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[vlad-the-impala]

it admits that it wants to be raped and the purpose of feminism is to disfigure men and destroy our lives. stop entertaining feminism.

[immenselyeternalhunter]

Tumblr needs to be better at moderation

[bereniceheart]

for all the young girls out there, please stay safe and don't romanticize older men.

it's harmful and not good for you, it breaks my heart to see many of you wanting a older man but it's not something who will fulfill you it will only hurt you, they will take advantage of you in many many ways so please be careful always. ♡

[bereniceheart]

DO NOT date men, period.

[vlad-the-impala]

B — Behavioral Control

Behavioral control regulates what members do with their bodies, their time, their money, and their relationships. It is the most visible layer of BITE control — and the one that outsiders most easily notice, even if they misread it as “commitment” or “discipline.”

In high-control religions and cults, behavioral control may include:

Rules about dress, diet, sleep schedules, and physical appearance

Mandatory attendance at meetings, services, study groups, or confession sessions

Financial requirements — tithing percentages, mandatory donations, or controlling access to earnings

Regulation of sexual behavior, relationship choices, and who members are permitted to marry

Restrictions on who members may associate with — including family members who have left or who disagree with the group

Punishments for noncompliance: public shaming, shunning, loss of privileges, or formal discipline

Behavioral control is particularly effective because it creates physical and social dependency. When the group controls your schedule, your community, your housing, your finances, and your daily routines, leaving doesn’t just mean leaving an ideology — it means losing your entire infrastructure of life.

[immenselyeternalhunter]

This is such a fucking stretch from someone who's clearly mentally unwell. Being a retarded woman who thinks that misogyny towards other women validates her mental illness and male larp is fucking killing me

No, advising girls and women to avoid men because they are 98% of rapists and commit a shit ton of ipv, much of it something that they are not held accountable for is not what the bite model should be applied to.

Online troon spaces definitely behave closer to a cult and the bite model will definitely apply there

[rosemarysfemhusband]

Child abuse is legal in the U.S. and I’m seriously sick of people pretending that it isn’t or that you can CPS a kid out of an abusive household or fuck, an abusive school. Circumstances that would’ve been considered assault, harassment, or even sexual abuse should they had happened between two adults are disregarded the moment it’s clear the victim is a child and the perpetrator is a parent/guardian. Corporal discipline is not better than child abuse, it sanctions child abuse, and it is, unfuckingrefutably, child abuse. The system is not built to help children in these circumstances, they cannot just go to a trusted adult, or a teacher, or the police, or anywhere else for fucks sake. It doesn’t work that way. CPS does not save you, even if they take you from your home! Anyone who was abused — with or without the marks to prove it — knows that.

[immenselyeternalhunter]

Yeah the people putting teenagers on drugs of puberty blockers for gender confusion and then immediately doping them up with high-dose cross sex hormones (almost no child who is put on puberty blockers to "think about it" feels like they can just stop and not go on cross-sex hormones)

So yeah, abuse is definitely happening. especially in the hospitals actively hiding what they're doing like some whistleblowers have discovered.

https://archive.fo/N3aHY

[vlad-the-impala]

we're supposed to care about "femcide" the killing of the bitches that brag about killing us and getting away with it. women are subhuman animals. women are not and will never be human.

[nnnero]

how does it feel knowing that if femicide was a standard practice is california 25 years ago you would have been killed as a baby

[nnnero]

how does it feel knowing that if child marriage was a standard practice in california you would have been sold off at 13 to a man in his 40s who wouldn't give two shits about your gender identity

[nnnero]

how does it feel knowing that if fgm was a standard practice in california 25 years ago you would have - wait, you'd probably like that

[vlad-the-impala]

how does it feel knowing that if retard abortion was a standard practice in kentucky 25 years ago you'd have been aborted

[woman-island]

The rape threaths this TRANNY send me and is now playing victim like his brainrotted ideology ask of him. Bunch of perverted clowns.

[immenselyeternalhunter]

She.... (Ftm)

[sichorean]

Oh okay so we're just making claims that trans-identified males are "generally incapable of sexual assault" now based on total bullshit. It also ignores pretty much all studies around rape and sexual violence not being primarily driven by sexual desire but by entitlement, control, and misogyny.

This was genuinely made to silence victims of male sexual violence and shut down any discussions around safeguarding.

[insaneentityech0]

First one is immediately the bioessentialism they constantly accuse radfems of I'm not fucking reading the rest of that bullshit

[immenselyeternalhunter]

Yeah that is super relevant. Because men who have had their peen inverted definitely stop being whatever the f*** they were before that happened. See: Jessica Yaniv and Eli Elrick.

And while rape can be about power and dominance, it is often equally important or even more important that men target people they are sexually attracted to. Men feeling angry because women they want to have sex with don't want to have sex with them is not uncommon. So in some instances if the men feel like women are making them feel less than than they might think that directing sexual violence at her is a way to exact revenge. But the fact that the woman in question is what he's attracted to is very important. Some men think that they are irresistible and don't really care about consent so they trivialize sexual violence they commit.

[gendernihilistanarchocommunist]

“We can see that Nazism understands itself to be engaged in a culture war with Jews over gender roles and gender/sexual variance. But, just as we saw in the original National Socialist regime, Nazism also understands the fundamental terrain of this war to be on the level of biology. There is a deep anxiety expressed in Nazi and far-right thinking which is constantly concerned about the biological undermining of the white race yes, but also the white male, and his hormone balance, his testosterone level. Nazi political ontology understands the biological as one of, if not the most important terrains of political dispute. We know this in our understanding of Nazi race theory, but what has been neglected is the centrality of endocrinological purity and security to Nazi ideology. In this sense, endocrinological purity is the gender/sex corollary of the Nazi eugenic project of racial purity.”

— Joni Alizah Cohen, The Eradication of “Talmudic Abstractions”: Anti-Semitism, Transmisogyny and the National Socialist Project (via probablyasocialecologist)

[byjove]

“it’s because they’re always on that damn phone” -scientist studying the declining birthrate

[byjove]

It’s sooooo interesting that they keep studying the topic rigorously and writing piece after piece on what the cause could be but they never want to address the fact that America is not a good place to have a child. Even though the birth rate is falling across the board, they have to find some reason to make it a problem of the individual, a matter of selfishness or distraction instead of a greater societal struggle.

[swisssjeez]

The best arguments for excluding trans identifying males from female spaces highlight the trans community’s refusal of any and all safeguarding measures or limits. I have genuinely never encountered a person that didn’t see a problem with blindly letting any man that says “I’m a woman” into female changing rooms or prisons.

You say how can anyone distinguish a cis male predator from a transwoman early in transition? You say I just think there should be some sort of limit, maybe when they’ve had surgery or when they’ve legally changed their name and gender marker. And everyone agrees. Then you point out that the trans community refuses that, they spit on it. It’s ‘accept any and every male at their word, anything less is violent bigotry” for them. Everyone can see that’s the situation. It bothers them too.

So you say it just feels icky how the trans community doesn’t seem to care at all about how women feel or making sure that women are safe. And suddenly, everyone is on the same page.

[leftistextradorinaire]

i think the coaches sexually assualting women are the actual problem in women's sports. There's more of them, they've been proven to be one of the biggest instigators of sexual abuse among female athletes.

But let's talk about how the handful of trans women competing in sports is the worst thing to happen to women in sports

[swisssjeez]

This is called “whataboutism”

And I didn’t even mention sports 💀

[leftistextradorinaire]

i mean, banning trans women from sports is the main thing right now. And apparently trans people existing is a problem to you ie your post. Thus, trans women existing in sports would be something this post is talking about.

Trans women aren' the problem. The problem is cis men in power being able to do whatever they want. A trans woman walking into a bathroom isn't assualt. The actual assualt in bathrooms in done by cis men not hiding they're men.

Like, your points are weak and based on hate and punishment and not fixing anything.

[swisssjeez]

And this: “And apparently trans people existing is a problem to you ie your post” is called a strawman

[leftistextradorinaire]

I like how you just don't understand what logical fallacies are

[immenselyeternalhunter]

Oh so you're just a loser full-time huh? good luck protecting your willful ignorance with every bit of strength your poor malnourished ass can muster.

[mortalityplays]

there is no single argument against including trans women in sports that doesn't boil down to "women aren't supposed to be good at this" and it's fucking insane to me that every woman in the world isn't up in arms about the way this issue has laid institutional misogyny bare to the bone

[immortalremnantriver]

men who id as trans can never undo their male puberty and it takes over THREE years of a sufficiently high dose of t blockers and cross sex hormones to maybe approximate women's strength. Please grow a damn brain.

https://archive.ph/r67HL

Definitions of activational and organizational effects of hormones, from “Sex Differences in the Age of Genetics” (Arnold 2017. Hormones, Brain, and Behavior 3rd ed, vol 5)  In intact individuals, sex steroid hormones (testosterone & other androgens, estrogens, progestogens) vary predictably by sex. But sex differences develop even when hormone levels are controlled for during development. Sex differences exist even without hormonal differences. In mammals, the Y chromosome initiates not just hormonal cascades, but other developmental cascades as well, which create sex differences. And having two X chromosomes, vs one X chromosome, has effects on development.

https://archive.ph/HRXcQ

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Boxers who failed gender tests at world championships cleared to compete at Olympics

The IOC has confirmed that two boxers who were disqualified from last year’s world championships for failing gender eligibility tests will b

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[leftistextradorinaire]

once again boiling it down to "women are weak and fragile and can't take on men or they'll get hurt"

[immenselyeternalhunter]

Are you being stupid on purpose or is your reading comprehension always missing?

[witemglitch-deactivated20260709]

We have got to start telling women to kill themselves more often. Gay guys need to get more misogynistic NOW

[immenselyeternalhunter]

You're already a raging misogynist from hell. But by all means just let your behavior get more extreme, maybe eventually you'll end up in jail so you can have all those "gay orgies" you want. Anything you do to get you away from normal people I'm all for it.

[capricorn-season]

[unsentimentaltranslator]

I’ve been saying that complacent gen z/young millennial girlies love media from the past because the characters’ inability to dismantle the systems of oppression is a foregone conclusion, which makes these girlies feel more comfortable about their complete lack of will to dismantle today’s systems of patriarchal oppression.

[vvitchscvm-deactivated20230529]

one thing I've noticed about radfem-adjacents is the women who are most genuinely bigoted against trans ppl like clockwork are the most heterosexual and gender-conforming.

get the word "tranny" out of your mouth Samantha you have a boyfriend and two kids. you're not winning feminism.

the thrice-detransitioned butch lesbians among us criticizing misogyny in the trans movement don't fucking behave like that.

you just hate gender-non-conformists&your criticism is invalid.

[overtlydinosaurian]

I see it a lot, particularly those who don't want to say they're radfem or anything along those lines (ie: Radfem learning, radfem adjacent, etc.) and instead opt for terms like "gender critical" is telling, because they have chosen not to go with "feminist" or something inherently woman-centric. Instead, they are going for something slightly more targeted towards or associated with trans people.

So many aren't gender-critical. They're just trans critical. Gender is great until someone tries to "trans" it!

[i-love-discourse]

Perpetuating negative stereotypes regarding gender critical women just drives a wedge between women in general. I honestly don't think that the women who decide to call them general critical are just afraid of stepping up to the task of being 'radical feminist' or whatever. Absolutely no one is compelled to be anything.

All the women in the little gender critical group get treated like absolute shit by trans activists like Owen Jones, who conceives of them much like you do: It's easy to just paint the whole group as a bunch of bigoted conservatives when it's politically expedient to. But Jones only attacks these people because they compromise a fairly large group of people and they have the same complaints about the trans cultists as feminists do.

I don't like these posts. If you want to be in a ghetto of you and your two friends and call that radical feminism that's great, but what about the rest of us? You ignore all the bigoted, divisive lesbians out there while pretending that bad behavior is confined to a group of women that you choose to not like.

Homophobia and all of that is not something that is limited to a specific group of people, you can be gay and homophobic there's plenty of those kind of people, even though gays are minority.

[vvitchscvm-deactivated20230529]

how did you get from "don't call trans people slurs" to "divisive, bigoted lesbians"

homophobes should not in fact be in feminist spaces.

Maybe you can dig up Mary Daly and Hetty Betty Frieden and have your own little feminist movement with the homophobes instead.

[i-love-discourse]

f off😘

[vvitchscvm-deactivated20230529]

Nice colors.

Go show em somewhere else.

[vvitchscvm-deactivated20230529]

bonus round she made a post saying the real problem is "gay homophobes"

brilliant

[mithliya]

i don’t actually hate men. i don’t think or care about them enough to genuinely say i feel that strongly about them. i don’t want to hurt them, i don’t want them to even face misfortune, but i am wary of them, want to be far, far away from them, and hate how they treat women. but hate them? no, i don’t waste my time thinking of them or having strong feelings towards them. at worst, i dont care about men as a group. but i’ll happily call myself a man-hater and laugh at ppl who call me that anyways because that’s really just a way of trying to guilt women and make us fall in line when discussing male violence & misogyny. so if u want to call me a man-hater, sure! but in actuality, i don’t actually hate men and i doubt the vast majority of women actually hate men either.

[immenselyeternalhunter]

nah. you're too busy hating/publicly shaming/making spurious accusations of racism at women/girls instead. so ethical & objective uwu

[mithliya]

dworkin and sheila jeffries were just the radfem equivalent of those queerios who brag about how "gay" they are while banging the opposite sex. dworkin was also a pedo apologist (just like modern queerios lol). radblr pleeeease stop worshipping these clowns TToTT

idk if i’d say dworkin rly was a pedo apologist bc i mean that’s based on one of her older works afaik but yeah. they’re both lesbophobes basically. i’m baffled anyone actually thinks either are lesbians

[immenselyeternalhunter]

jeffreys isn't straight, morons.

[wombperiod-deactivated20240702]

If it was it was a lavender marriage then why did dworkin had sexual relations with her husband?

You try being in a het marriage as an abused raped lesbian woman who is likely fearful of denying a man sex due to your past. Not all women are as free as others in certain communities or times in the world to make certain choices. And remember that gay men are still just men with the same entitlement to women's bodies in less obvious ways.

[mithliya]

her husband claimed to be a gay man and they were both “out” as gay when they clearly weren’t. they both were clearly into the opposite sex and talked about loving one another & their sexual relationship which they described as passionate.. i think at this point, it’s clear u support political lesbianism & are a political lesbian bc i cant imagine pretending like that was a forced relationship that she totally didn’t want to be in when she was publicly claiming to be a lesbian while also publicly talking about a man being the love of her life and having sex they’d describe as passionate

[immenselyeternalhunter]

Stoltenberg had never has any sexual relations w/ her and had a history of using his proximity to a famous woman to get into young gay men's pants. They eventually grouped together & called him out for using them.

I can't imagine pretending like that was a forced relationship that she totally didn’t want to be in when she was publicly claiming to be a lesbian

dworkin was traumatized and probably under the influence of the lefty circles she was in when she had relationships w/ women (I've personally never read about her identifying as a lesbian). Not excusing her choices but I also don't know the context.

The marriage she was in was for legal reasons/neither of these two people had ever been anything but friends. Dworkin found Stoltenberg embarrassing towards the end of her life.

Imagine being so stupid as to spread lies about Dworkin, tho.

[mithliya]

i think that person is indeed a troll bc i cant imagine knowing anything about dworkin and genuinely arguing she was a lesbian in a lavender marriage where she was pressured into sex by an actual gay man… they were literally both “”””out””””” as gay and then talking about how much they love each other and how much they love having het sex w one another ?? like she did not once say anything to the contrary until her death so ..

[immenselyeternalhunter]

the dumb takes continue to be piling up

[mithliya]

i’m starting to think the TRAs were right about y’all but also i don’t like the TRAs either 😔

[mithliya]

the way so many of u invent rumours and gossip about each other is genuinely disturbing. the fact that so many of you are on lolcow spreading lies or saying vile things about other women is deranged. the way some of you will take an inkling of truth about another woman’s life and twist it into something else entirely is depraved. the way some of you hold onto shit a woman on radblr may or may not have even said 12 years ago and use it against her anytime she says something you dislike is bizarre. the ignoring of racism that is prevalent, the use of disturbing misogynistic terms, the lesbophobia that is always overlooked & downplayed, the downright harassment directed at lesbian rape victims that none of u speak up about, the way y’all will turn the worst women on here into martyrs, the bizarre pretending like heterophobia is real except calling it misogyny to look less stupid, the weird racial comments y’all make, the anons u send each other to bait each other so u can make each other look bad, the fact that almost none of u are concerned about the obvious conservative women spreading far-right propaganda on radblr, the zionism, the rape denialism, the antisemitism… what does this space have to offer? it’s too toxic and infested with garbage to actually help build female solidarity and class consciousness.

[immenselyeternalhunter]

maybe if mena gaf about other women she wouldn't be shaming every single interaction she has w/ them via posting the screenshots on her blog instead of dramamongering 24/7