you stay for a second chance ☆ @illyanapoleon - Tumblr Blog

GOTHAM GIRLS

Batwoman being gay in Batman: Bad Blood

-Think about this, Kate. Think about what you stand to lose. You’re at the top of your class. You’re the brigade XO. Do you really want to risk separation? Do you really want to risk a discharge? -Sir, all I’ve ever wanted since my mother and sister were murdered is to serve. -Then it seems to me your choice is clear. You know what I need you to say. -A cadet shall not lie, cheat or steal, nor suffer others to do so. I’m sorry, sir, I can’t.

#kate kane #dcau

jinxnvi

Stephanie Brown in Red Robin

#stephanie brown

gay-about-space

Your Stormtrooper Identification Code

1) The first non-vowel letter of your last name 2) The last non-vowel letter of your last name 3) Your age 4) The number of siblings you have 5) The number of pets you have

Tag yourself I’m FR-1701

↳ Batwoman in DC Bombshells #29

#kate kane #bombshells

hawkmans

Bombshells #23

Written by Marguerite Bennett Art by Sandy Jarrell &Kelly Fitzpatrick

#kara zor el #bombshells

terushimasyuuji

DC Challenge 52 ♔ [5/52] dream team (imagined) ⇢ Future Teen Titans

#dc comics

jonostarsmcre-deactivated202002

fucking jason todd everybody

#jason todd

mohtz

rey, finn, poe and bb8

#star wars #swtfa

brryallens-deactivated20161004

DC CHALLENGE 52: WEEK FIVE

Dream team An all female team “Who run the world? Girls!”

#dc ladies

rationalisms

listen, there is absolutely nothing that gets me going like mutual seemingly unrequited pining like? i live for both people losing their minds over the other person in bitter silence. savoring every single accidental brush of their fingers, elbows, thighs, every stray glance, memorizing every gesture or expression they catch while the other isn’t looking, all while being absolutely convinced that it’s one-sided only to finally!! finally find out it wasn’t in a triumphant moment of bliss after years and years of delicious, soul-rending, torturous, heart-wrenching pining. i literally don’t care about the fact that this trope is predictable af and always plays out the same way i will still go wild over it every single time like they’ll be doing the same reveal scene i have seen a million times and i’m still on the edge of my seat gasping “are they gonna kiss???”

#au meme #text

roane72

The thing about Tumblr that probably makes me saddest is the underlying assumption that women past a certain age (which seems to be about 25?) stop having any sort of outside interests beyond family/career/kids. Like, y’all are always so shocked that grown women have lives and can fangirl as hard as we did as teenagers.

It makes me sad not because it makes me feel old (although it does), but because these younger women are constricting their own lives–they fully expect that this will happen to them someday. Y’all deserve better. Y’all deserve to EXPECT better.

esterbrook

And worse than that, the idea that there’s something WRONG with a grown woman who has other interests.

roane72

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

goatatemynametag

One of the biggest things I realized growing up?

It doesn’t happen.

You expect somehow you will change when you are finally An Adult ™. You’ll stop enjoying the things you enjoy now for something more “adult” or “mature”. You’ll FEEL like an adult and not like a child anymore. You’ll feel comfortable and secure and not scared and unsure and confused. You expect you will feel like you have your shit together.

But I can tell you that it doesn’t happen. You’ll still feel like the “you” you were at 15 or 17 or 19.

You just have these…things to deal with. Like rent. And insurance.

You have a job either because a) you like it or b) it keeps the lights and internet on.

You’ll look up from fangirling one day and realize ‘shit. I am twenty eight years old. That’s almost 30!’. Or maybe it will be that you look down at the small child clasped around your legs and realize ‘that is my child. I have a child. A human being child.’ Or maybe it will be that you have to negotiate your budget around con tickets AND a mortgage payment.

Growing up isn’t a thing that happens.

It’s a realization that it doesn’t happen.

roane72

Holy shit, y’all. There are some AMAZING responses to this post. Yes, everything alwayshometomarvel says. All that.

eclecticmuses

Feeling like I wasn’t ‘adult’ enough fucked me up for years. I would cry at night and feel like a total piece of shit because I was married with a kid, and yet I still did ‘not adult’ things–I played MMOs, I cosplayed and went to conventions, I drew fan art and wrote fan fic. I kept waiting for the day that I would wake up and realize that what I really needed to be doing was the laundry, cleaning the house, making dinner every night, etc. Basically, be the ‘perfect’ wife and mother.

And somewhere between then and now, I somehow managed to tell myself…fuck it. I AM an adult. I go to work every day and pay the bills and help raise my son and take care of the house. I do legit adult things. AND I play MMOs, go to conventions, and participate in fandom. And THAT’S OKAY. I’m 32 years old now and finally at peace with that part of myself. (Having a supportive husband and kid doesn’t hurt either!)

tariqk

@malaysianfeminist

madamethursday

All of this is such truth. Believing these things about growing up, and especially about being over 25? Really made it hard for me when I turned 30.

I was literally suicidal on my 30th birthday. I spent the whole day in tears. I felt like I had died and my life was now worthless and small and never going to be hopeful or full of promise or fun again. I felt like killing myself on my birthday because I bought into this lie that somewhere after your mid-twenties, you diminish as a woman because the only thing that made you alive and shiny was your youth.

I’m 31 one and I’m done with that shit. I’m over it. I don’t care if you think I’m too old for something. If I’m an old lady in tumblr terms, then I’m past the legal age where I’m obligated to care what you think.

So, I’m telling you girls out there right now who are in your teens and twenties, get rid of this idea of what older women are “supposed” to look like. Get rid of this idea that “soccer moms” don’t play video games or that all women over 25 should be married and contemplating kids. Get rid of the idea that fanfic and fandom and fun things are for “kids”.

Mostly, get rid of this notion that the only thing really valuable about you is your youth. Youth is part of life, but it’s not the most valuable or beautiful or exciting time of your life. I like my life at 30 about 1000% than I did at 15, 18, 20, even 25.

roane72

I’m glad you’re still here.