The difference here is youâre cuddling him while you do it. Â
Now, Iâm about to drop half of you right here.
LET HIM CUM TWICE: Youâre laying there in his arms, listening to his bullshit. Reach down and play with his love while heâs talking. After a moment ask, âYou got another round in you daddy?â Regardless of his answer, go down and start blowing him again. It should be cleaned if you followed my advice earlier â clean him up. Anyway, if he said no, heâll appreciate your dedication and let you try and revive him before he stops you. If he says yes, then its self explanatory. Â Relax though. Your middle-aged daddy most likely wonât have a second round in him anyway. This METHOD is extremely effective with the sugarbabies that only see their daddy once a week. Â But, for other arrangements its works quite well too. Â
A lot of chicks are jumping up, cleaning up and rushing out the door, saying how you have so much to do today. Nothing kills a relationship like feeling like youâre being used (even though you actually are!). But remember, you want him around awhile. This is definitely a powerful tool to make that happen. Sends a clear signal that youâre all about pleasing him. (I hope the latter doesnât get me in trouble). Trust me. An extra several minutes is cheap time to spend if you knew youâd be getting another 4 - 6 months out of daddy.
Time taken: 5 â 7 minutes
FINISHING TOUCHES: Put the finishing touches on it. When youâve helped him finish getting dressed, and you know heâs on his way back to work or back to business, when he heads out the door say something encouraging like, âGo getâem baby.â Or if he told you about some crap going on at work, take the opp to regurgitate it. âFuck Bob. Heâs an asshole. You should have got the promotion.â blah blah. You get the point. The latter can be applied even as you both do a last kiss before you head out the door. Again, itâs all about the finishing touches.
Time taken: 2 seconds
I know some of you are saying, âI ainât doing all that shit.â But remember you are selling a fantasy. Youâre giving the most precious part of your body away. Only to have your average sugardaddy relationship end in 2 to 3 months? All because heâs had his fill of your kitty. I assure you incorporating these techniques into your visits with daddy will go a long way and add months onto your relationship. This will help keep him coming back for more and more. Another way to put it, why not hook daddy for several months or even a few years and milk him dry (no pun intended) with just a few extra things?
I put the time on the end of these sections to show how long these little techniques actually take. Like I always say just a little extra goes a LONG way. These simple yet EXTREMELY effective techniques WILL prolong your sugar relationship. So why not incorporate them into your experience? I GUARANTEE daddy will respond to this stuff. I know because Iâve had it all done to me before and it blew me away then and it blows me away now as I type!
Damn Iâm horny now. And my visit with sugarbaby isnât for a few days.
Time to close the office door and get in a little pornhub and redtube.
I reblog this every time I see it on my TL. Iâm going to use some of these with Third this weekend đđ
Date these SDs
Iâve never done ppm. Iâve never done âx allowance for y meets per monthâ. I wouldnât do them now. If you really want a guys financial attention long term, make them care about you. Let them take care of you. Donât let them know theyâre paying for it. It doesnât matter if he told you he loved you, thatâs lust. Once it gets too expensive or the new shiny bauble comes by, youâre history.
If you want that to last, you need to make yourself indispensable to these men. You need them to think that youâre a one and only. You also need them to forget theyâre paying you. Most men will quickly grow tired of their wallets being the only way to get his attention. Yes by then you might have gotten a lot of cash out of him, but think about how much more you could have gotten.
Iâm not saying be clingy, iâm not saying be lovey dovey, iâm saying be special. become an integral part of their life, so those bank transfers feel normal, like paying bills, not like paying this girl to be nice to me. Donât do nice things because they buy you stuff or give you cash. You might think thatâs counter-intuitive but consider it. (Most of) These men arenât stupid. they can tell that you only stay over when you get offered a gift. They can tell that you only responded to them when they said theyâd send you a gift card. They can tell you only care about the money. And, unless heâs a financial submissive, heâs gonna drop a girl after a while if all she values in him is his cash.
Thatâs why I encourage you girls to get off these sugar sites. Iâm not saying you canât make money off them, iâm just saying the payoff to how much work you have to do is low. most SRs these days are just long term escort client relationships. Donât be afraid to break the mold and actually date these dudes. You get so much more money when you actually mean something to them and arenât just another piece of ass they have to pay for.
Dating these dudes is why I retired, its why Iâm starting multiple businesses, itâs why I can comfortable stop working completely and not have my bank account go low. Spoiled GF gets you the most buck for your bang.Â
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Excuses Men Give for Not Wanting to Give
From the book: Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know If You Want to be A Sugar Baby by Leidra LawsonÂ
Praying that $1500 randomly comes to you when you need it the most this year.
I got a check for $1697 a week after I reblogged this. The fuq.
OMG thatâs fucking amazing! đ