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"why would you WANT to be called it/its" why does anyone want to do anything. stop thinking so hard just live

I could rant about my reasons why but I don't even know how many would listen, have seen posts on here before that summarize it perfectly though imo at least personally "oh but it/its users don't use that in a dehumanizing way!" some of us do! that's part of the whole reason I like it! one of my fav quotes from somewhere on here ties into this really well, this is the post and the quote was "Being seen as something nonhuman does not immediately equal lesser" and that just hits hard tbh. oh, and this is the other post I was thinking of that matches my reasons for using it/its I wanna ramble more but I'll leave it at that. in the end, every it/its user uses it for different reasons tho, and that's okay

Edit 15/02/2025: just discovered the second post linked originally as well as the poster of it appears to not exist anymore, and neither can I remember at all what it said, so that sucks :(

#lgbtqia #queer #pronouns #nonbinary #genderqueer #nonhuman #otherkin #therian #it its #it/its #gnc #gender nonconforming #ramblings

alex-the-alterhuman

Alex's fictionkin ask game!

(mostly for fictional characters)

🌲 - what is your fictotype?

🪲 - do you miss your home? Or maybe you're happy that you're here?

🐸 - do you have any sourcemates? If yes, who/what are they?

🌳 - in scale 1-10, how are you similar to your canon?

🌿 - does your fictotype have a different sex/gender identity than your body/you?

☘️ - what aspect of life does your identity affect the most?

🪴 - is your fictionkin experience unpleasant or enjoyable for you?

🍃 - what reminds you of your fictotype? (E.g.: a figurine, a doll, a tv series)

🌄 - on what level is your identity? (E.g. spiritual, psychological, psychical)

🐢 - do you experience shifts? Of yes, how do they look like?

🥝 - what is your source?

🐛 - how do you feel about fanarts of you and fanfictions?

🌵 - do you look exactly like in your source or do you look different? If you do, then what is different?

🥀 - what do you think about ships with you?

🦕 - do you have/had a loved one in your source?

♪♪♪

So, yeah, that's all! :D

Reblog this, so the others can ask you questions or answer them all right now, if you want to :>

the-real-tim-drake

gonna be doing this for this particular blog, might do it for the other fictionkins I've got later but for now only gonna focus on the one this blog is about. send in some asks of these to me if you see! ask box is “Red Robin, report.”, feel free to ask with some kind of theme to how you do it if you want to make this even more fun

the-real-tim-drake

sighs I'm tired of not getting anything in inbox, I'm gonna answer some of these on my own and hope that sparks people to ask about the others maybe. won't do all of them for now cuz I still want this to get me interaction on here in the inbox. I'll leave the ones I don't answer here and maybe edit them if I get asked them. They'll be in bold. Please send me asks, preferably link back to this for the sake of my poor memory but not forced to do that part, just mention it's for the ask game. I think I've left most of them unanswered so you have options.

🌲 - Q: what is your fictotype? A: Tim Drake, there's others of course but that's the one this blog is focused on and for/about etc

🪲 - Q: do you miss your home? Or maybe you're happy that you're here? A: I do miss Gotham sometimes, and sometimes I'm not happy I am where I am, but it really just depends for that one

🐸 - Q: do you have any sourcemates? If yes, who/what are they? A: answered here

🌳 - Q: in scale 1-10, how are you similar to your canon? A: answered here

🌿 - Q: does your fictotype have a different sex/gender identity than your body/you? A: (send an inbox ask)

☘️ - Q: what aspect of life does your identity affect the most? A: answered here

🪴 - Q: is your fictionkin experience unpleasant or enjoyable for you? A: answered here

🍃 - Q: what reminds you of your fictotype? (E.g.: a figurine, a doll, a tv series) A: answered here

🌄 - Q: on what level is your identity? (E.g. spiritual, psychological, psychical) A: I think generally most of my alterhuman identities are psychological and physical, not sure about anything else, but the general rule of thumb applies to this one too. could be other ways I'm unaware of due to lack of research and looking into it

🐢 - Q: do you experience shifts? Of yes, how do they look like? A: answered here

🥝 - Q: what is your source? A: like, where I come from? DC I guess, idk if that's what this means

🐛 - Q: how do you feel about fanarts of you and fanfictions? A: answered here

🌵 - Q: do you look exactly like in your source or do you look different? If you do, then what is different? A: answered here

🥀 - Q: what do you think about ships with you? A: (send an inbox ask)

🦕 - Q: do you have/had a loved one in your source? A: (send an inbox ask)

apexhaven

Freak On A Leash

Ehe. I've um been expanding my writing knowledge. Tim is as always an adult in this and it's technically still self insert fic I just gave up tagging it as such cuz I just am Tim he is me. Very obviously this specific post under 18s do not read this, but otherwise you're all good for most of my blog. Putting the share below cut for this one so this is your official scroll away if you don't want to hear about explicit smut fic

spellinwaiting

not many people know this but when talking about your multiple pronoun-using friend you build up a combo meter for every subsequent unique pronoun you use

cannibal-rainbow

Not shaving and not wearing make up are literally nonbehaviors. They’re a complete lack of action. But doing nothing is considered masculine because women are not allowed to just be. this goes double for trans women.

cannibal-rainbow

reblog this version because transmisogynists don’t know how to fuck off.

1aurel

hey i don’t see much positivity for intersex people around so please know that if ur intersex ily a lot ok have a great day <3

aaronisntreal

Aughh......fat men... bears.......uhhhhhhhghgb

bebsi-cola

actually pigs shouldn't be at pride even outside of uniform. fuck those guys

bebsi-cola

if you decide to become a police officer then that outweighs any other marginalised identity you can rustle up like. not sorry, who asked you to willingly become a pig

pekkhum

I have heard of black people warning their kids that the race of a police officer is cop and you should not expect solidarity from them. The same applies to other types of minorities.

The sexuality of a police officer is cop.

The gender of a police officer is cop.

When you become the enforcer and protector of capital, you are making the deal to be slightly favored by the system over others like you, in exchange for being its servant. Your solidarity is with the system that you serve, even if it hates you.

If you want solidarity with those the system hates, you cannot be the system's servant and defender.

angrylittlesliceofpizza

similarly, the social class of a police officer is cop.

cantiowashere

"Love and sex are instinctual needs all humans experience—"

Silence.

apexhaven

Freak On A Leash

Ehe. I've um been expanding my writing knowledge. Tim is as always an adult in this and it's technically still self insert fic I just gave up tagging it as such cuz I just am Tim he is me. Very obviously this specific post under 18s do not read this, but otherwise you're all good for most of my blog. Putting the share below cut for this one so this is your official scroll away if you don't want to hear about explicit smut fic

fiirstloves

random set of questions \\ self ship ask game!

🩷~ what's your favorite activity that your f/o does just for you, even if it's not their favorite in the world?

🌸~ do you and your f/o like to wear matching couple outfits? or do the two of you prefer wearing your own style when going out?

🍧~ what type of music do you pick to play on road trips? who's grabbing the aux cord the second they jump into the car?

🍓~ can you and your f/o swim? explain what you do at the beach together depending on what you can and can't do!

💌~ when it's cold who is the first one to want to cuddle together and use any excuse to get close to the other? on the other hand, who's the first one to kick the other off the bed when it's way too hot?

🕊️~ ding dong! a random store owner believes the two of you are married despite the fact you aren't (yet?) what do you both do in that moment?

🥀~ as lovely as relationships can be, what happens when insecurities start to play a part in them? does a conversation happen naturally or does something need to happen before healing can start?

💋~ who is more affectionate? who ends up kissing more often and wanting to be kissed all the time? where are both of your favorite spots to be kissed?

🩰~ do the two of you like dancing together? what dances do you two like to do? are either of you any good at it?

🍭~ did either of you have past relationships? do you talk about them? do you both trust each other to open up about it or would the two of you just want to move forward instead?

(please remember to practice rb karma, dears, be kind with one another) (pr//ship please dni, ty!)

divider @/kodaswrld

aploheartz

gonna try do this one with Slade send me asks

aploheartz

finally decided to just answer a few of them ahead of time to see if that gets people sending asks about the others, unanswered will be in bold. again I have other f/os but this is being answered with focus on my relationship with Slade in particular

🩷~ Q: what's your favorite activity that your f/o does just for you, even if it's not their favorite in the world?

🩷~ A: send an ask

🌸~ Q: do you and your f/o like to wear matching couple outfits? or do the two of you prefer wearing your own style when going out?

🌸~ A: send an ask

🍧~ Q: what type of music do you pick to play on road trips? who's grabbing the aux cord the second they jump into the car?

🍧~ A: send an ask

🍓~ Q: can you and your f/o swim? explain what you do at the beach together depending on what you can and can't do!

🍓~ A: He probably could. I don't know how the swim tho, not for lack of being taught, but bad memory combined with it pretty much being one week a year as a child and it being years since then, it never stuck. Also I don't like sand on me, prefer to look at beaches than be on them. So, we wouldn't go swimming or on walks down the beach probably, but maybe a date watching the beach while we have some food is on the table

💌~ Q: when it's cold who is the first one to want to cuddle together and use any excuse to get close to the other? on the other hand, who's the first one to kick the other off the bed when it's way too hot?

💌~ A: send an ask

🕊️~ Q: ding dong! a random store owner believes the two of you are married despite the fact you aren't (yet?) what do you both do in that moment?

🕊️~ A: send an ask

🥀~ Q: as lovely as relationships can be, what happens when insecurities start to play a part in them? does a conversation happen naturally or does something need to happen before healing can start?

🥀~ A: I don't think he'd let a problem stay a problem for long, once he notices something's wrong, he'd make sure we talked about it and got things sorted out for the better

💋~ Q: who is more affectionate? who ends up kissing more often and wanting to be kissed all the time? where are both of your favorite spots to be kissed?

💋~ A: send an ask

🩰~ Q: do the two of you like dancing together? what dances do you two like to do? are either of you any good at it?

🩰~ A: I'm not much it a dancer around other people, so probably not. I mostly just feel the music and vibe by myself. If I'm doing specific moves I guess I kinda do goth style dancing but whether that's good or not can be very subjective. I like goth dancing. Maybe that could work with another person considering it's kinda flowy and loose? Idk. Can't exactly picture Slade dancing tho lol

🍭~ Q: did either of you have past relationships? do you talk about them? do you both trust each other to open up about it or would the two of you just want to move forward instead?

🍭~ A: I think we both did, I mean hell, he literally has children, and I have an ex. I don't think we'd talk about it much but things would be open to discuss it if either of us wanted to maybe

humunanunga

Boys are allowed to be feminine and that includes trans boys, pass it on. Girls are allowed to be masculine and that includes trans girls, pass it on. Nonbinaries are allowed to use feminine or masculine expression, pass it on.

humunanunga

Hey, do me a solid and really pass this on. Please give this lots of notes, thanks.

catchymemes